Ten Bears posted this.

I appreciate that Ten Bears adds his thoughts here.  I have taken great value from his comments and his posts.  I admit I don’t know enough about social media and these spoofing of names / IDs online.  I don’t comment much and I doubt I am important enough for anyone to do this horrible thing to me.  I imagine finding others posting as Scotties Playtime, as me saying things I do not agree with nor would ever say and the thought of it would not only anger me but how to explain to people now angry it was not me who felt that way.  So this is a repost to let people know if they read something that sound off from what you know I would say, what others you follow would say, please think about if it is really them saying that thing.  Hugs

A bit tired out today.

I was up all night fixing a modem then router problem.  The modem kept cycling and negotiating channels.  Normally restarting it would solve that issue.  It did not.  So I factory reset it.  Then that was where me being tired after being up all day and now about 2:30 am, I missed an important piece of the puzzle.  Ron got up at three to use his iPad and it wouldn’t connect because I had the modem out of the system.  I had it hooked directly to my main computer.

Then trying to reboot the router I forgot to change the Ethernet cables back around and was getting frustrated I couldn’t access the router controls.  I was factory resetting and rebooting the router, I was using my phone to try to access the system, nothing was working.  I was super frustrated when Ron popped his head in the door and asked what I was doing.  I explained it, then he told me his pad did not connect saying the Wi-Fi was not there.  I sat there trying to explain it to him when the light bulb over my head came on.  I told him to give me five minutes and he would have internet. 

In trying to explain what I was doing to him after nearly 20 hours awake it dawned on me, I had failed to move the cables back to the router so I was trying to access a piece of equipment not in the loop, not connected.   I quickly redid the correct cable configuration of modem to router to computers and then I accessed the now factory cleared router.  I restored my security settings, all the passwords, and in about 7 minutes had the system up.  I went to bed around 4 am.  Tired but happy.  I noticed that everything I did stopped the modem from cycling also.  I got back up at 7:30 am.  I am doing laundry now and will start on comments.  It is going to be a long day.  I still have to go into the router and bind the devices so they can’t be spoofed but I am too tired to work on it now.   At least I don’t have Ron’s job of cutting out flooring around metal support beams and plumbing lines for water and sewer.  Hugs.  

New videos and stuff coming tomorrow.

Hi Everyone.  Hope all is well for everyone.  I have been in bed for the last 48 hours.  Two days.  The first day I was in too much pain to function well.  This morning I got up to watch the morning Sunday news shows and was in so much pain I took so much pain I had to go to bed by 10 am.  Great news is I got all the issues surrounding my video recording taken care of.  I can and will start doing them very soon.  Hugs and so much love to all.  Scottie

Hells bells and tortious shells as I once heard the curse.

*** Posting from me will be sparse or disjointed as will me responding to comments.  More on that later ***

I had everything set up to answer all the comments I have saved.  I have like 70 open tabs of all the comments I really want to read and address.  I know a few have said never feel like you need to respond to me, but I really like to.  I don’t have the ability to get out and see many people is because I am disabled, so I love interacting with people online.  Maybe I get the community / personal interaction to them people who interact with other people get. 

I also had cued up 8 tabs from Male Survivor I was trying to read and respond to.  Understand that reading and responding to those posts are very draining to me.  But before I could get to much of that, Ron wanted to take a walk before he went to his doctor’s appointment.  

Please notice the change of color.  I am very tired as I write this and Ron is cooking the supper we worked on during this crisis.  But I need to get this written and eat then I fall into bed exhausted. 

For weeks or months I have been telling my wonderful husband I smelt sewer shit smell.  He kept telling me it was the wind on the air vent for the toilets.  But it got worse and worse.  So he said turn on the vent fans and see it will go away.  But then it did not.  I kept telling him there was a leak under the house.  He was telling me I was just being reactionary … sound familiar, just what the republicans accuse the democrats of being.  Turned out I was correct.

