Listening to clips of Rev. Ed Trevors on this day as Ron and I are spending loving time in the kitchen cooking far more food than we alone can eat. It is the together time that is important. Best wishes to all. A good way to celebrate Christmas day don’t you think. Hugs

If you only watch one of these please watch this one.  He talks about the cost of marginalizing those minorities who have less, giving hate to those groups that are different based on your own egos such as the LGBTQ+.  He explains why that was never the plan Jesus had for those who claimed to be his followers.  I do not share his belief in a deity, but I sure do endorse him message of inclusion and love.  Oh and I am about to peel 9 hard boiled eggs so Ron can make deviled eggs which I love warm, he has the new chicken supreme sauce recipe in the oven along with a large ham, only there is no chicken in the chicken supreme.  Instead it has lots of potatoes and large sliced mushrooms.  We both love the gravy the sauce makes and so thought why not do it with other things.  Hope your meals will be as grand as ours.  I am so happy right now, the most happy I have been in two months.   Hugs.

This is another important one about Christian nationalism and how seeking power ends up losing god.  Love it.  Hugs

Looking Around for Something for People Who Do Not Observe Christmas, So They Have Festivity, Too,

and Food Network.com came through. I found 3 recipes I want to keep; a brioche, a cottage pie, and the chicken salad because, well, take a look at it!

I can’t wait to make this cottage pie; I love them, especially with mushrooms instead of beef. But I’ll follow the recipe the first time I make it. I usually make cottage pie for Meal Trains, and just for us, and also like to make one with leftover ham, peas, and sweet potatoes. Meanwhile, this brioche is beautiful. I don’t keep white flour, but will buy some (brioche isn’t brioche when it’s whole wheat.) And the salad! It won’t be too many weeks, and we’ll be wanting cooler foods. Enjoy, everyone.

GAY TIMES: “Being trans creates new versions of being a man”: On growing your own dick and b ottom growth

I am resharing this post because Janet found the story and gave us the link so we all could read it.  I love the people who come here.   Thank you Janet.   Hugs

Right wing Preacher Needs To Be Called A Bigot…

Christmas Eve Cover Snark!

These are so funny! Worth the click. I have AdBlock Plus on my puter; the link shows disable ad blocker even though I did because I love SBTB. Just ignore that on this page, and go read-it’s worth it, and the ads interestingly sometimes correlate (they’re all for books)!

I Learned A Thing Last Night

I’ve always wondered if somebody gave such performances, but had never heard of them before I read this. It makes my equality-driven heart happy.

The First Reality Competition Series for Drag Kings Is Officially Seeking Audition Tapes

Comedian and drag king Murray Hill will host King of Drag, the first-of-its-kind series.

By Mathew Rodriguez December 17, 2024

Finally, some news that’s not a drag.

Somebody Somewhere actor and veteran comedian Murray Hill is set to host a drag king reality competition series, The King of Drag, which will air on the LGBTQ+ streaming service Revry this spring, Variety reports. Tucked into Variety’s announcement was the application to be on the show, for which the deadline is January 5.

The King of Drag bills itself as the first drag king competition series. Kings looking to earn a spot on the show’s inaugural cast will have to submit a wealth of material, all of which is outlined on the audition site. Potential cast must submit five photos of their top drag looks, videos of themselves in and out of drag, and a reel of previous drag performances. Finally, auditioning kings are asked to submit a resume of their performance work in drag and film themselves lip-syncing to a song or medley that shows off their “drag essence.”

King of Drag, according to the audition site, “will expansively represent drag while promoting inclusion, authentic self-expression, and diverse gender identities including trans masc, cisgender women, non-binary and more.”

Aside from the audition materials, kings who want to compete on the series must also answer a slate of questions that probe deeper into their drag personae, personal views, and craft, including whether they design their own costumes, how comfortable they would feel being open about themselves on national television, who they count among their entertainer inspirations, and — very practically — how long it takes them to get in drag.

