Nearly Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Getting the Heck Out of Here

Nearly Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Getting the Heck Out of Here

America’s biggest export might soon be its own citizens. According to the American Psychological Association’s Stress in America 2025 survey, 63% of adults ages 18 to 34 have considered leaving the country this year because of “the state of the nation.” Among parents, more than half—53%—say the same.

These aren’t impulsive fantasies about Parisian cafés or permanent vacation visas. The study, conducted between August 4 and 24 among more than 3,000 adults, found that stress about the country’s future has hit a historic high. Seventy-five percent of Americans say they’re more worried about the direction of the nation than they used to be, and 76% call that fear a “significant source of stress.”

The anxiety isn’t limited to politics. Half of all adults reported feeling lonely, and 69% said they needed more emotional support this year than they received. “People are overwhelmed by societal division, technology, and uncertainty about what’s next,” said APA chief executive Arthur C. Evans Jr. “It’s affecting how they relate to each other and themselves.”

Almost Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Ditching the U.S. for Good

That division has started to show up physically. Among adults who named it a major stressor, 83% experienced physical symptoms in the past month, like headaches, fatigue, or anxiety, compared to 66% of those who didn’t. The same group was more likely to lose patience with family, cancel plans, or struggle to plan ahead.

AI is also creeping into the collective stress index. Fifty-seven percent of adults now say the rise of artificial intelligence adds to their anxiety, up from 49% last year. Among students, that number has nearly doubled to 78%. As automation expands and misinformation spreads, Americans are increasingly uneasy about how technology will reshape work, privacy, and even identity.

Still, the survey found that most people haven’t given up. Seventy-seven percent say they have some control over their personal futures, and 84% believe they can build good lives despite national instability. Family, friendships, and health remain top sources of meaning.

But optimism has its limits. Sixty-six percent of adults think they’ve sacrificed more than previous generations, and many feel the country isn’t keeping up its end of the bargain. For young Americans, especially, the American dream feels more like a relocation plan.

As stress levels rise and passports renew, the question hanging in the air isn’t whether they love their country, it’s whether they can still live in it.

My view on HATE

I talk about hate, the word, the personal cost, and what it means to me. I talk about why I tried to remove hate from myself despite my childhood of abuse. I read something Randy wrote, and I praise his skill at writing. Hugs

 

I had planned to do several videos today.   But to be upfront with everyone this one took a lot out of me.  It came very close to my own personhood.  It talked about a journey I took in private emotionally and only a few close people were part of it.  I felt both very drained after doing it and also found it very cathartic. 

After my mini stroke some time ago, I couldn’t even pronounce the word cathartic to Ron when talking to him about the post and how it felt.  I could see it, taste the word on my tongue but couldn’t get the sounds out of my mouth.  I had to go to the computer and run the word through the sound program and then I could only pronounce it if I heard it with in 10 seconds.  After that I struggled and Ron felt so bad for me he came over and hugged me.  That is the result of being poor in the US and needing healthcare you don’t get in time.  But let’s talk bad about other countries that provide their people with healthcare, mistakenly claiming they have long wait times. 

Yes I am glad I made the video but in truth it delayed other videos I wanted to make and I was very fearful of making this one.  See in this video I expose myself in a very vulnerable way.   I admit I am human and while everyone knows I was abused it is nebulas to them.  They don’t know the details of the abuse nor how it really twisted inside me … and they really would like to keep it that way.   

No I am not blaming anyone nor casting dispersion on anyone.  It is easy to be sympathetic but far more so if the horror doesn’t touch something emotional deep inside us.  In this video I am trying to reach that feeling deep inside.  If it upsets you I am sorry but ask you to examine why it does upset you.  That is really the point about hate I am trying to make.  Many people hate and they don’t need to be abused to feel that way.   Just listen to Fox or other right wing media, it is all built on hate of one thing or the other.   They never really push their cause, just what they hate.  Grown men attacking a barbie movie … to prove how manly they are? 

So I made the post.  I would appreciate the comments, good, bad, and the ugly.  It will help me grow.  Both as a person and as someone who wants to do videos.  Thank you.  As always best wishes for everyone and hugs for those that want them.