So I was doing dishes as the call came in from the surgical center where I will be having my spine surgery. The woman was very indepth with my medications and past medical history. But then as we talked we got laughing about things and when she mentioned we were together 36 years I said they were wonderful years, and then Ron chimed in saying yes the years were great but the days were hell. The woman then opened up about how she couldn’t imagine the hell of two men living together. But before I could object she continued with how she has repeatedly told her husband that living with a man is horrible and as soon as he dies she will marry a woman. We went on to talk about how Ron had a gay bar and how grand the lesbians were.
Wow talk about how a conversation can flow and change. I thought she was about to go off on same sex marriage and then she went to how she was a lesbian struggling to deal with her male husband. The point is you never really know the issues others are dealing with unless they tell you. Hugs
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Glad you were there to hear it. If I were a woman I would be a lesbian too.
Too may men find me easy to confess to about my female friends, includihg episodes of cheating, lying, or strange (to me) desires. I am in no way a prude, or an avowed heterosexual. But, men, nothing to do with being gay, seem to be untrustworhy liars. I took no joy in hearing their stories.
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