Series host Hill just wrapped up his work on Somebody Somewhere, the acclaimed — and extremely queer — HBO series about friends as family. The six-episode series is looking to cast eight kings.

“I’m so excited to be working with Revry as the host of ‘King of Drag,’” Hill told Variety.” “I started performing in 1995, so it’s long overdue for the kings to take center stage. This vibrant community deserves to be in the spotlight, and I’ll be their biggest hype man.”

According to a press release from Revry, the show will incorporate challenges that are unlike other drag competition shows, including an emphasis on comedy, unconventional performances, and “timely commentary on masculinity. “

Drag kings have long fought for the same kind of cultural recognition that their queen counterparts enjoy; in today’s media landscape that does include time on a reality competition series. While the behemoth of the format — RuPaul’s Drag Race and its spin-offs — has started to incorporate a more diverse set of queens, including trans queens and cis female queens such as Victoria Scone and Maddy Morphosis, the show has always emphasized a feminine drag aesthetic. Other shows, such as The Boulet Brothers’ Dragula have welcomed drag kings, with Landon Cider triumphing in the show’s third season.

Peace & Justice History for 12/20

Vermont Freedom To Marry Passes, and more on this date:

December 20, 1946
The morning after Viet Minh forces under Ho Chi Minh launched a nighttime revolt in the Vietnamese capital of Hanoi, French colonial troops cracked down on the communist rebels. Ho and his soldiers immediately fled the city to regroup in the countryside.
That evening, the communist leader issued a proclamation that read:

Ho Chi Minh, Paris 1946

“All the Vietnamese must stand up to fight the French colonials to save the fatherland. Those who have rifles will use their rifles; those who have swords will use their swords; those who have no swords will use spades, hoes, or sticks. Everyone must endeavor to oppose the colonialists and save this country. Even if we have to endure hardship in the resistance war, with the determination to make sacrifices, victory will surely be ours.” The first Indochina War thus began.
December 20, 1960
North Vietnam announced the formation of the National Front for the Liberation of the South (usually known as the National Liberation Front or NLF), designed to replicate the success of the Viet Minh, the umbrella nationalist organization that successfully liberated Vietnam from French colonial rule.

National Liberation Front flag 
Ho Chi Minh biography (two separate links.)
December 20, 1990

Kansas reservist Dr. Yolanda Huet-Vaughn refused orders to serve in the first Gulf War (Desert Storm) and was later sentenced to prison. The Kansas medical board withdrew her hospital privileges.
“The issue was not whether I belonged in the military but whether the military belonged in the Middle East waging war. I did not want to focus on the personal decision. I was trying to focus on the decision for which each and every American would have to be responsible.” — Yolanda Huet-Vaughn
What if they gave a war and nobody came? 
December 20, 1994
100,000 Chechnyan civilians linked hands in a 65 km-long human chain (40 miles) to protest the Russian invasion of their country and attack on their capital, Grozny.

Read more  OR TRY HERE if you don’t have an account with the NYWT.
December 20, 1999
The Vermont Supreme Court rulled in Baker v. State of Vermont that homosexual couples were entitled to the same benefits and protections as wedded couples of the opposite sex.

History of the Freedom to Marry 

https://www.peacebuttons.info/E-News/peacehistorydecember.htm#december20

Some Nancy Mace attention crying. Just realized I did not post this.

JoeMyGodMod2 days ago

Had a pro-tr*ns activist rush the stage during a speaking engagement

Another stupid lie.

As anyone who saw the video here on JMG knows, said activist stood up at her seat in the audience and was instantly hustled out by security.

She never even left her row of seats.

Enjoy having these people being forced to use the women’s restroom, according to your beliefs, dumbass.

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This trans man is ready to help!

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Mace wants this trans man to be forced to use the women’s public bathroom.

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From the merchandise site:

It’s Nancy Mace here. The Left wants to NORMALIZE the idea of a NAKED MAN walking into our private spaces.

