Missouri attorney general opposes proposed federal rule supporting LGBTQ foster kids

These people want the right to adopt LGBTQIA kids, then force them to be straight cis kids.  This is not about finding homes for these kids, or they would support same-sex couples and single people fostering kids, especially LGBTQIA kids who would enjoy being in a home with people like themselves.   Nope, this is about trying to change the kids, to put them through conversion therapy, or find other ways to stop their development as the person who they are.  How can these people be so backwards and regressive in 2023?  Again as I said before, if they want to live in the past, OK.  Just don’t demand everyone live that way also.  Be like the Amish or Mennonites.   Oh and did you all hear about the republican GOP leader and his wife who was the co-founder of Mom’s for Liberty?  Seems the very people attacking gay kids and insisting on straight cis family values were having three ways with another woman.  Yes, the co-founder of the group trying to erase gay people from society was having lesbian sex and her husband who pushed the idea of one man / one woman marriage only sex was into 3 way sex with two women.   Hugs

Quote from the article, again ask your self why these highly religious anti-LGBTQIA people are demanding the right to foster kids who are LGBTQIA!   

But the attorneys general do not believe this is enough. Their letter argues the proposal violates freedom of religion because those unwilling to support LGBTQ foster children “would be excluded from providing care to as many as one-third of foster children ages 12-21.”


Missouri’s child welfare agency already offers guidance to foster care providers asking them to use a child’s ‘preferred name and pronouns’ and provide ‘physically and emotionally safe and supportive care and resources regardless of one’s personal attitudes and beliefs’

BY:  AND  – NOVEMBER 29, 2023 5:55 AM

 A qualifying foster parent under the proposed federal rule would need to be educated on the needs of the child’s sexuality or gender identity and, if the child wishes, “facilitate the child’s access to age-appropriate resources, services, and activities that support their health and well-being” (photo illustration by Ross Williams/Georgia Recorder).

Missouri Attorney General Andrew Bailey this week joined with 18 other states to oppose a proposed federal rule that aims to protect LGBTQ youth in foster care and provide them with necessary services.

The attorneys general argue in a letter to the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services that the proposed rule — which requires states to provide safe and appropriate placements with providers who are appropriately trained about the child’s sexual orientation or gender identity  — amounts to religion-based discrimination and violates freedom of speech.

“As a foster parent myself,” Bailey said in a news release Tuesday, “I am deeply invested in protecting children and putting their best interests first.”

“Biden’s proposed rule does exactly the opposite by enacting policies meant to exclude people with deeply held religious beliefs from being foster parents.”

The rule is part of a package of federal proposals on foster care and is an extension of the Biden administration’s broader push to protect LGBTQ kids in foster care.

“Because of family rejection and abuse,” the Biden administration said in a September press release, LGBTQ children are “overrepresented in foster care where they face poor outcomes, including mistreatment and discrimination because of who they are.”

State agencies would be required under the rule to provide safe and appropriate foster care placements for those who are “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning, intersex,” along with children who are “non-binary or have non-conforming gender identity or expression.”

A qualifying foster parent would need to be educated on the needs of the child’s sexuality or gender identity and, if the child wishes, “facilitate the child’s access to age-appropriate resources, services, and activities that support their health and well-being.”

An example of a safe and appropriate placement is one where a provider is “expected to utilize the child’s identified pronouns, chosen name, and allow the child to dress in an age-appropriate manner,” according to the proposal, “that the child believes reflects their self-identified gender identity and expression.”

The attorneys general characterize that as “forcing an individual to use another’s preferred pronouns by government fiat,” in violation of the First Amendment.

Robert Fischer, director of communications for Missouri LGBTQ advocacy organization PROMO, said the freedom of religion “doesn’t give any person the right to impose those beliefs on others, particularly to discriminate.” 

“Any state official who claims to put ‘children’s interests first’ and in the same breath is willing to risk their well-being and opportunity to thrive in the name of religion — I think that speaks for itself,” Fischer told The Independent. 

The rule prohibits retaliation against children who identify as LGBTQ or are perceived as LGBTQ.

Public agencies would need to notify children about the option to request foster homes identified as “safe and appropriate” and tell them how to report concerns about their placement.

