Well yesterday was a wash out

Kamyk was moved to an ICU with Covid and an O2 level in the low 80s.  I spent all day after only getting 3 hours sleep texting on Skype in group chat and private chats all day and into the next.  I got to bed at 12:30 … am.  Yes Ron was and is upset about the long hours and the toll it is taking on me, but he understands I am doing my best.  Kamyk is in the best place for care, the ICU.  Problem is his mother and one sister have Covid and visited him in his old room for days.   Knowing they had Covid.  They find masks inconvenient and unpleasant.   

That sister is a complete narcissist who kept trying to make the group chats about her.  She was reminded several times we needed to concentrate on Kamyk, but she couldn’t even use his chosen name, constantly dead naming him.  Finally the good sister started a separate private chat with me.  She was very angry at her other sister’s actions.  I just started ignoring the bad sister.  Had a good talk with the good sister on the private channel.  We learned about each other.  I wouldn’t share with her what Kamyk shared with me as that was his right to do so if he wanted.   She said she knew about some of the adult stuff but not the kid stuff.  I advised her to talk with her brother when he gets better. 

She also was abused, but did not go into details.  I have a policy of not asking if the person doesn’t seem to want me to, I figure if someone wants me to know something they will tell me most of the time.  Anyway Ron has gone out shopping, there are a few dishes to wash, so I am going to take medication and do them so he has clean counters to set stuff on.  Hugs.  Thank you all for not only understand but sending thoughts, feelings, and prayers for my friend.  He has been through so much he did not need this set back.  I know he was talking he wanted it all to end.  I think that was desperation talking, not his normal self.  Hugs all.