Some Bluesky posts. I recommend reading the links to the anti-trans stories.

Yesterday, 37 Democratic Senators voted to pass the anti-trans NDAA.Those same Dems refused to allow Senator Baldwin to advance an amendment to remove anti-trans provisions from the bill.EITM has released an easy to read list of Senators who voted for it.Subscribe to support our journalism.

Erin Reed (@erininthemorning.com) 2024-12-19T15:34:29.396Z

This follows the Queensland and French reviews into care that found care to be safe and effective. The Cass Review was a political hatchet job. Guarantee the NYT and US media doesn't cover this.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T13:18:58.565Z

In 2024, several New Hampshire Democrats, afraid that anti-trans attacks would work, voted in favor of a trans surgery ban and bathroom bill.They lost more seats than most other states. Now the R majority is ramping up targeting us.Capitulation didn't work.National Dems, take note.

Erin Reed (@erininthemorning.com) 2024-12-19T05:05:53.670Z

There is no joy in taking health insurance coverage away from any of our constituents, including trans children of active duty service members here in Virginia.You can’t support our troops by making it harder for families to afford medically necessary health care prescribed by their doctors.

Sen. Danica Roem (@pwcdanica.bsky.social) 2024-12-18T19:09:58.939Z

This is the trans athletic scare that has half the nation in a tizzy. It’s manufactured fear, playing off of ignorance and bigotry.

George Takei (@georgetakei.bsky.social) 2024-12-19T17:38:11.087Z

The result of puberty blocker bans means trans youth are just skipping to grey market hormones, not managed by a healthcare provider. So the result of bans is care that is not managed and worse for everyone involved. This is why gatekeeping doesn't work. People will get access anyways.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T16:47:29.073Z

The only thing you do is make it less safe for trans people. Trans teens taking grey market hormones has been a thing for decades and had been declining until bans started kicking in. You'd think these idiots would learn that prohibitions never actually stops anything, you just make it less visible.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T16:47:29.074Z

Rand Paul becomes the first to call for Elon Musk to replace Mike Johnson as Speaker. Which, if you listened to my podcast Uncovered yesterday, you already knew was going to happen before it just happened.

Ron Filipkowski (@ronfilipkowski.bsky.social) 2024-12-19T13:06:10.248Z

Mitch McConnell ran a playbook of total opposition after the 2008 election and it resulted in Republicans flipping 6 senate seats and 63 house seats two years after the biggest Dem victory since LBJwhat the fuck are you people doing

Micah (@rincewind.run) 2024-12-18T16:16:00.341Z

The government is going to get shut down because this oligarch dipshit believes blatant lies from the dumbest person on Twitter.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T04:16:58.141Z

I don't think we're prepared for just how stupid things are about to get. The dumbest people on earth high on conspiracy theories will be making policy decisions like pandemic response based on disinformation from twitter.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T04:21:54.369Z

We’re all going to have to continue to push back on this lie from Trump that he won a “mandate” of historic proportions.

George Takei (@georgetakei.bsky.social) 2024-12-19T18:30:01.228Z

"2025 Will Be the Year of Trump's Crackdown on Islam"What Trump’s hawkish anti-Muslim appointees mean for the Middle East – and beyond, writes @attackerman.bsky.social for @zeteo.com

Mehdi Hasan (@mehdirhasan.bsky.social) 2024-12-19T18:16:23.849Z

Jeffries: That bipartisan agreement has now been detonated because House Republicans have been ordered to shut down the government and hurt the very working-class Americans that many of them pretend to want to help

Acyn (@acyn.bsky.social) 2024-12-19T16:53:20.945Z

The police exist to protect property, not people.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T16:06:02.492Z

This is why police unions are not real unions and no one should view them as such. They exist to protect power and property. That's it. There's no solidarity to be found there.

