I am struggling with nightmares of something I don’t know if I should share with you.

There is something that has been preying on my mind and it is effecting my sleep and my day, every day.ย  ย It is not critical yet.ย  I started the post then sent it to draft.ย  The issue is my memories of two of the methods used to punish me when I was 3 until the family moved about when I turned 7 years old.ย  ย It is painful to think of and I know it will be even more painful for those who read it who did not live my childhood.ย  I started a post and then shoved it into drafts until I could decide to publish it.ย 

Here is the thing.ย  I have come to care about my viewers, and I really have learned to care about people, all people, every person in some way since my miserable childhood.ย  I have learned to see most people as good, and learned the hard way to recognize those that are not.ย  ย  ย I try to find the best in people, try to find a way to understand them.ย 

I know if I write out what is inside me, it will hurt people, the people who come here.ย  ย I have even hesitated to put it on the Male Survivor forums I belong to as there are a bunch of new people struggling and I don’t want to trigger them.ย  I reached out to a good online friend there who had been pimped out all his childhood, professionally from 9 until 24 when he ran away.ย  Like me right from his earliest memories after being adopted he was abused and sexualized.ย  I asked him if he thinks I should write it and post it.ย  I will look for his response tomorrow.ย  ย 

But while I may put it there, the question I have is should I put it here.ย  ย There are new people here also, and there are new authors, Ali and Randy.ย  Their followers may be shocked by what my childhood was and leave the viewership.ย  I am confused, I am hurting, and I am struggling with this.ย  ย I always used my blogs before to tell of my abuse before I even told Ron about them.ย  But now I am torn.ย  I want to get this out, yet I want to protect people.ย ย 

Ok wonderful people who come here and read our posts.ย  What do you think, please be honest.ย  Should I write what I am feeling, what is bothering me here, or try to keep it bottled up inside me and maybe only share it there on MS?ย  Thanks.ย  I do care about each of you.ย  Best wishes and / or Hugs as you prefer.ย  Scottie

Israelis Riot In Support Of Torture

“Remarks to Women for Harris National Organizing Call

“Bad night for mascara, great night for democracy.”

Charlotte Clymer Jul 30, 2024

Last night, I was honored and delighted to join a phenomenal group of brilliant leaders and hundreds of thousands of women across the country in support of the Vice President on the first Women for Harris National Organizing Call.

You can watch the organizing call in its entirety right here, and I strongly recommend doing so.

Speakers included Women for Harris Director Rhonda Foxx, Sen. Laphonza Butler, Chelsea Clinton, Min Jin Lee, Yvette Nicole Brown, Shannon Watts, Ai-Jen Poo, Glynda Carr, and so many more.

I honestly did not expect to cry so much, but when Ms. Lee began telling her story and teared up, I completely lost it. By the time Ms. Clinton reminded us all of the history of women seeking the White House, I was a mess.

It was a bad night for mascara and a great night for democracy.

Below are my remarks:

Good evening!

My name is Charlotte Clymer, my pronouns are she/her, Iโ€™m a writer and activist, and I am so excited to be part of this historic gathering of women across the country.

Now, look, Iโ€™m not gonna repeat to yโ€™all what the brilliant and eloquent women who spoke before me stated, nor do I have the eloquence and brilliance of the women who will speak over the remainder of this evening.

Iโ€™m just gonna tell yโ€™all a quick story about why I proudly support Vice President Harris.

I am a proud American, a proud Texan, a proud military veteran, a proud trans woman, and a proud Democrat.

And I have found that there a lot of folks, including Donald Trump and J.D. Vance, who want to place me in a specific box.

They say Iโ€™m too queer to be a proud military veteran.

They say a trans woman like me canโ€™t be a Christian and a strong person of faith as I am.

They say women like me donโ€™t belong in America.

Well, hereโ€™s what I have to say to that: thank goodness our leader, Vice President Harris, has common sense and believes no American, no human being, belongs in a box.

A little over four years ago, a number of rightwing extremists took a picture of me from a public event and attempted to harass me online. They wanted me to be ashamed of how I look as a trans woman.

Now, just like the women I admireโ€”women like my grandmother, women like Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett from my home state of Texas, women like Vice President Harrisโ€”am I going to give these sad and insecure people that kinda power over me?

