Wichita East students walk out to protest anti-trans legislation

https://www.kake.com/story/50653908/wichita-east-students-walk-out-to-protest-antitrans-legislation

Thanks to Ali for the link.   

This is what terrifies the fundamentalists and right wing.   The acceptance and normalizing of kids / people who are not straight and not cis.  Schools have long taught kids to get along with each other and to not bully those who are different.  But republicans in red states want to change that teaching of acceptance and tolerance so they pass don’t say gay bills and anti-woke bills which simply mean get all representation of LGBTQ+ kids out of schools, libraries, and keep kids off social media.  It means stopping positive representations of LGBTQ+ people and stopping anti-bullying programs.  It means making LGBTQ+ kids targets of hate, anger, and labeling them as not normal.  It is othering them so they can be mistreated.   This is what it was like in the regressive past these older legislatures and fundamentalist religious leaders desperately want back.  These people want a straight cis Christian world only, no one else will be allowed.   Since these laws passed attacks on LGBTQ+ kids in schools and people in general have risen quickly.  It is a green light to thug gang rule.  Luckily the old kids won’t accept the intolerance and hate, but sadly it is working on the younger new students in schools.  They are being taught to hate and not accept the ones who feel different.   We have to stop these laws and reverse them.  Please help get the word out.  Please keep speaking up in support.  The haters and religious people on the other side are driven, they won’t stop, they will fight hard.  We have to also fight back as hard, and be louder than they are.   Hugs.  Scottie


https://www.kake.com/clip/15462622/wichita-east-students-walk-out-to-protest-anti-trans-legislation  Is the link to the video.

Wichita East high schoolers used their first amendment rights and walked out of class Tuesday to stand up for transgender youth rights. 

 

Dozens of Wichita East students made their voices heard at a walkout in protest of a piece of anti-trans legislation that bans minors from receiving gender affirming care. That piece of legislation is Senate Bill 233, and has already received approval from the Kansas House and Senate. 

 

“This will cause suffering that cannot be overstated. This will cause suffering,” said sophomore Juan Carlos Garcia. 

 

Garcia spoke up at the protest, to tell his peers about the importance of gender affirming care. 

 

“I have hope that those I love and those that need it will get their treatment. I hope that they will feel comfortable and I know if this bill is passed then they won’t be able to,” said Garcia.

 

Miles Wilson organized the protest, and he shared his experience as a person in the transgender community. 

 

 

 
 

 

 
 

 

 

“I thought I would not make it past 14, but I am 17 now,” said Miles Wilson, junior at East. 

 

The students discussed how validating gender affirming care was, and in a world without gender affirming care, many believe that would lead to an increase of youth trans suicide. 

 
 

“I hope that people learn that the students of East High are not going to stand for discrimination and oppression and we support the trans community and the cis kids here stand in solidarity  with the trans community and the trans community here will not sit back and let people oppress us,” said Wilson. 

 

The bill that started the protest is currently sitting on Governor Kelly’s desk awaiting approval or veto. 

 

After chanting, holding signs, and having a great discussion, the students said the walk out was a success. 

 

“We deserve to feel safe in our bodies, we deserve autonomy. We deserve happiness, we deserve to grow up,” said Wilson.

Ted Cruz VS Collin Allred

Is Libs of TikTok a Terrorist?

For legal purposes the title of this video is a question and not to be construed as a statement of fact. The Nex Benedict story has been tied to Libs of TikTok and its founder Chaya Raichik. Is she to blame? Why does the first amendment protect Libs of TikTok?

Let’s talk about the 2024 list from the Library Association….

Trans Kids Are Fighting for Their Rights in Texas

I want to thank Barry for sending me the link to this video.  Best wishes friend.  Scottie.

The video is about the politically driven fight to end trans care in Texas for minors and adults.  And how it is affecting four trans families and others.   In it you will hear false claims made about chopping off little boys penises which is not happening, but no mention of breast augmentation and nose jobs for teenage girls.  You will hear claims made that are misinformation, lies, and myths.  The goal is to create a straight cis fundamentalist Christian republican society ruled by men, and to do this they use the claims of saving the children to rile up the base and muddy the water to get more votes.  They don’t care who they hurt in the process, they wouldn’t even allow current minors on puberty blockers and hormones to be weaned off or to continue treatment.  This is not about the health of children as Texas did not accept summer food assistance for poor people, they did not do anything about school shootings and gun control, they did not increase child health care at all they only removed the medically accepted best practices for gender nonconforming kids.  Hugs.  Scottie

When Texas lawmakers introduce a record number of anti-trans bills, transgender kids and their families from across the state converge on the Capitol to fight back.

Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey signs DEI bill into law: What the ‘divisive concepts’ ban will do

https://www.al.com/news/2024/03/alabama-gov-kay-ivey-signs-dei-bill-into-law-what-the-divisive-concepts-ban-will-do.html

Let’s look at what is driving this push to end of diversity, equality, and inclusion.  Seem that most people would want those things.  Why would anyone want a large segment of the population to be treated as lessor, denied jobs, denied housing, denied loans, face unrestrained bigotry.   It can only come down to bigotry and the fragility of white males, the need for fundamentalist to return to a time of strict gender roles, and a push by religious people to put their religious bigotry before the rights of LGBTQ+ people to just be themselves in society and at work.   It is OK for black kids at the youngest ages to suffer discrimination, be made to feel bad about their skin color or have to feel fear of harm.   But it is illegal to make white kids feel uncomfortable that 150 years ago white people kept black / brown people as property doing horrible things to them as slaves.  WTF.  The only reason any white kids would feel uncomfortable or hate themselves for hearing this is if their come from a white supremacist family.   It they themselves have been taught that black people are inferior or lesser.  But what it can do is teach empathy for those who are different from you.  It simply is some people thinking they are superior to others and should have privilege.  And it is needed because systemic racism in the country still exists.  Don’t think so, look at large company corporate structures.  Most management is white males, most workers are mixed, and white males get promoted faster.  Look at congress, mostly white males despite them not being such a large majority in the population.  Look at loan rates, higher in black neighborhoods, yet home sales prices lower than a white home comparable in a white neighborhood.  The Steven Millers of the US feel that if any white straight cis male loses a job offer, promotion, or school placement for anyone else it is wrong and a crime.  No matter if the other person was more qualified, mo matter the situation, in their minds whites straight cis males always come first.  Hugs.  Scottie


A new Alabama law banning diversity, equity and inclusion offices, programming and training in public colleges and other state agencies will go into effect this fall.

 

Gov. Kay Ivey signed SB129, known as the “divisive concepts” bill, into law Wednesday. The law will become effective Oct. 1, 2024.

 

“My Administration has and will continue to value Alabama’s rich diversity, however, I refuse to allow a few bad actors on college campuses – or wherever else for that matter – to go under the acronym of DEI, using taxpayer funds, to push their liberal political movement counter to what the majority of Alabamians believe,” Ivey said in a statement Wednesday.

 
 

“We have already taken action to prevent this in our K-12 classrooms, and I am pleased to sign SB129 to protect our college campuses. Supporting academic freedom, embracing diversity of cultures and backgrounds and treating people fairly are all key components of what we believe in Alabama, and I am more than confident that will continue.”

 
 

Alabama joins Florida and Texas in enacting the wide-ranging legislation, which asks for sweeping changes or cancellations to state agencies and public colleges that currently fund DEI offices and programming. It is not clear yet whether the law will force some state colleges, which support a combined $16 million in diversity spending, to lay off staff.

 
 

The law bans any program that “advocates for a divisive concept.” It also would prohibit higher education institutions from allowing individuals to use a restroom that is different from their sex as assigned at birth.

 
 

Passage of the Republican-backed legislation comes after lengthy debate in the House and Senatemultiple student protests and criticism from civil rights advocates and educators.

 
 

Ban supporters said the legislation would prevent “indoctrination” and “far-left ideology” in classrooms, and gave some examples of where they believed white students were made to feel uncomfortable on college campuses.

 
 

Opponents of the ban credited DEI programs for providing access and financial support, improving their campus experience, and in some cases, saving their lives. Others also worried that a ban would deter businesses and athletes from coming to the state.

 
 

“This unjust and inhumane bill ignores the will of the people and threatens years of progress toward racial and social justice and LGBTQ+ rights for generations to come,” said Jerome Dees, Alabama policy director for the SPLC Action Fund. “Students and workers value diversity, equity and inclusion in their schools and workplaces because it makes us all more safe.”

 
 

In a message to students and faculty Tuesday evening, University of Alabama System Chancellor Finis St. John IV and presidents of the System’s three campuses said leadership and legal counsel are working to determine what actions the colleges will need to take to ensure their programs are in compliance with the law.

