At the national level, the Trump administration cut the LGBTQ youth suicide hotline just weeks after Pride Month, despite a recent study by The Trevor Project finding that 39% of LGBTQ young people seriously considered suicide in the past year, more than 1 in 10 actually did attempt suicide and 90% of queer youth said political attacks on LGBTQ people directly harmed their overall well-being.
While these numbers reveal an urgent crisis, there are silver linings. Last year, 91% of anti-LGBTQ bills were defeated. Countless kids marched in the No Kings protest. Parents are organizing. And allies are popping up in unexpected places.
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Uncloseted Media has reported on dozens of stories that expose hate. But this holiday season, we decided to pause for a brief moment. In September, we launched a national campaign inviting people across the country to leave messages of hope for LGBTQ youth. The campaign culminated at the historic Stonewall Inn, where we installed a rotary phone and invited visitors to leave voicemails of resilience, positivity and joy for queer kids. Here are just a few of the most powerful messages.
In recent years, the language of parental rights has been used to stigmatize LGBTQ people as threats to children, with GLAAD finding that false “grooming narratives remain a central anti-LGBTQ disinformation tactic.
The positive impact of Mama Fox’s love for her kid is reflective of research that shows that supportive parenting is associated with lower suicide risk for queer youth, including when parents use correct names and pronouns and actively defend their child’s identity.
Paul, who has a lesbian daughter, is one of those parents.
Listen to Paul’s message above.
For those who can’t find acceptance within their families, there is still hope. Mark, an actor and singer from New York City, came of age in the 1980s during the height of the HIV/AIDS crisis.
A lot of the hate aimed at LGBTQ people still comes from the same demographic that has historically held the most social power: white, cisgender straight men. But what often gets left out of the conversation is that there are many allies who are part of this demographic, including West Wilson, Anthony Siteman and Toronto’s Peter Horton.
Listen to Peter’s message above.
According to a Trevor Project survey, about a fifth of LGBTQ young people have participated in protests, a sign that civic engagement is surging. LGBTQ people continue to be among the most active groups in public resistance. Richard Rockman’s poem reminds us to stay active, engaged and hopeful.
Listen to Richard’s poem above.
And that hope is coming from so many people from all corners of the world.
Listen to Alice’s message above.
Listen to Lara’s message above.
Even as so many LGBTQ youth struggle, change is coming. More people in Gen Z identify as LGBTQ than any other living generation.
Listen to Lloyd’s message above.
Uncloseted Media wishes everyone a joyful holiday season. For people of all ages who are struggling, we want you to know that you are loved. You are not alone. And there is help.
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2 thoughts on “A Message of Hope for LGBTQ Kids in America”
Yeah! This right here!
There are more of us than there are of hateful bigots.
Hi Ali. I sure hope so. I remember being a gay kid in the 1970s in a small backwater cow town. All I heard constantly was how evil and bad gay people were. The funny thing was I was told it was gay people who raped kids but I had been being raped by cis straight people all my life since I was 3 years old. One teacher set me up to receive a beating from a kid twice my size because he felt I was gay even though I was not out. The hate was thick. I don’t want the kids today to go through what I did, but the “Christian Big Money Hate Groups” do want that future / or return to that past. It is very bitter for me to see the US go from kids welcomed for being themselves in school and schools having anti-bulling programs to a return to what I went through. It hurts Ali, I hurt for them. Hugs
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Yeah! This right here!
There are more of us than there are of hateful bigots.
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Hi Ali. I sure hope so. I remember being a gay kid in the 1970s in a small backwater cow town. All I heard constantly was how evil and bad gay people were. The funny thing was I was told it was gay people who raped kids but I had been being raped by cis straight people all my life since I was 3 years old. One teacher set me up to receive a beating from a kid twice my size because he felt I was gay even though I was not out. The hate was thick. I don’t want the kids today to go through what I did, but the “Christian Big Money Hate Groups” do want that future / or return to that past. It is very bitter for me to see the US go from kids welcomed for being themselves in school and schools having anti-bulling programs to a return to what I went through. It hurts Ali, I hurt for them. Hugs
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