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DeSantis, Newsom Debate

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DeSantis, Newsom Debate

Last night was the big debate between Govs. Ron DeSantis (R-FL) and Gavin Newsom (D-CA). We’d like to give you a link so that if you missed it, and would like to watch, you could do so. However, at Fox, the news is a business and not a public service, and this was (technically) a regular episode of Hannity. So, if you want to watch it, you have to pay for Fox’s streaming service. Sorry. That said, here’s a pretty good 3-minute rundown of the highlights.

We watched it, of course, because that’s part of our responsibilities. And we’re going to give you our assessment by focusing on the four entities that were (or, in one case, were not) a part of the debate:

  1. Newsom: Newsom may have been going into hostile territory, but he almost certainly had the easier task, which was to establish himself as a credible candidate of national stature. And he managed to achieve his goal.

    Newsom would love, love, love to be butter-smooth, like Barack Obama, Bill Clinton or Ronald Reagan, but he’s not that. It’s probably not a coincidence that all three of those men were either college professors or actors; two jobs that force you to learn how to read and respond to an audience. Newsom is also not a passionate, fire-breathing true believer, like Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-VT); not that the Governor is shooting for that.

    No, Newsom is a wonky debater, like Sen. Elizabeth Warren (D-MA). That’s not an insult; Warren was a champion debater who was good enough at it to earn a college scholarship. Being like Warren means that Newsom had strong command of facts and statistics, that we was well-prepared for DeSantis’ lines of attack and was generally able to parry them, that he generally was capable of thinking on his feet and adapting when needed, and that he got off the occasional bon mot. Certainly the line of the night (which was undoubtedly pre-written) was when Newsom looked at DeSantis and said that “[what] we have in common is that neither of us will be the nominee for our party in 2024.”

  2. DeSantis: DeSantis, meanwhile, had de facto home field advantage, but he had the harder task, namely to try to change the trajectory of the 2024 GOP primaries. The Governor did not come within a country mile of doing that.

    To start, DeSantis showed once again that he has exactly one facial expression, which is “grimace.” And he has one tone of voice, which is nasal/whiny. No matter what he says, whether it’s pro-Democratic or pro-Republican, it’s going to be kind of a turn off because he is kind of a turn off.

    Beyond that, however, DeSantis’ remarks and responses had three themes: California sucks, Democrats suck and Joe Biden sucks. If you can explain how any of those three messages help explain why you should vote for DeSantis instead of Donald Trump, then you are cleverer than we are.

    It is also the case that DeSantis seems to live in a fantasy world (but definitely not in Fantasyland, where he’s not welcome). Most obviously, his version of California is that it is a dystopian hellscape. This comports with Republican talking points, but not with reality. At various points, DeSantis claimed that California has made it legal for unhomed people to defecate on the sidewalk (he even held up a map of defecation hotspots in San Francisco) and to light their own encampments on fire, that it takes twice as long to shop in California because everything is under lock and key to prevent theft, and that women in the state can never wear jewelry in public because they are certain to be mugged. The Governor shared similar fantastical ideas about Democrats and about Biden.

    This is not to say that everything that came out of DeSantis’ mouth was a lie or an exaggeration, or that some of his ideas about California don’t have SOME basis in reality. For example, (Z), who walks around Los Angeles a lot, has seen human feces on the sidewalk… twice. At his local drug store, the razors, baby formula, cigarettes and liquor are under lock and key… while 95% of the inventory is not. And he knows a couple of women who turned their wedding rings around while in downtown. On the other hand, he’s been to Florida, and he’s seen most of these things there, too.

    Maybe there are people out there who accept everything DeSantis says uncritically. Probably there are. But anyone watching with even a sliver of an open mind surely has to be left with the impression that he’s as truth-challenged as Trump is, while being considerably less effective at selling his lies and exaggerations.

  3. Hannity: Hannity made clear that he should never, ever, ever be allowed to moderate a real debate, even if it’s candidates for assistant dogcatcher of East Cupcake. The first problem is that despite the fact that it was his show, and his studio, with microphones ostensibly controlled by his staff, he had absolutely no ability to enforce discipline. The candidates constantly talked over each other. Not only was Hannity unable to control it, but he eventually became petulant and whiny, at one point complaining that “I’m not a potted plant here!”

