Nearly Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Getting the Heck Out of Here

Nearly Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Getting the Heck Out of Here

America’s biggest export might soon be its own citizens. According to the American Psychological Association’s Stress in America 2025 survey, 63% of adults ages 18 to 34 have considered leaving the country this year because of “the state of the nation.” Among parents, more than half—53%—say the same.

These aren’t impulsive fantasies about Parisian cafés or permanent vacation visas. The study, conducted between August 4 and 24 among more than 3,000 adults, found that stress about the country’s future has hit a historic high. Seventy-five percent of Americans say they’re more worried about the direction of the nation than they used to be, and 76% call that fear a “significant source of stress.”

The anxiety isn’t limited to politics. Half of all adults reported feeling lonely, and 69% said they needed more emotional support this year than they received. “People are overwhelmed by societal division, technology, and uncertainty about what’s next,” said APA chief executive Arthur C. Evans Jr. “It’s affecting how they relate to each other and themselves.”

Almost Two-Thirds of Young Americans Are Thinking About Ditching the U.S. for Good

That division has started to show up physically. Among adults who named it a major stressor, 83% experienced physical symptoms in the past month, like headaches, fatigue, or anxiety, compared to 66% of those who didn’t. The same group was more likely to lose patience with family, cancel plans, or struggle to plan ahead.

AI is also creeping into the collective stress index. Fifty-seven percent of adults now say the rise of artificial intelligence adds to their anxiety, up from 49% last year. Among students, that number has nearly doubled to 78%. As automation expands and misinformation spreads, Americans are increasingly uneasy about how technology will reshape work, privacy, and even identity.

Still, the survey found that most people haven’t given up. Seventy-seven percent say they have some control over their personal futures, and 84% believe they can build good lives despite national instability. Family, friendships, and health remain top sources of meaning.

But optimism has its limits. Sixty-six percent of adults think they’ve sacrificed more than previous generations, and many feel the country isn’t keeping up its end of the bargain. For young Americans, especially, the American dream feels more like a relocation plan.

As stress levels rise and passports renew, the question hanging in the air isn’t whether they love their country, it’s whether they can still live in it.

Just an update on the week and my actions.

Hi everyone.  I have a video started to address a lot of what happened.  But I had a horrible week and only wanted to hide from life.  Long story short if I don’t finish the video as so often happen.   At the beginning of the week I talked to my primary care doctor about my childhood in vague terms, the intrusive thoughts that have gotten worse, and the nightmares / yelling out at night.  He admitted he was out of his depth on the issue but would help as much as they could and that they have a therapist on site that works with a psychiatrist and if I would see her she could help me better.  Next week I will call her.   He prescribed a medication to help me but I won’t take it.  It kills your sex drive and ability entirely.  Ron got on it before we knew what it did, and so now he will try to get off it.  For a long time we did not know or understand why his desire and ability just stopped, now we know that it was the medication.  Then Thursday coming home from the allergist the car broke down.  I was lucky I was able to get it safety off the road on to a side street.  Then I dealt with the getting it towed and all that.   Then Friday I saw a podiatrist and found out that there is nothing they can do to help me, another one thing I have to learn to live with.  It was all too much for me.  Today we are finishing the floor in the small bathroom and reseating the toilet which is a horrible hard job for a weakening 70 year old man and a disabled 62 yr old with bone / muscle / nerve problems.  My plan for this weekend is to catch up on all the comments I missed over the week by withdrawing from everything.   Thanks to everyone for being here and to Ali and Randy for all the posts they make.   Hugs