 
 

“It is important to note that SB 129 defines divisive concepts and DEI programs in specific terms, and it offers several exceptions for accreditation requirements, academic freedom, medical and mental health care, research, recruiting and outreach, and a host of other areas. Please look to official university communications for guidance as we continue to assess the legislation,” the statement read.

 
 

“We recognize differences strengthen our campuses and help us successfully prepare students to live and work in a global society. We remain committed to recruiting and retaining outstanding students, faculty and staff from all backgrounds, providing open and equal access to resources and opportunities, and equipping all campus community members for success at our universities and beyond.”

 
 

What would the law do?

 
 

The law lists eight so-called “divisive concepts,” with most covering topics related to race, ethnicity, sex, religion and national origin.

 
 

Its sponsor, Sen. Will Barfoot, R-Pike Road, said nothing in the legislation prevents the accurate teaching of history. Educators who knowingly “compel” students to believe certain banned ideas, however, could be terminated or disciplined at the discretion of college and school board leaders.

 
 

After debate on the Senate floor last month, the law will no longer prohibit college staff from discussing whether slavery and racism are aligned with the founding principles of the United States.

 
 

Democrats also added specific protections for women’s sports, the state Office of Minority Affairs, and changes to ensure “sex” was added to the list of protected classes in places where it was omitted.

 
 

Recent changes, which were approved on Tuesday, more clearly define the role of a contractor and protect those individuals from termination if they violate the law by accident. Another amendment ensures that nothing in the law would infringe on First Amendment rights of students or employees.

 
 

The law says it will not impede academic or medical research, federal reporting requirements or support services. It also does not prohibit housing or organizations that are segregated by sex, or affect “certain circumstances relating to accreditation.”

 
 

Students or staff may host a DEI program or event, it added, but must not use state money to fund it.

 

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DeSantis: Florida Has “Restored Sanity” On Measles

I refuse to post the full story of DeathSantis beating his chest proudly denying that vaccines against measles need not be taken while a horribly dangerous disease sweeps the state keeping kids out of schools for months at a time.   It is not just an itch spots disease but one that can kill, main, leave lifelong disabilities, pain, and blindness along with many other things like organ failure.   Why oh why do you think parents were desperate to have their children vaccinated in the 1960s.   They had seen the results of the disease.  The vaccines are safe and effective.  Plus nowhere in the bible does it say don’t take vaccines.  This entire anti-vaccine crap was started by people conflating something with them that they did not cause, then quacks, scammers, and conspiracy nuts kept it going and growing.   It has become a sign of what political party you belong to by if you accept medical science.  Think about that, people walking around with modern tech all over them, want to return to a medical time when people barely washed their hands.  Hugs.  Scottie

 

With NOT getting the MMR, it is also Rubella, “German Measles”, that, if a woman gets it while pregnant in the 1st Trimester, the child could be born with

The most common birth defects from CRS (Congenital Rubella Syndrome) can include:
Deafness
Cataracts
Heart defects
Intellectual disabilities
Liver and spleen damage
Low birth weight
Skin rash at birth

https://www.cdc.gov/rubella…

‘The national medical health establishment and the media lost the public’s confidence with their botched response to COVID-19.’

Premise is false. All that happened is that the federal gov’t didn’t capitulate to the delusional violent MAGAts who believed COVID was a hoax.

That’s it.

Nothing more.

I guess we’re in Opposite Land today

So, his kids are in private school/day care and I am sure have all their shots.

“To date, no additional cases have occurred at Manatee Bay Elementary since Friday”

Might be because they’ve changed the rules around reporting infectious diseases? And consistently go out of their way to attribute “politically inconvenient” deaths as anything else.

 

Calmly Destroying Christian Apologists with Science for an Hour

Another great video destroying anti-trans propaganda, myths, and misinformation.  He talks slow, is methodical, and uses sources he displays and has in his description box to make his points.   Often he will go through the studies that the anti-trans people use to show they either did not say what is claimed, are way out of date, used the wrong methods, or simply were created to be used for anti-trans propaganda.  He shows not only the bad studies and debunks them, but the real modern medically reviewed and approved studies showing that very few detransition and those that do mostly do so because of negative treatment from society, peers, and family.  People who live all their childhood knowing and claiming they are a different gender are not suddenly going to stop saying it at 18 or 21.  If they are going to suffer all that mistreatment and hate growing up, they are what they are telling you.   Hugs.  Scottie

Frank Turek and Sean McDowell make ridiculous pseudoscientific claims about LGBTQ people. Here I debunk them with actual scientific research.