No.

I donโ€™t have time for that. I love how I look. I know Iโ€™m beautiful.

So, I wrote a thread explaining that, and I offered an open hope that these sad and insecure people will someday have the kind of peace and comfort in their own skin as I have in mine.

She fights for the military veteran who comes back from war with horrific wounds. She fights for the woman turned away from life-saving abortion access. She fights for the public school teacher whoโ€™s overworked and underpaid. She fights for every child, every senior, every single American. She fights for all of us.

One of the first public figures to respond to that thread was then-Senator Kamala Harris. (emph. mine-A)

She gave me support. She gave me encouragement. She made me feel seen. And in that moment, she sent a clear message that supporting her means supporting the basic concept that all of us are worthy to be who we are authentically.

I want to be clear: there were no incentives for her here. I hadnโ€™t endorsed her. I hadnโ€™t talked with her campaign. It wasnโ€™t like she was gonna fundraise off this moment.

She did it because Vice President Harris is the kind of leader who fights for every American.

Donald Trump and J.D. Vance are gonna throw everything they got at herโ€”every cruel remark, every disgusting sexist and racist trope, every bit of vileโ€”and theyโ€™re gonna find out the hard way that it just isnโ€™t enough.

And why is that? Because we have a clear strategy here. All we have to do is follow the example of Vice President Harris. She is a leader who builds bridges, who invites tough conversations, who always embraces discomfort as a gift for growth.

If we follow her example, if we make every phone call, if we knock on every door, if we invite tough conversations with our friends and family and neighbors who are on the fence in this election, I guarantee you, on everything I hold dear, that Kamala Harris will be the 47th President of the United States.

Thank god this is our leader. Letโ€™s follow her example. Letโ€™s go win this thing.

To find out how to volunteer and elect our first woman president and save democracy from Trump and Vance and Project 2025, text WOMEN to 30330.

And donate to the historic and exciting campaign of Vice President Harris right here: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/charlotteforharris

Today’s comic

for me, anyway!

Calvin and Hobbes by Bill Watterson for July 30, 2024

Calvin and Hobbes Comic Strip for July 30, 2024

https://www.gocomics.com/calvinandhobbes/2024/07/30

โ€˜Violates free speech rightsโ€™: Part of Florida Gov. Ron DeSantisโ€™ Stop W.O.K.E Act dies with permanent injunction by federal judge

DeSantis Florida

Florida Governor Ron DeSantis addresses the crowd before publicly signing โ€œStop W.O.K.Eโ€ bill in Hialeah Gardens, Florida, on April 22, 2022. (Daniel A. Varela/Miami Herald via AP)

Floridaย Gov. Ron DeSantis often says the Sunshine State is the place where โ€œwoke goes to die.โ€ But a federal judge on Friday killed part of the Stop W.O.K.E. Act championed as standing up against โ€œindoctrination.โ€

Judge Mark Walker of the U.S. District Court for the Northern District of Florida issued aย permanent injunction, saying the law that bans diversity training in private workplaces โ€œviolates free speech rights under the First and Fourteenth Amendments to the U.S. Constitution.โ€ The ruling follows a three-judge appeals court panelโ€™sย March decisionย that upheld Walkerโ€™s original injunction. The State of Florida did not oppose the motion to make the ruling permanent.

Florida honeymoon registry companyย Honeyfund.comย and Primo Tampa, a subsidiary of a Ben & Jerryโ€™s ice cream franchisee, were among those who filed the lawsuit after the Legislature passed the law in 2022. Shalini Goel Agarwal counsel for Protect Democracy which filed the lawsuit on their behalf said the ruling is โ€œa powerful reminder that the First Amendment cannot be warped to serve the interests of elected officials.โ€

โ€œCensoring business owners from speaking in favor of ideas that politicians donโ€™t like is a moved ripped straight from the authoritarian playbook,โ€ she saidย in a statement.

DeSantisย addressed the matterย at a press event Monday.

โ€œWe have every right as a state to provide protections for employees and businesses to say if they are doing woke training which is basically discriminating against folks on the basis of race, you have a right to opt out,โ€ he said. โ€œItโ€™s not a question of what the company can say. They can say whatever they want. But you have a right to not self flagellate. You have a right to not sit there and listen to that nonsense.โ€

Sara Margulis, CEO ofย Honeyfund.com, hailed the appeals court decision from March.