So today after he got home from his doctor’s appointment, he walked into the house a said wow this place smells like shit.  I replied I kept telling you that.  It did not go over well.  But I convinced him to take up our bathroom floor which has a trap door to the underneath of the house.  When he did that he came to me and admitted he was very, very wrong.  We had a large pool of sewage under our home.  Oh fuck, fuck.  It appears one of our toilets has been dumping all its waste on to the ground.  But worse the break was not under our second bathroom toilet.  It was between the bathrooms.  He would have to take up both bathrooms to fix it.  Oh be still my racing heart.  

I spend the entire afternoon showing him how if he had to rip up everything to fix the sewage leak, I had long been wanting a change to both bathrooms.  See the second bathroom was added as only a sink and toilet but when James moved back in he needed a bathroom shower so he did not come into our room to get a shower … sometimes in the middle of us having sex.  I did not mind, and James said it did not bother him, but Ron being old school was mortified.  So he carved a large chunk out of our bathroom to put a shower in the “guest” bathroom.  

So I have chafed about that intrusion preventing me from having the bathroom I wanted in my own bedroom.  But it has been years since James moved out.  I have told Ron we could have a much better bigger shower and the rest … as I have been telling him for years.  But now that he has to rip it all out anyway … he suddenly seen the light.  So I spent the last part of the time I have awake showing him my vision of the two bathrooms and helping him do the measurements to show I was correct.   He agreed with me and that is the plan moving forward.  Then he shut down.  And so will I. I am going to bed.  If I post it will be hit or miss or reply to comments it will be even more sporadic than what I already do.  Trust me to put the comment in an open tab backed up by my computer program.  I will some year get to them.  Best wishes, Hugs, and lots of love.   Scottie

Well after days of thinking about it we chose the new flooring

A week and more of days of going back and forth and going to store after store we decided on the flooring for the Florida Room / my new office.   I like the lightness of it and the fact it doesn’t have a real stand out pattern.  Plus it is sound dampening as the room is very echoing right now.  So I will put the link below.  But it is the Iced Oak.  We will get the upgraded underneath barrier even though we really don’t need it.  But we decided if we are going to do this we will do it correctly from the top down.  Then move on to the rest of the house.   Hugs

https://www.flooranddecor.com/duralux-performance-flooring/iced-oak-waterproof-rigid-core-luxury-vinyl-plank—foam-pad-101075257.html

Breakfast and supper on Wednesday. Started on Thursday and finished on Friday.

As some viewers know as my health has been failing over the last couple of years and Ron is starting to show his age also, so we have been spending a lot more time together doing things.  Also I have been not able to spend as much time on the blog as I used to and love doing.  So this morning as a treat to Ron I made a good sized breakfast for us.  Normally breakfast in our home is a catch as catch can.  I normally have leftovers from the supper meal as normally I am unable to eat at night, and Ron cooks grand supper.    Ron normally has a breakfast he cooks / makes for himself.  

I asked him if he would like an egg scramble with bacon and sausage, with a side of toast.  He said he would love it.  So I took a bunch of thick sliced bacon out of the meat drawer of the refrigerator and also some small link sausage from both that place and the freezer below.  Then I prepared two trays that have grill racks over them and on one I placed 8 or 9 long strips of bacon, and on the other I put 10 small sausage links.  I had preheated our very large Black and Decker counter oven.  It is similar to a toaster oven only much larger.  I put the bacon in first at 450.  

While the bacon cooked I got the eggs cracked and put into bowls.  3 eggs in each bowl.  I use a heavy knife on the sharp edge to crack the eggshell then they easily open the shell with no eggshells into the bowls.  I find it works best if the eggs and shells are very cold.  Into the bowls of eggs I add a heavy splash of water.  Enough to make the eggs cook up fluffy but not leave water in the cooked eggs.  Then I set them aside to put the sausage in the oven with the bacon.  The thing about cooking sausage in the oven instead of on the stove in a pan is the sausage come out fully cooked but still juicy and soft.  