    The second problem is that a disproportionate number of Hannity’s questions were, to be blunt, stupid. For example, he asked the two governors to “grade” Joe Biden, while not allowing them to explain their choice of grade. Surprise, surprise; DeSantis gave Biden an “F” and Newsom gave an “A.” What on earth was the point of that exercise? What could possibly be learned from that? And there were a lot of questions of that sort, that basically boiled down to: “Please give me your talking point on [Subject X].”

    And the third problem is that Hannity started the debate by promising to be a neutral arbiter, but then spent the entire debate putting his thumb (and the rest of his hand, and arm) on the scale for DeSantis. To take one example, Hannity’s staff had a pre-prepared graphic that revealed that since 2019, California has had 19 mass shootings that killed 4 or more people while Florida has had 9 such shootings. This was part of the discussion of gun-control laws (California) or lack thereof (Florida), and was meant to help DeSantis make his point that gun-control laws don’t work.

    We are not experts on gun-violence statistics, but we suspect some cherry picking here. At very least, with such a small number of qualifying incidents per year, there has to be some amount of random variation here, which means that 4 years is too small a sample size. Also, the population of California is 39.24 million, while the population of Florida is 21.78 million, which means California has 180.1% of the population that Florida does. Meanwhile, 19 is 211% of 9. So, it would seem the primary difference between California and Florida when it comes to the total number of mass shootings is… California has way more people. And there were at least a dozen things like that, where Hannity and his team had chosen statistics or had made infographics clearly designed to prop up DeSantis.

  4. The Audience: One of Newsom’s requirements for attending the debate was “no audience,” and he got what he wanted. And wow, even with the two governors yelling over each other on a constant basis, the absence of an audience was still noticeable and a vast, vast improvement. Debates are not a football game, and the viewing audience does not need to be told what to think or feel by a bunch of howling yahoos.

Who knows if this is a one-off, or if it will establish some sort of tradition? We tend to suspect that DeSantis will not be eager to repeat the experiment, once someone tells him that he did himself absolutely no good when it comes to the 2024 presidential race, but that’s just a guess. (Z)

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Shit, shit, he knows, hell I told him. It hurts. He hugged me.

I don’t really know how to write this.  It has been so upsetting to me, yet he needed to know, and his not knowing was also becoming a problem.  I was trying so hard to hide it all from him that it was causing him to wonder why some things were causing me to have issues.  

Yesterday I arranged for each of us to get three vaccines from our local Walgreens pharmacy.  We both got the covid, the flu, and the RSV vaccine shot.  Then today I went and got my three allergy shots.  

When I got home I started doing dishes, Ron talked about not wanting me to work so hard in the house, as he was trying to get a door up between our living room and the rest of the house that the Hurricane Ian ripped off.  But then we started talking.  And my world went South, East, North, West, and all over the map.

I don’t know how the conversation came up, but it had something to do with my adoptive family and the hell spawn that abused me.  Ron said something about one of the hell spawn siblings, and it just slipped out.  I really never wanted to tell him, I told myself I wouldn’t.  But dogs that love gravy I did.  

I told him how the hell spawn knew I was adopted, and because there was an ambiguity over if I was really a member of the family or not.  Because the adoptive mother wanted me, but it became clear fast the adoptive father did not.  He made it clear I was not a member of the family.  But when I stopped being a cute toddler, she lost interest in me also.  

But back to today.  Ron mentioned something from the hell spawn, and I just started to tell him.  As I have said in 2007 on our way home I told him I had been abused but never told him more details and he said he had figured that out.  But then he has lived with me having terrible nightmares where I relive being raped or beaten.  So really I understood he would understand.  He has woken me when I was begging or screaming in my sleep.

I am not sure how it started now, my mind is trying hard to bury it.   But I started by telling him of the Vet across the street that was fucking me at 4, then I told him the worst of it, starting with how the hell spawn daughter / sister who was in charge of us at night would get her boyfriend sexual excited and then let him have me to satisfy his need.  She got pregnant at 14 like her mother, married by 15.  Three marriages, two of her husbands would molest / rape me.  One of her husbands loved to play with little boys wieners, especially when he was inside me.    I told him how each of the male hell spawn of the family who were teens used me repeatedly.  And how they let their friends have me.  I told him one of their fun games was forcing me to the top of the staircase, then pushing / throwing me down it.  Betting on how far I would go, how many times I would bounce, stuff like that.   And then the most painful, I told him parts, but not all of the abuse by the adoptive father.  He more than any others enjoyed hurting me. Maybe because he never wanted me at all, but regardless, the things he enjoyed doing to me, I still can not face today.   