Go to https://ground.news/skeptic to verify your information.

Subscribe using my link for 30% off unlimited access or try it this month for less than $1. Claims I debunk: Abuse and trauma cause non-heterosexuality and gender non-conformity, not affirming queer people is the best way to help them, being gender nonconforming is a social media contagion, rapid onset gender dysphoria is real, gender dysphoria can and should only be treated with therapy or prayer, gender dysphoria is similar to and should be treated in the same way as anorexia, 80% of gender dysphoric youths grow out of it by age 18, medical intervention for gender dysphoria does not help mental health outcomes, and trans s rates skyrocket 10 years after transition.

DeSantis signs social media restrictions for kids, age verification for porn sites

https://www.tallahassee.com/story/news/politics/2024/03/25/florida-gov-desantis-signs-bill-social-media-restrictions-for-kids-age-verification-porn-sites/73089957007

I have covered these bans before.  Simply put the fundamentalist conservative right are terrified that social media is showing our kids that it is ok to be accepting and tolerant while doing things for all the public instead of just the wealthy.   In other words, showing them a different way they could be than simply right wing fundamentalist religious straight cis republicans.  So they revamped schools to indoctrinate the kids with right wing fundamentalist.  Ah but their indoctrination was being undone by social media.   Well ban that also.  See that is the right wing way, they don’t like it so ban it, they are the original cancel culture creators.  Their way of thinking is to force everyone to live and be just as they are, think like they do, be who they are told to be.  Force everyone to worship the same way, live the same way, listen to only the same stuff, eat the same meals … in the land of the free!  Their idea of freedom is the right to take freedom away from others.  Hugs.  Scottie


House Speaker Paul Renner said the bill addresses the ‘addictive features that are at the heart of why children stay on these platforms for hours on end.’

Douglas Soule
USA TODAY NETWORK – Florida
 

Gov. Ron DeSantis Monday signed into law sweeping social media restrictions that also requires age verification to access pornographic websites in Florida.

The measure would take effect at the beginning of 2025 – if it survives expected lawsuits from the nation’s largest tech companies.

In that case, minors under 16 would be barred from social media platforms, unless they’re 14- or 15-year-olds who get a parent’s permission.

“You can have a kid in the house safe, seemingly, and then you have predators that can get right in there into your own home,” DeSantis said at a press conference in Jacksonville. “You could be doing everything right but they know how to get and manipulate these different platforms.”

 
 
 

The governor was joined by local school officials and bill sponsors as well as state Attorney General Ashley Moody and Education Commissioner Manny Diaz Jr., all of whom backed the policy.

Also there was House Speaker Paul Renner, R-Palm Coast, who negotiated with DeSantis on the legislation (HB 3) after the governor vetoed the original version, citing legal and parents’ rights concerns.

The legislation passed both legislative chambers by a broad bipartisan basis, with only a fraction of Democrats dissenting, claiming it was government overreach that would be overturned in the courts. First Amendment advocacy organizations have also come out against the measure, saying largely the same.

Florida social media ban:Florida bans social media for children under 14. Here’s what happens next

But DeSantis and Renner said they believe the measure will survive judicial scrutiny.

“What’s unique in this bill is we didn’t focus on content,” Renner said. “You will not find a line in this bill that addresses good speech or bad speech because that would violate the First Amendment.

“… But what we have addressed is the addictive features that are at the heart of why children stay on these platforms for hours and hours on end.”

The bills defines the affected social media platforms as ones with features such as push notifications and infinite scrolling, which loads content as the user scrolls down, eliminating the need to click to a next page. Those features have had an “devastating effect” on the mental health of children, Renner said.

Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis signs the paperwork for Florida House Bill 3 at the Cornerstone Classical Academy in Jacksonville on Monday, March 25, 2024, along with local and state leaders. The bill bans Floridians younger than 16 from "addictive" social media platforms but with exceptions for those who are 14 or 15 and get parental permission.

Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis signs the paperwork for Florida House Bill 3 at the Cornerstone Classical Academy in Jacksonville on Monday, March 25, 2024, along with local and state leaders. The bill bans Floridians younger than 16 from "addictive" social media platforms but with exceptions for those who are 14 or 15 and get parental permission.
 

He predicted an imminent legal challenge from NetChoice, a tech industry trade group that has filed lawsuits in other states against similar measures and has opposed Florida’s.