Once the meat was cook Ron chopped what we both wanted in our scrambles, and I combined the meat and eggs in a small sauce pot.  Ron had me put chopped opinion and peppers in his.   I use a hard spatula like the kind you would frost a cake with not the kind that flip burgers, to stir the eggs and meats together and make scramble eggs.  I started the toast as the stuff on the stove cooked up.   Just before the eggs finished cooking the toast popped up so I buttered them and called Ron to come get his food.  Even though I was happy to make the food I again was unable to my egg scramble, I ate my one piece of toast with grape jam on it.  I put the scramble in the fridge for another time.  I ate it the next morning and it was great.  

During the afternoon I took another nap.  This is now being written on Friday.  So for supper that Wednesday I had the idea of taking the red sauce I had made the day before to make supper in a different way.  I told Ron my idea and he agreed it sounded great.  So we took an 8 X 11 baking pan and spread a layer of red sauce on the bottom of the pan.  The idea was to use the chicken patties we normally fry to make chicken Parmesan, just with a different cheese.  I took six patties and place them in the pan sort of pushing them a third of their height into the sauce.  Then set in the oven to bake.  When nearly done we took provolone and layered in on the chicken and put them back in the oven.  Serve with spaghetti and sauce.  Great.  

Thursday morning we got up to a rainy cold day … again.  But we needed groceries and I had decided it was better now to go with Ron to help him.  He is 70 and not walking well.  Plus while he is still smart, he does have periods of confusion and gets slow to think or respond.  He complains of becoming very forgetful.  To be honest I am the same way. I will 62 very soon.   But he likes me to drive when possible and he likes the comfort of me being there for him.  

So we went and spent all morning filling a grocery cart at Walmart.   Some people say that you don’t save any money there and some say you do.  Ron has the patience to stand there and compare price and size, unit price, and get the best deal.  I can not do this.  But I walk with him, talk to him, keep him company, watch our cart when he needs to go get something or his back is too it.  I have seen people take stuff from other peoples carts or drop stuff in them.  Ron had one of my dragon canes stolen when he had his back to the cart comparing prices.  Turned back and the cane was gone. We have a game to guess the cost after it is wrung up on the register.  I guessed 260 but he felt it would be well over 325.  It came to 257 and change.   

We were to go to another store but by the time we got everything put away both of use were tired so decided to go this morning.  Temps are better so far than yesterday which had feel like temps in the 30s.  This morning we have feel like temps of 41 degrees.   The high is to be in the 50s.  We plan to hit three small stores and then going to the big flooring store in Fort Myers to pick out the new flooring for the Florida room that I will soon be moving into to.  I am leaning toward a light floor.  The walls are a soft cream, the molding / trim a light tan / brown.  Just enough of a difference to show up but not startling.  The north long wall of almost 30 feet is entirely windows except for three feet at the bottom of the windows, even the turn to the east facing wall which has another large window and French doors made of mostly insulated glass panes in a wooden heavy frame.  The room is very bright and cheery.  Because the door going outside is to the carport and on the same level we were thinking a brown.  But once I saw the shocking difference between the light and dark … I think I want a light floor.  I am thinking a white marble with gray whirls.  Ron thinks it will always look dirty even when not.  So maybe we will go with a tan or light gray?  That is why I have not done much on the blog or computer since Tuesday.  Hugs.  

How I post using the classic editor

Step 1.  Click the + symbol of the block editor

Step 2.  Type CL in the search box for widgets displaying the classic one.  

Step 3.  Click the classic.

Step 4.  Click the gray bar.  

Step 5.  Using some of the features.  If you want to change the color or font size or bold, italicize, and more, use the bar.  If you want to change the color or what you wrote just highlight the words and pick a new color.  The classic editor bar makes it so easy.   So as most know I like to write my own stuff in blue.  Just click the large A with the line under it and chose the color you want to write in.  Then type.  

Step 6.  To add pictures you can copy and paste or you can use the camera / music note symbol.  Notice the things you can do in the media library.  This is the place every picture, meme, cartoon is stored.  From every post.  You can click on one or more and insert them.  You can upload from your computer or a website. 

