I am an older gay guy in a long-term wonderful relationship. My spouse and I are in our 36th year together. I love politics and news. I enjoy civil discussions and have no taboo subjects. My pronouns are he / him / his and my email is Scottiestoybox@gmail.com
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Hi Jeff. He is. He sleeps on the towels next to me and they are four layers folded deep because he is incontinent and can’t control when the urine comes out. Hugs
Hi Ali. He is so attentive to me and that kind of bothers Ron. It is his cat. But Tupac lays on a towel on my desk and he lies on the towels next to me on the bed. But I had to pick him up at first and show him it was OK to lay on my desk before he got to where he gets up on his own. I started teaching him how to enjoy sitting in my lap but then he started to have trouble holding his pee so I stopped that. Ron doesn’t have a spot for him to lay next to him next to his recliner or on his desk or Tupac would. He sleeps snuggled next to me because I get to bed earlier which is when he comes in for the night and the towels are more on my side of the king size bed because Ron takes up a lot of bed when he sleeps. He likes to sprawl and move to the center. When I get to the new office I want a couch Ron was going to get rid of on the wall under the window so Tupac can lay there looking out as I worry when he is outside. He is very vulnerable with his injuries and his petite size. But yes rather than go out this morning he is up on my desk with his head 4 inches from the keyboard sleeping. Weird fact when he is on the towel on my desk he hates to have Ron and me talk in the room to each other or talk loudly between rooms or hear sounds of talking from my speakers. He will get down from my desk and leave the room. He wants quiet and warmth while he sleeps or simply is with me. Hugs
Hi MDavis. Yes it is. Please read my reply to Ali for more on how and why Tupac is closer to me. But the truth is I tend to draw animals to me and always have. Guess I am on their mental level. 😋😂🤣😎. Also I tend to respond more to him and his wants so he comes to me which bothers Ron. See Ron sitting in his recliner and has his ear buds in as he lies back and focuses on the TV. He can’t hear Tupac nor see him on the floor. I sit so I can see the door and doorway. So I see him sitting there or in the kitchen wanting something. He comes into my office and signals he wants something by coming up to my chair and turning around looking out. He will even walk back and forth from near me to the door. At night while we sleep he gets up and down using a chair we have on my side of the bed at my feet. So when he does either he will he will wake me so when he gets on the bed I will pet him for a few minutes. Plus when he cries out for something I hear it when Ron can not with his earbuds in or when he is sleeping. So when he gets up and cries for food I hear him and get up instead of Ron. If I wake Ron or he is awake he will do it, but normally it is me, so Tupac is used to coming to me for what he wants. Still I try to reassure Ron tupac loves him and is still his cat. Hugs
Hi MDavis. When that happened to me I had to sign out of WordPress. Restart the computer, clean all my cookies and browser junk out, restart my browser, and lastly sign back into WordPress. That solved it for me. Hugs
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Hi Jeff. He is. He sleeps on the towels next to me and they are four layers folded deep because he is incontinent and can’t control when the urine comes out. Hugs
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Aww-hi, there, little guy!
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Hi Ali. He is so attentive to me and that kind of bothers Ron. It is his cat. But Tupac lays on a towel on my desk and he lies on the towels next to me on the bed. But I had to pick him up at first and show him it was OK to lay on my desk before he got to where he gets up on his own. I started teaching him how to enjoy sitting in my lap but then he started to have trouble holding his pee so I stopped that. Ron doesn’t have a spot for him to lay next to him next to his recliner or on his desk or Tupac would. He sleeps snuggled next to me because I get to bed earlier which is when he comes in for the night and the towels are more on my side of the king size bed because Ron takes up a lot of bed when he sleeps. He likes to sprawl and move to the center. When I get to the new office I want a couch Ron was going to get rid of on the wall under the window so Tupac can lay there looking out as I worry when he is outside. He is very vulnerable with his injuries and his petite size. But yes rather than go out this morning he is up on my desk with his head 4 inches from the keyboard sleeping. Weird fact when he is on the towel on my desk he hates to have Ron and me talk in the room to each other or talk loudly between rooms or hear sounds of talking from my speakers. He will get down from my desk and leave the room. He wants quiet and warmth while he sleeps or simply is with me. Hugs
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Gotta love our pets!! 💖
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He’s got his eye on you, Scottie!
Hang on, isn’t that Ron’s cat?
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Hi MDavis. Yes it is. Please read my reply to Ali for more on how and why Tupac is closer to me. But the truth is I tend to draw animals to me and always have. Guess I am on their mental level. 😋😂🤣😎. Also I tend to respond more to him and his wants so he comes to me which bothers Ron. See Ron sitting in his recliner and has his ear buds in as he lies back and focuses on the TV. He can’t hear Tupac nor see him on the floor. I sit so I can see the door and doorway. So I see him sitting there or in the kitchen wanting something. He comes into my office and signals he wants something by coming up to my chair and turning around looking out. He will even walk back and forth from near me to the door. At night while we sleep he gets up and down using a chair we have on my side of the bed at my feet. So when he does either he will he will wake me so when he gets on the bed I will pet him for a few minutes. Plus when he cries out for something I hear it when Ron can not with his earbuds in or when he is sleeping. So when he gets up and cries for food I hear him and get up instead of Ron. If I wake Ron or he is awake he will do it, but normally it is me, so Tupac is used to coming to me for what he wants. Still I try to reassure Ron tupac loves him and is still his cat. Hugs
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Hi MDavis. When that happened to me I had to sign out of WordPress. Restart the computer, clean all my cookies and browser junk out, restart my browser, and lastly sign back into WordPress. That solved it for me. Hugs
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