In a statement shared shortly after the signing, the group called the restrictions unconstitutional.

“An unconstitutional law will protect exactly zero Floridians. HB 3 is also bad policy because of the data collection on Floridians by online services it will in effect require. This will put their private data at risk of breach,” said Carl Szabo, NetChoice’s vice president and general counsel.

“HB 3 forces Floridians to hand over sensitive personal information to websites or lose their access to critical information channels,” he continued. “This infringes on Floridians’ First Amendment rights to share and access speech online.”

This reporting content is supported by a partnership with Freedom Forum and Journalism Funding Partners. USA TODAY Network-Florida First Amendment reporter Douglas Soule can be reached at DSoule@gannett.com.

 
 

Report: LGBTQ content drove book banning efforts in 2023

This is interesting.  I even found the news report that went with it very interesting.  In the video the Mom’s for Liberty claims they were not banning or burning books, but then she goes on to say these books should be available for people under 18 in libraries.  When she was asked about how in her push for her parents rights, she was effectively removing the rights of parents who endorse their child reading those types of books.  She replied that they had that right to read it to their kids but not give it to hers.  Fair but by removing them from a library how would a poor parent working many hours to survive get the book or a kid questioning their feelings know where to find it or how to get it.  Again kids who are different, who are gay or gender nonconforming know that at a young age.  They know they are different, they know they feel differently than their classmates.  I am gay, knew that very young.  In elementary classes some of my classmates had crushes on their female teachers, I had one on my male teacher.  It is something straight cis people don’t seem to understand because the world is set up for the way they feel, so they are accepted, they are comfortable.  Some people want so badly to keep that straight cis only world and avoid losing their comfort and status so badly they would force large segments of the population to deny their authentic self and live in misery by living a lie.  That is incredible selfish and regressive minded.   One great thing is the second video after the first shows how conservatives and fundamentalists are losing reelection to school boards and offices controlling education that they won only a few years ago driven to control how everyone lives including how children learn. One other thing was that she said a book used the N word, which she said in its integrity, and she felt that it was wrong for a 7 year old to read or hear that word.  OK but that word is thrown at little black kids for the smallest ages.  I posted of a four year old black girl called that.  The right wing hate media uses the word constantly.  So why not explain to kids what the word means and its harmful history to explain why it is not used today as the Mom’s for Liberty just did.   Hugs.  Scottie


  Video at link.    https://abcnews.go.com/US/video/authors-top-banned-books-discuss-censorship-103772580

The latest report marks the start of National Library Week.

April 8, 2024, 11:43 AM
 

The American Library Association released its annual list of the top 10 most targeted books of 2023 on Monday, the majority of which were challenges because of their LGBTQ content.

“Gender Queer” by Maia Kobabe topped the list for the third year in a row. The graphic memoir, which chronicles the author’s experience with sexuality and gender from childhood to adulthood, was challenged for its LGBTQ content and for claims that it is sexually explicit.

PHOTO: “Gender Queer,” by Maia Kobabe
“Gender Queer,” by Maia Kobabe
Courtesy of Oni Press

“At ALA, we are fighting for the freedom to choose what you want to read,” said ALA President Emily Drabinski in the announcement. “Shining a light on the harmful workings of these pressure groups is one of the actions we must take to protect our right to read.”

In 2023, the ALA recorded 4,240 unique titles that have been targeted for removal or restriction in libraries and schools. It’s a record-breaking 65% increase from 2022, the highest totals recorded by the ALA since it began collecting data more than 20 years ago.

 

MORE: What’s in some of the most challenged books in America?

 

 
 

Jennie Pu, ALA member and Hoboken Public Library Director, told ABC News that “this list affirms the pattern that we’re seeing, that it’s a small group of people who don’t want their stories to be told and the retargeting of historically underrepresented and marginalized voices.”

 

Hoboken’s library system was declared a book sanctuary in 2023.

Across the country, classroom and library content has been at the center of contentious debates between educators, librarians, parents and politicians. Conservative-led legislative efforts to restrict what discussions and content could be had in classrooms regarding race, gender, sex, and sexual orientation has ignited a debate about the materials students and their families have access to.

Advocates of such legislation say these policies ensure that “inappropriate” content is weeded out of classrooms to protect children from “indoctrination,” Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis and Texas Gov. Greg Abbott have said.

Politicized groups or individuals have been at the center of large swaths of book challenges nationwide, sometimes demanding the censorship of multiple titles — often dozens or hundreds at a time. This helped drive the surge in book challenges, according to the ALA.