   

You can double click the picture if you want to adjust the size or if you want writing to one side or the other of the picture.  I find it so easy to add stuff like this. There is only one issue to remember.  If you want to post a link you must get out the classic editor first or it will wipe out everything you have done.  If that does happen just use the undo button to restore what you wrote in classic.  You might have to do it twice but it does work.  So if you are writing in classic and need to post a link like a YouTube video just click below the current box to get a new block, post the link, click below that and get a new block, do the steps above to go back to classic.  I wrote this entire thing in classic and it is so easy including adjusting the screen captures I did.  I hope this makes blogging easier for you.     If you have any questions please ask me.  Hugs.

My day. How I love life

I woke at midnight and got up at 2am after laying there hoping to go back to sleep.  Then I started doing Joe my God news stuff.  But at 5 am Julie Kamyk’s sister came on and started talking to me.  I listened to what was happening to her and she is suffering as I am from seasonal depression.  But we both are fierce fighters for her brother and she did not know the crap her father was doing over the laptop Kamyk paid half for but his dad refused to give him.  I offered to pay the half price the dad paid that he was holding over Kamyk refusing to release it, and I told her if that did not work I would buy a new $400 dollar one myself and send it to him.  She said that wouldn’t be needed, she would take the laptop from him and give it to Kamyk.  She and I discussed other needs of his and she made lists to get them done.

Then as I started to do posts and stuff … I got a Skype call from Kamyk.  Well that started a 6 hour call.  I asked him how I could help him and he said just stay on the line and talk to him.  So I did.  Because when one of my friends is in a care house with few of his own resources and they ask me to just keep talking with them … oh yes I got that covered.  

We got a lot covered, we talked and talked and talked.  In and out of bad things and into good things.  

After all that expenditure of energy and spirit to support my friend, I find I am drained and hard to move forward to dealing with blog things.  I gave him my all.  Hugs

The 10 Weirdest Ways Animals Have Sex

Before I post the video, let me tell you all what is going on.  My health first.  I am very tired only wanting to lay in bed, sleeping or just laying there.  At first I thought it was a depression thing, but when my blood work showed I was again anemic that may explain some.  All I want to do when up is watch videos and I struggle to read news or do other tasks, feeling like every movement is too much and just wanting to sit here un moving.  The second issue I have is I recently expanded the memory of my oldest computer, a built I like better because it is expandable.  Pride go before the fall.   I felt I understood the motherboard well enough and the system architecture to simple look for and buy the cheapest priced ram the system could handle.   

I am humbled to admit I got my butt handed to me as after installing the cheapest four sticks equaling 64 GB of ram which is the max the system can handle I dumped and started the computer.  Yes it seems all four sticks and ran at the higher speed.  Grand.  But then as I loaded Windows and other programs … problems happened.  I got almost everything done and then had sudden BOD … the blue screen of death that I have not seen in my own systems ever.  I diligently tracked every error, researched every error code and security event.  What I got made me realize I had not done enough work understanding my system and the unbuffered ram.  

I could make this a post on the system and what I learned.  Going cheapest for me is going to cost me.  I need to go back to a two stick mode with buffered memory.  The reason is that the CPU can see the dual channel two stick configuration as one big stick.  With four it has to run through the memory controller system to read each stick as a separate entity and compare try to manage the flow and errors of each.  When the errors become too great or do an act that the system deems threatening, it shuts everything down.  So I am going to spend more money on a new set of buffered 2 stick memory which should solve this issue and I can get back to being online with everyone and not spending weeks of every online time searching for and reading tech pages and specs reports.   Now to the video.   Love and hugs to all.  Hugs

Some pictures of our Christmas 2024 day.

Ron and I had a wonderful Christmas day.  We had good food, we had good times.  Here is a couple pictures of me sharping our knives, including serrated ones you can do if you are careful.  

Then there was the jolly elf in the kitchen working to prepare enough food for 10 people.  How he misses the days we held being holiday gatherings.  I helped on and off like doing the cooking and peeling of the eggs for the deviled eggs.  Here is the elf at work.  

And then there is the result of all the work.  The food.