Once I started, I just couldn’t stop.  I told him of the beatings, the sexual assaults, the fear of them all, the time the one hell spawn I thought I could trust to be my friend lay on top of me hitting me saying admit your gay, admit your gay.  I was 5 years old and she was 10, and had no idea what she was hitting me for.  Then she said because guys fuck you, you play with their dicks.  What, why is that wrong?  It is not like I had a choice!  I told him of the beatings, and other attempts to break my bones, and how the hell spawn used me sexually.  I nearly broke when I told him how one of then raped me so badly, I described to him how I was then beaten for soiling my sheets.  One of the hell spawn like to pee on me at night to get me into trouble, and when I finally got a bed I would wake up to him peeing on me and I knew in the morning I would again be blamed for wetting the bed.  The adoptive parents either did not believe me or thought it funny.  

He already knew how until I was like 7 or more, I slept in a hallway, because as my adoptive mother told me I did not need or deserve a bedroom / bed like the other kids.   Often they would take me to their beds, and I knew the price for the privilege and yes I willingly paid it.   Wouldn’t you?  I told him parts of my summer in Canada, and he said it explained why I wouldn’t have anything to do with the adoptive father’s mother when I was an adult and she would be visiting.  I refused to be in the same room with her.  He always wondered about that.  

I could go on, but I got a lot of stuff out that I had hidden from him.   Then suddenly after I was done explaining everything to him, or at least a lot that he did not know, I suddenly had the fear I always have had all my life.  I suddenly worried he wouldn’t love me, I was damaged, I had been fucked by a lot of boys / men not him.  I was less than, used and … Hell and shit, why did I tell him so much I had kept hidden!   Why now damn it!  34 years I had kept it hidden … yet today I exploded with the sexual and physical abuse information.  I know that is stupid to think that way, but he never knew the details.  I had kept them from him, leaving it vague.  He knew I was abused, but not the details, now he knows details.  

I did not even tell him about the court ordered visits to doctors or therapist. And how the cop that escorted me used it to have a tryst with his mistress, with me listening through the open door, seeing some of it.  Thankfully I don’t remember him telling me to join them, but as conditioned as I was, I would have.   

But as I was getting to the worst of it he sat next to me, and then as I was starting to falter and feel I did the very wrong thing, he slowly reached out to me.  I realize now that he did not want to trigger me. He stood up, came over closer and gently hugged me.  I was trying to say I was sorry, I did not mean to tell him, but he just held me.   Then after he let me go he suggested I go wash my face but he told me as I turned away.  “I love you, I have always loved you.  This changes nothing how I feel about you.” He said a lot of comforting things, things like they can’t hurt you and you won’t ever have to see them again, some are dead.  But he knows they still hurt me, they haunt me.  The memories are always there somewhere, waiting to pop back up.  

He made me a small supper but I was so upset I hardly ate.   Then he suggested I go to bed for a while.  But I struggled to sleep.  He came down to check on me and then rubbed my back and arms until I fell asleep. 


All that happened yesterday.   We got up about 3:45 am because Tupac wanted food and then out to do what cats do outside.  I am fixing errors, stuff that needed reworking, then I will post it.  Ron is treating me really softly this morning, he knows I got very little sleep.   My emotions are all over the place, my nerves are raw.  Maybe getting it out, letting him know the details, maybe the memories will let me rest, let me be for a while.   I have a doctor’s appointment this morning.   Oh well.  Hugs to all.    

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I wish I had a way on your blog to express both my sympathy and my anger at what happened. I wish so much you would allow comments. But if this is the only way to show sympathy and anger at what happened, then so be it.

I want so much to give each of you peace and justice. But what I want is not going to happen any more than I can imagine what you wanted to happen, did. In truth, I really wish, with no documentation, you could have your wish. I know I would hate to know of the result, but something inside me says you are owed that. Hugs. Scottie

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