โ€œWe moved Honeyfund to Florida in 2017 because it was known as a business-friendly state,โ€ she said in aย statement. โ€œPassing laws that seek to squash free speech like HB7 is not only a violation of The First Amendment but is also a losing strategy because businesses serve people of all backgrounds, walks of life, and political views. Therefore the law would have effectively hampered the ability of Florida businesses to grow and serve their market. I donโ€™t think thatโ€™s what Florida really wants. Itโ€™s clearly not in line with American values. I couldnโ€™t be happier that we stood up for free speech and business in the state of Florida.โ€

Theย legislationย โ€” HB 7, formally called the โ€œStop Wrongs to Our Kids and Employees Actโ€ โ€” is also aimed at blocking school teachers and college professors from offering their opinions on what DeSantis described as โ€œpernicious ideologiesโ€ that could potentially make students, because of their race, feel personally responsible for past racism, sexism, or other discrimination in the U.S. That part of the law also has an injunction and is awaiting a ruling from a higher court.

Critics have said itโ€™s an attempt to stop meaningful discussion of the ongoing effects of longstanding systemic discrimination and topics including critical race theory and privilege. A slew of lawsuits were filed against the legislation including byย professors, studentsย and theย ACLU. Courts haveย repeatedly blockedย portions of the law.

According to the billโ€™s text, โ€œ[i]t shall constitute discrimination on the basis of race, color, national origin, or sex under this section to subject any student or employee to training or instruction that espouses, promotes, advances, inculcates, or compels such student or employee to believeโ€ the following:

1. Members of one race, color, national origin, or sex are morally superior to members of another race, color, national origin, or sex.

2. A person, by virtue of his or her race, color, national origin, or sex is inherently racist, sexist, or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously.

3. A personโ€™s moral character or status as either privileged or oppressed is necessarily determined by his or her race, color, national origin, or sex.

4. Members of one race, color, national origin, or sex cannot and should not attempt to treat others without respect to race, color, national origin, or sex.

5. A person, by virtue of his or her race, color, national origin, or sex bears responsibility for, or should be discriminated against or receive adverse treatment because of, actions committed in the past by other members of the same race, color, national origin, or sex.

6. A person, by virtue of his or her race, color, national origin, or sex should be discriminated against or receive adverse treatment to achieve diversity, equity, or inclusion.

7. A person, by virtue of his or her race, color, sex, or national origin, bears personal responsibility for and must feel guilt, anguish, or other forms of psychological distress because of actions, in which the person played no part, committed in the past by other members of the same race, color, national origin, or sex.

8. Such virtues as merit, excellence, hard work, fairness, neutrality, objectivity, and racial colorblindness are racist or sexist, or were created by members of a particular race, color, national origin, or sex to oppress members of another race, color, national origin, or sex.

Matt Naham and Marisa Sarnoff contributed to this report.

Extreme heat is making schools hotter โ€” and learning harder

Rising temperatures mean dehydrated, exhausted kids, and teachers who have to focus on heat safety instead of instruction.

Originally published by The 19th (Republished with their republish link)

Angela Girol has been teaching fourth grade in Pittsburgh for over two decades. Over the years sheโ€™s noticed a change at her school: It’s getting hotter. 

Some days temperatures reach 90 degrees Fahrenheit in her classroom which, like many on the East Coast, isnโ€™t air-conditioned. When it’s hot, she said, kids donโ€™t eat, or drink enough water. โ€œThey end up in the nurse’s office because they’re dizzy, they have a headache, their stomach hurts โ€” all because of heat and dehydration,โ€ she said. 

To cope with the heat, her students are now allowed to keep water on their desks, but that presents its own challenges. โ€œThey’re constantly filling up water bottles, so I have to give them breaks during the day for that. And then everyone has to go to the bathroom all the time,โ€ she said. โ€œI’m losing instruction time.โ€ 

The effect extreme heat is having on schools and child care is starting to get the attention of policymakers and researchers. Last week, the Center for American Progress, a left-leaning think tank, published a report on the issue. In April, so did the Federation of American Scientists, a nonprofit policy organization.