Agencies would also have to go through extra steps before placing transgender, intersex and gender non-conforming children in group care settings that are divided by sex.

The “majority” of states, according to the proposed rule, would have to “expand their efforts” to recruit and identify providers who could meet the needs of LGBTQ children.

 

Missouri guidelines

 

Laws and policies for protecting LGBTQ youth in foster care — relating to kids’ rights, supports, placement considerations, caregiver qualifications and definitions — currently vary by state. 

According to a federal report published in January, which reviewed states’ laws and policies, Missouri does not have laws or policies explicitly addressing any of those five categories.

Most states — 39 states and Washington, D.C. — have “explicit protections from harassment or discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity or expression,” according to a federal report, as of January. Missouri is not one of them. 

Twenty-two  states and D.C. as of January, require agencies to provide tailored services and supports to LGBTQ youth, and eight states and D.C. offer case management and facilitate access to “gender-affirming medical, mental health and social services.”

Children’s Division, the agency within the Missouri Department of Social Services that oversees foster care, offers guidance on their website for providers and child welfare staff in “supporting LGBTQ youth in foster care,” but still does not appear to have official policy on the issue.

A spokesperson for the Missouri Department of Social Services did not respond to a request for comment. 

Those guidelines include using the child’s “preferred name and pronouns,” along with establishing a supportive environment and providing “physically and emotionally safe and supportive care and resources regardless of one’s personal attitudes and beliefs.”

The Department of Social Services is part of the administration of Missouri Gov. Mike Parson, and the guidelines were in place the entire time Bailey was serving as Parson’s general counsel — the second highest ranking job in the governor’s office.  

Asked whether he raised any objections to the guidelines during his tenure with Parson, Bailey’s spokesperson said he “had no involvement in crafting [the Department of Social Services’] ‘best practices’ as general counsel.”

 

AG arguments

 

 Missouri Attorney General Andrew Bailey speaks Jan. 20 (Annelise Hanshaw/Missouri Independent).

 

The 19 attorneys general contend the federal rule would “remove faith-based providers from the foster care system” because of their “religious beliefs on sexual orientation and gender identity.”

They cite Fulton v. City of Philadelphia, a U.S. Supreme Court case that ruled a public agency couldn’t force private, religious foster agencies to allow same-sex foster parents.

The proposed rule itself also acknowledges the Supreme Court case and alleges that by not requiring religious foster-care providers to welcome LGBTQ children, it is complying with the court’s precedent.

But the attorneys general do not believe this is enough. Their letter argues the proposal violates freedom of religion because those unwilling to support LGBTQ foster children “would be excluded from providing care to as many as one-third of foster children ages 12-21.”

“In addition to discriminating against religion, the proposed rule will harm children by limiting the number of available foster homes, harm families by risking kinship placements, and harm states by increasing costs and decreasing care options,” the letter says.

The rule would “discourage individuals and organizations of faith from joining or continuing in foster care,” the attorneys general argue, and “reduce family setting options.” Without faith-based foster parents, the attorneys general say, children would be more likely to be placed in congregate settings.

They also say the rule could disqualify family members who volunteer as placement, or kinship care, if the family member does not agree to support the child’s sexuality or gender identity with age-appropriate resources, as the rule entails.

 

6 thoughts on “Missouri attorney general opposes proposed federal rule supporting LGBTQ foster kids

  1. The thing this has me coming back to, is: how does it keep people who don’t want LBGTQ+ kids from being foster parents? Can’t they just state, no gay/whoever kids and foster the straight ones? If that is a terrible question, I apologize, but I’m being very literal here, because to me, it appears MO is out to harm LBGTQ+ kids, rather than protect religious people who don’t tolerate or “believe in” LGBTQ+ people. Why not accept the rule, and the “straights only” fosters do straights only, and the other fosters can foster the kids who may be queer? That violates no one’s “religiously-held beliefs” or actual existence. They have to state if and how they can care for various special needs, anyway.