The other most-targeted titles, in order of the number of challenges, are:

PHOTO: “All Boys Aren’t Blue,” by George M. Johnson
“All Boys Aren’t Blue,” by George M. Johnson
Courtesy of Farrar, Straus and Giroux

2. “All Boys Aren’t Blue,” by George M. Johnson, for LGBTQ content and claims of sexually explicit content.

 

3. “This Book is Gay,” by Juno Dawson, for LGBTQ content, sex education, and claims of sexually explicit content.

PHOTO: “The Perks of Being a Wallflower,” by Stephen Chbosky
“The Perks of Being a Wallflower…Show more
Courtesy of Simon & Schuster

4. “The Perks of Being a Wallflower,” by Stephen Chbosky, for LGBTQ content, rape, drugs, profanity and claims of sexually explicit content.

5. “Flamer,” by Mike Curato, for LGBTQ content and claims of sexually explicit content.

 

MORE: Book bans and anti-LGBTQ laws: how queer authors are responding

 

 
 
PHOTO: “The Bluest Eye,” by Toni Morrison
“The Bluest Eye,” by Toni Morrison
Courtesy of Vintage International

6. “The Bluest Eye,” by Toni Morrison, for themes about rape, incest, DEI content and claims of sexually explicit content.

 

7. “Tricks,” by Ellen Hopkins, for LGBTQ content, themes concerning drugs, rape, and claims of sexually explicit content, tied with “Me and Earl and the Dying Girl,” by Jesse Andrews for claims of sexually explicit content.

9. “Let’s Talk About It,” by Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan, for LGBTQ content, sex education, and claims of sexually explicit content.

10. “Sold,” by Patricia McCormick, for claims of sexually explicit content and themes concerning rape.

The ALA compiles its data from reports filed with its Office for Intellectual Freedom by library professionals and news reports. However, the organization says the data is only a “snapshot” of book censorship attempts because it’s not likely that all attempts are reported to the ALA or covered by the press.

The latest report marks the start of the organization’s National Library Week.

 

LGBTQ Books Top List Of 2023’s Most Challenged Titles

 

 

Heaven forbid children grow up with the idea that it’s OK to be who they are.

That’s exactly what they are afraid of.

They want us afraid and loaded up with trauma.

Children are irredeemably broken from the minute they are born unless their parents subject them to a public dunking and give money to a man wearing a dress.

#4 must be books.

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Conservatives have been seething since the Stonewall riots of 1969 and especially since 1973 when homosexuality was removed from the list of psychiatric disorders in the DSM. They’ve been plotting their revenge ever since and it’s now reaching a climax. Time to take up arms again and hit the streets, if that’s what it takes.

I still think this is their dying gasp. The nutters might try to force everyone to return to ‘church’, but that’s just not going to happen. They’re dangerous, so be prepared. Let them shoot each other in the streets though. IMO

They are not going to get people in the pews using the very reason people no longer go.

I agree. the USA has always had these swings between religion and irreligiosity. right now the pendulum is swinging toward irreligiosity and the nutcases are scared, because they know they will eventually lose. and they also refuse to accept their extremism is why they are losing.

Kids don’t read sexually charged literature for porn. It is much more readily available on line, with none of the hassle of reading.

I remember back when I was growing up and the only books allowed in the Library were the ones that talked about how wrong being gay was. Lots of books though talking about how you could change to straight easy peazy. Really FUCKED ME UP as a kid.

The same was true for me when I checked out a book called “growing up straight.” It fucked me up, that is, until I checked out another book called “Society and the healthy homosexual.” It sent me straight, so to speak.

My memoir, “Everything I Learned, I Learned in a Chinese Restaurant,” was recently banned by my high school. I had booked an all-school assembly with the librarian for Nov. She loved the book so much she wanted to do a second event at the rival high school. A week after I gave my approval, she wrote me and said she couldn’t move forward with either event and that I need to talk to the assistant superintendent if I had any further questions. Moms for Liberty is active and they are threatening to recall politicians, so it’s easier to upset the writer than the moms. My book was just named a notable book from the State of MI and an honor book from Stonewall, yet I still can’t go back to my own high school.

Our visibility is poison to them. In many ways we can thank Ken Mehlman for all of this.

I remember growing up and my parents would not allow me to read “The Exorcist.” Guess what I was reading when I went to bed.
“Your mother sows socks that smell.”