โ€œThe average school building in the U.S. was built nearly 50 years ago,โ€ said policy analyst Allie Schneider, co-author of the Center for American Progress report. โ€œSchools and child care centers were built in areas that maybe 30 or 15 years ago didn’t require access to air-conditioning, or at least for a good portion of the year. Now we’re seeing that becoming a more pressing concern.โ€ Students are also on campus during the hottest parts of the day. โ€œItโ€™s something that is really important not just to their physical health, but their learning outcomes,โ€ she said.  

Last April, the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency released its own report detailing some of the effects heat has on kids. It notes that children have a harder time thermo-regulating and take longer to produce sweat, making them more vulnerable than adults to heat exhaustion and heat illness. 

Kids donโ€™t necessarily listen to their bodyโ€™s cues about heat, and might need an adult to remind them to drink water or not play outside. Kevin Toolan, a sixth-grade teacher in Long Island, New York, said having to constantly monitor heat safety distracts him from being able to teach. โ€œThe mindset is shifting to safety rather than instruction,โ€ he said. โ€œThose children donโ€™t know how to handle it.โ€

To keep the classroom cool, heโ€™ll turn the lights off, but kids fall asleep. โ€œThey are lethargic,โ€ he said. 

To protect kids, schools have canceled classes because temperatures have gotten too high. Warmer temperatures also lead to more kids being absent from school, especially low-income students. And heat makes it harder to learn. One study from 2020 tracked the scores of students from schools without air-conditioning who took the PSAT exam at least twice. It found that increases in the average outdoor temperature corresponded with students making smaller gains on their retakes.

Both Toolan and Girol said that cooling options like keeping doors and windows open to promote cross ventilation are gone, thanks to the clampdowns in school security after 9/11 โ€” and worsened by the threat of school shootings. Students and teachers are trapped in their overheating classrooms. โ€œTeachers report leaving with migraines or signs of heat exhaustion,โ€ said Toolan. โ€œAt 100 degrees, it is very uncomfortable. Your clothes are stuck to you.โ€ 

The Center for American Progress report joins a call by other advocacy groups to create federal guidance that schools and child care centers could adopt โ€œto ensure that children are not forced to learn, play and exercise in dangerously hot conditions,โ€ Schneider said. Some states already have standards in place, but they vary. In California, child care facilities are required to keep temperatures between 68 and 85 degrees. In Maryland, the recommendation is between 74 and 82 degrees. A few states, like Florida, require schools to reduce outdoor activity on high-heat days. Schneider says federal guidance would help all school districts use the latest scientific evidence to set protective standards. 

In June, 23 health and education advocacy organizations signed a letter making a similar request of the Department of Education, asking for better guidance and coordination to protect kids. Some of their recommendations included publishing a plan that schools could adopt for dealing with high temperatures; encouraging states to direct more resources to providing air-conditioning in schools; and providing school districts with information on heat hazards.

โ€œWe know that school infrastructure is being overwhelmed by extreme heat, and that without a better system to advise schools on the types of practices they should be implementing, it’s going to be a little bit of the Wild West of actions being taken,โ€ said Grace Wickerson, health equity policy manager at the Federation of American Scientists. 

A longer term solution is upgrading school infrastructure but the need for air conditioning is overwhelming. According to the Center for American Progress report, 36,000 schools nationwide donโ€™t have adequate HVAC systems. By 2025, it estimates that installing or upgrading HVAC or other cooling systems will cost around $4.4 billion. 

Some state or local governments are trying to address the heat issue. In June, the New York State Legislature passed a bill now awaiting the governorโ€™s signature that would require school staff to take measures like closing blinds or turning off lights when temperatures reach 82 degrees inside a classroom. At 88 degrees, classes would be canceled. A bill introduced last year and currently before Californiaโ€™s state assembly would require schools to create extreme heat action plans that could include mandating hydration and rest breaks or moving recess to cooler parts of the day. 

Some teachers have been galvanized to take action, too. As president of the Patchogue-Medford Congress of Teachers, Toolan was part of an effort to secure $80 million for infrastructure upgrades through a bond vote. Over half will go to HVAC systems for some 500 schools in his district.