Alejandra Caraballo (@esqueer.net) 2024-12-19T16:14:35.755Z

I am worn out and going to bed.

First I want to acknowledge that I still 11 tabs of comments I did not get to yet today.  They are saved for tomorrow.  I know Ali and Randy understand my situation so I want to clue the rest in before I go to bed, and yes I am very tired.  

I went to bed about 5 PM last night after eating some beef stroganoff that Ron insisted I eat before going to bed.  But I couldn’t sleep.  So I tossed and turned until Ron came to bed hours later. 

Then because we are a couple that love each other and like sleeping together we snuggled, me spooning him first and while he slept I did not.  Then he woke and he wanted us to roll over so we did, now he was pressed tight to me … and again he fell asleep.  Then about 11:45 he woke up and wanted to stop cuddling which I agreed with.  He fell asleep.  

Well I fretted but did manage to fall asleep about 11:45 pm or later … only to be woken by our rescue inside outside old cat that need lots of feedings started yellowing at the top of his small lungs.  At 12:50 am.  I got up.  Ron who wakes up if I snort or cry out or hell even turn over wrong, sleeps through his cat’s cries.  I feed him, the cat, not Ron.  Then I returned to bed.  I watched the clock.  I was not going to get up, I was not going to get up, I was not going to get up … fuck it I got up.   At 1:30 am.  No sleep, grumpy.  

About 5 am  had some sloppy Joe mix Ron made the night before.  It is not setting well with me.    We have been having trouble finding one that tastes good but doesn’t make me thorw up.  

Well I am online answering comments and doing my blogging stuff until Ron gets up at 6:30 am.  I ask him if he wants to walk, he says no he wants me to go lay down, I am now two days without sleep.  I go lay down at 7 am.  I stay there until 7″30 am and can’t sleep, so get up and go to talk to Ron.  He says I need to try longer.  I do, At 9 am I get up and am determined to start my blogging day.

I am blogging and helping Ron.  I do the dishes as Ron has been clearing the Florida Room junked up with stuff after Hurricane Ian we had nowhere else to put.  An argument I made for a new shed that no one would listen to me on.  We had a huge dresser packed with dishware, and we brought it in to be cleaned.  We had a large stand up cabinet we emptied or more dishware and stuff we need so also brought that into the main house to clean.  

So all day while I did laundry and helped Ron wash and dry dishes I did some blogging.  It was all going great … Until this evening when Ron asked me several uncomfortable questions … Damn it!

Did you eat today he asked?  Yes I joyfully told him I had the sloppy Joe mix you made last night, ate two buns so 4 sides.   … he looked at me.  Did it stay down.   Well I stuttered … so far but it is trying hard to come back up.  That was when he declared such mix off the menu until I can stomach better despite my counterarguments.  

The rest of the afternoon went well, we worked on laundry and even the Florida room and moved / washed the stuff together for their new place in the house. 

Then things took an ugly turn.  At around 4:45 pm Ron decided I need to eat.  I informed him (sounds better than saying I told him) I was not hungry.  He got angry.  Scottie he tried to sound authoritarian … you have to eat, you are losing too much weight and this is not good for you.   I countered with I am not hungry and if I force my self I will be sick … But I relented and said OK how about a small salad.  I love salads and in a small bowl even when I am really nauseated I can eat them.   

But he had a better idea I liked right away.  On the advice of our wonderful brother Randy Ron bought some yogurts for this situation.  He gave me one and I did not complain … I knew better.  I ate it.  Not a flavor I like.  I struggled it down anyway or else he was going to make something and watch me while I ate it. 

Now it is nearly 6 pm here.  I have not gotten to all the comments and pages I have opened … but I keep falling asleep at my desk.  Not something I want to have Ron discover me doing.  If he finds me asleep he will throw a huge fit that will take a lot more to solve than just going to bed.  Plus my eyes keep blurring out and I clear them to realize I typed nonsense or worse.   Night all.  Hugs and loves.  Scottie