    Again, I hope I haven’t said anything bad. When it comes to law, language means things, and language is usually specific. I know the Parson admin only wants to drive foster kids into closets. But I don’t understand using the illogical “logic” of the AG; since they’re wanting to hurt LGBTQ+ foster kids, they’d let the rule hold, and let the bigoted fosters abuse those kids. Not that I believe that ought to happen.

    Back to my suggested system-I have adult working experience with how these systems work. No one could find out about prejudiced fosters, except those who need to know for the safety of children; it’s doubtful it’d be looked upon as prejudice in the system. The prejudiced ones state “straight only,” in the same way as “no special needs due to lack of training or qualification,” or no wheel chairs because they have stairs, and so on. And the children will be far better cared for by people who want them.

    Of course this leads into all manner of discussion about the foster system, and few, if any, of the troubles are solved by this, but at least LGBTQ+ kids would get fosters who won’t beat the devil out of them. I apologize for the length of this.

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    1. Hi Ali. You did not say anything wrong. Also length doesn’t bother me, is what you say makes sense and doesn’t repeat the same things over and over. What you said is correct in both they were just being denied the right to foster gay or trans kids and they want the right to foster those kids so they can harass them, force them to ether detransition / not allow them to transition or go to Christian therapy to be cis or straight or both.

      As to why don’t they let the rule stand so they can hurt LGBTQIA kids. The rule prevents them from doing the above and doing what you wrote. That is why they are fighting the rule. The Biden administration says that the foster families must honor the LGBTQIA kids and their wishes. The right wing Christian bigots don’t want to do that. The Biden rule also says people who want to foster kids have to do diversity training in how to respect kids who are different. Again the Christian right bigot raciest don’t want to do that.

      So what you said is true. All the haters / bigots / raciest have to do is say they don’t want black kids or LGBTQIA kids. Then while they still would have to do the training they could then ignore it. Hugs. Scottie

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      1. Ah, it’s the diversity training. What pigs some people are. Seems as if they wouldn’t have the compassion to foster any kids at all. And maybe that’s what the bigots are afraid of.

        I was mainly worried that there would be hurt in my “lumping in” LGBTQ+ kids with special needs. In this situation, it’s special needs is a broad brush for considerations in the best interest of the kiddoes.

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        1. Hi Ali. Please never be concerned that your comment won’t be understood. We all know you are a grand person, so we would ask if something you wrote took anyone here wrong, as would I. You write “what pigs some people are” but Ali it is really the only two types of people we are talking about. Those who abuse their religion to abuse kids and those that think the color of one’s skin makes one superior to others. I love how nice / polite you are to them. You are such a nice person.

          Ali, you touched on something that most people don’t understand that has been in the alt news for a while. Sadly it is not repeated in mainstream media very much. For a long time raciest have been fostering or adopting black kids. Laura Ingraham the Fox host is one of those. She is a well known racists Nazi, can you imagine that black child’s life in her home? There are so many stories on childhood abuse websites of black kids from African countries being so excited to be adopted by white Britons, only to be turned into home slaves or worse sexual objects once they got there. A common thing they all say is as soon as they got in the new country the white person took their passport and documents. And yes those stories are also about the US. It is not new or unheard of. Most of the stories I have read about the US is about families adopting a black child to then treat them like mentally deficient backward children and try to indoctrinate them into the idea that white people are superior and also that the Christian religion is the only real true religion and all others are from the Devil and fake.

          To me, what Christians do taking kids who have non-Christian religious views to force them into Christianity is no different from the child sexual abusers who would go to other very poor countries and “adopt” a child to then abuse freely when they got them back to the US. It is abuse.

          Ali as far as LGBTQIA kids being lumped in with special needs kids I see no problem with what you wrote. See special needs kids are not evil or wrong to me and neither are LGBTQIA kids. In this situation, it’s special needs is a broad brush for considerations in the best interest of the kiddoes I really understand / understood. Ali, it is all OK. You really need to understand you did not write anything offensive, but you did write something very supportive of all people.

          As for special needs people. I have a special needs step-sister. After I found my biological father … how I paid to get that info I would rather not explain right now … but yes with my history you can guess. I found out I had a lot of stepsisters and one was special needs. I find that I had my eyes opened on special needs people and realized how society needs to support and endorse them. It really makes us as we claim to be. Hugs. Scottie

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