And Girol is running for a state representative seat in Pennsylvania, where a main plank in her platform is to fully fund public schools in order to pay for things like air-conditioning. She was recently endorsed by the Climate Cabinet, a federal political action committee. โ€œPart of the reason climate is so important to me is because of this issue,โ€ she said. โ€œI see how it’s negatively affecting my students.โ€

Private schools, libraries sue Idaho for law restricting โ€˜harmfulโ€™ materials

Idaho’s recently enacted bill encourages parents and children to bring legal action against schools and libraries that refuse to move certain material into “adult only” sections.

ย / July 25, 2024

Dems, Non-Trumpers: Going on Offense in Pushing Back Against Trumpโ€™s Lies and Missteps

I have followed Gronda for a long time, before she took her long break.ย  But she is back and her writtings while in debth and a bit long are so very interesting and well researched that they are more than worth the time to read.ย  I love them.ย  I hope everyone here will.ย  Hugs.ย  Scottie

Monday, July 29, 2024

The Weird Problem

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Looking at photos, I’m not sure why the Lord’s Supper would occur to people. I’ve seen or seen photos of all the Masters’s artworks of the Last Supper, and this doesn’t look like any of those. I don’t know why someone would choose to pick this fight, but there are plenty of people complaining. I wonder how many of them have seen the artworks, and also, even how many of them actually watched the performance, which was not, as I understand what I read, at all about the Lord’s Supper, but was about French art. Hmm. “Weird” is a fine term. Also I know I love Strangely Blogged!

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Some conservatives are pushing back on claims that JD Vance and Donald Trump and maybe a lot of other Republicans are “weird”–but I’m sorry, it is what it is. I get that Republicans have put a lot of stock in saying they represent “Real America (TM)” and the cosmopolitan Big City Lefty Liberal Arugula-Eaters with Their Fancy Brown Mustard and Priuses and pronouns are oddball hippie Comsymps or whatever, But right off the bat, deciding lettuce, Grey Poupon and parts of speech are weird–is weird.

Being really mad at the Olympics because you were told Christianity was being insulted when the opening show had nothing to do with Christianity and demanding others agree with you–is weird.

Smashing coffee makers or shooting cases of Bud Lite because a talk show host told you to be mad is weird. 

Pretending to be a party of small government but wanting to track women’s menses, stop them from travelling, or wanting to take inventory of people’s pee parts before they can use a public restroom, is weird.

Wanting women to carry dead fetuses is weird, and ghoulish.ย (snip-More)

https://vixenstrangelymakesuncommonsense.blogspot.com/2024/07/the-weird-problem.html#more

The View from Rural Missouri by Jess Piper

The Vibes Have Changed… by Jess Piper

Hope.

Read on Substack

My husband and I have five kids. Four are now adults and we have one still at home. We have raised wrestlers, football players, basketball players, and a softball player. Weโ€™ve had a cheerleader and two homecoming kings, but we never expected our last to hate sports and love theater. Let me tell youโ€ฆitโ€™s a breath of fresh air and I donโ€™t have to take out special insurance riders for concussions and broken collar bones.

Our last kiddo is a theater kid and I love it.

I walked into my daughterโ€™s yearly play performance a couple of days ago and saw a woman smiling at me as I passed. You have to remember that I am in a small town and if people know me, they also know my loud-mouth brand of politics, so I can be polarizing in person. If they know me, they like me or hate me. Thereโ€™s no in-between.

So when I saw her smiling at me, I smiled back. Whew! She must be friendly. She said โ€œKamalaโ€ as I walked past. I turned back and said, โ€œKamala?โ€ She responded with, โ€œYes, we Kam,โ€ and her smile grew even bigger. I couldnโ€™t believe what I had just heard.

Kamala.

That was the Friday night performance. My daughter also had a Saturday matinee. My husband and I sat closer to the stage for this one since we knew where to better see our kid as she sang and danced. As we sat down, a woman behind me said, โ€œJess!โ€ I turned and she told me how much she appreciated me speaking out on rural issues. She held my hand as she told me how excited she was to hear Kamala would be the nominee. We talked for just a minute and I then turned back to see my husband scrolling Facebook marketplace as we waited for the play to beginโ€ฆheโ€™s always looking for a deal on an old car or a lawnmower. We need neither.

A couple of minutes passed when a former student (I adore her and her entire family) got my attention. Mrs. Piper! She introduced me to yet another woman who lives in my community and sat next to me nearly breathless in her excitement for the upcoming election. She asked how we could start organizing for 2024. How can we work to elect Crystal Quade as the first woman Governor of Missouri? How can we make sure abortion rights win on Missouri ballots? How can we organize in tiny Northwest Missouri to elect Kamala Harris?

Her eyes were clear and bright. She also held my hand while speaking. She and the other women were exhibiting something I had not seen in a long timeโ€ฆit looked like hope.

Adams County, Illinois.

I was asked to speak to a group of Democrats in Quincy, Illinois this week and I happily accepted. Quincy is a town just over the Mississippi River from Missouri. The landscape looks exactly like the corn and bean fields of Missouri, and it is just across the river, but I was suddenly bestowed with bodily autonomy and the rights of a first-class citizen as soon as I drove east across that muddy river.

โ€œStatesโ€™ Rights.โ€

The problem with driving several hours with only minutes to dress for an event? I am consistently dressing next to a toilet โ€” changing out of my leggings or shorts and into a dress. I always hope for a stall with a hook to hang my things so I donโ€™t have to drop my clothes onto a public bathroom floor. And, donโ€™t even ask how I apply makeup while sitting on a toilet. I live a glamorous life, friend ๐Ÿ˜‰

Anyway, I managed the toilet two-step and walked out ready to speak to a few people. The event organizer told me there are usually 50-60 people who attend.

As soon as folks started arriving for the event, I noticed it would be a bigger crowd than they had anticipated. The Adams County Dems had prepared enough food for 90 people โ€” over and above what they hoped to host. They had over 100 show up. The organizer told me it was the biggest event they have had in years. Iโ€™d like to say itโ€™s because people were there to hear me, but I know thatโ€™s not the case. People showed up because they were excited. They wanted to be around like-minded friends who are excited. They wanted to smile broadly and talk loudly. They wanted to hear others affirm what they felt.

They have hope.

I noticed a woman in a Kamala shirtโ€ฆit had only been three days since Joe said he was stepping aside. I asked her if she had a Cricut machine in her basement. These folks are moving fast. Excitement.

I sat down at a table to eat my pulled pork sandwich before my talk and organizers from an abortion rights group were at the table already discussing the Plan B kits they send across the border to Missouri. One woman said they put together over 100 kits and sent them to bars in Missouri with a no-pay policy. If you need the kit, just walk in and ask. I was amazed at the work they are doing to help women in another state. My state. The first state to completely ban abortion after Roe fell.

Bless them.

The first speaker was a first-generation Mexican American who also served in the Army. He was fiery. He blew us away with his love of country and patriotism for a country that has not lived up to its potential. He reminded the audience that Democrats are patriots. That we are trying to live up to ideals that will pave the way for all to live freely in our country. He stands in the way of a Trump dictatorship.

I love to hear Dems remind us that the Republicans do not own patriotism or the flag. In fact, the leader of the Republican party is a shameful man who does not stand for American values. The audience came to their feet as he closed his message.

The next speaker was a young woman from rural Missouri. She is only 16, but she came with a speech that made me remember why Republicans want to ban books and ban the teaching of accurate history. She spoke of being a woman in a red state with an abortion ban. โ€œOh, to be a Woman.โ€ She spoke of women activists and the suffrage movement. She is a woman of color and she spoke of the civil rights movement. She spoke of second-class citizenship and of her ability to see why politicians would want to oppress generations of women. Fear of our vote.

Republicans push fear while we move forward in hope.

And, this is where I should say something. Reader, you know I was in favor of Joe staying in the race, and this was the reason: Every time pundits and consultants spoke of Biden dropping out, they never named Kamala Harris. Her name did not appear on the lists for nomination, and I am not sure they would have ceded the nomination if Biden had not endorsed her as he did. If tens of thousands of us would not have immediately started donating and picking up the torch Joe had passed.

If we had not rallied behind the woman we hope to nominate for the presidency, I think we may have had another nominee and many Democrats would have felt the fracture in our party.

There is no fracture now. There is palpable hope and joy. Eyes are wide and clear and smiles abound. Folks hold my hand to tell me how excited they are to see where the party is going.

I am telling you the story of rural spaces.

The vibes have changed.

~Jess