NJ Youth Pastor Charged With 75 Child Sex Counts

I could post 3 to5 of these stories a day.   Most of them I must avoid reading as most of you can understand.    But this one caught my eye because of the number of charges and the method.   This is the real meaning of grooming; Grooming is a method used by offenders that involves building trust with a child to allow the perp more access and opportunity to abuse them.   The republicans and right wing media are hammering that teachers are grooming the children by allowing them to come out in schools, using the correct pronouns / names of trans gender kids, and allowing age appropriate information / discussion of gender and LGBTQ+ content.   The real intent of the right is an attempt to destroy both public education along with any tolerance / acceptance of the LGBTQ+ while creating a hostile environment for gay, lesbian, and trans kids.   What this guy does works on kids that have been denied sex education and the ability to talk openly with adults about sexual issues.   This guy would have failed with this if these kids were not made to feel so ashamed of their bodies that they would do anything to avoid a picture of their junk to be seen by friends or parents.   This is what happens when kids are taught to just say no or are not taught how to address when they have desires / needs that have to be addressed.  If you read the article the guy would claim to be a girl, boys desperate to see a nude girl would send him pictures of their dicks and balls.  Girls do it also.  Gay and lesbian kids fall pray to this also.    So the perp then tells the kids they will send the nude pictures of their privates to their friends and parents unless the kid shows more and does sexual acts like masturbating or inserting something in themselves.   Remember I posted about another youth pastor that would do this and then would arrange to be with the boy and mother when he sent the most explicit videos to the boy’s mother.  He loved the mother’s reactions and took great enjoyment in the boy’s embarrassment and future punishments.   Hugs

The Philadelphia Inquirer reports:

A Burlington County man who served as a youth pastor has been indicted on charges that he sexually exploited underage boys, deceiving them into sending him explicit images, then blackmailing them into performing lewd acts so he could watch and record them remotely, authorities said Friday.

Sean Higgins, 31, of Palmyra, has been in custody since he was arrested in October 2020. He is accused of victimizing 13 boys ages 12 to 17 who were living in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Alabama, Michigan, Minnesota, South Dakota, and Tennessee.

A grand jury this week indicted Higgins on 75 total counts that included charges of endangering the welfare of a child, aggravated sexual assault, criminal sexual contact, cyber harassment, and obscenity to a minor.

Patch reports:

Higgins adopted the persona of a teenage girl he named Julie Miller and then used Snapchat and Instagram to start talking with underage boys, the prosecutor said.

After a bond was forged between ‘Julie Miller’ and each of the underage boys, Higgins “would suggest that they trade photos. Higgins would then send pictures” of an unidentified teenage girl, the prosecutor’s office stated.

Higgins would take a screenshot of the teenage boys’ friends who were listed on their phones, “send that screenshot back to the victim and threaten to send the nude photos he had just received to the list of the victim’s friends unless the victim did exactly what Higgins demanded,” the prosecutor’s office stated.

https://www.fox29.com/news/burlington-county-youth-pastor-indicted-for-online-child-sexual-exploitation

Video at the link above.

 

Ščŏŧŧ Ċ – 🇺🇦 🕊 • 12 hours ago

A youth pastor who preys on youth. How novel. How completely unexpected.

Tim 🇺🇦 • 12 hours ago

Yet I’m sure he was against LGBTQIA+ rights.

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Cel • 12 hours ago • edited

I can imagine the terror those poor boys felt when they realized they were deceived and family and friends might find out. That sick pedo needs to do years of prison time.

Teedofftaxpayer • 12 hours ago

And yeah lets keep calling the LGBTQ community the “groomers”.

victorvond0om • 12 hours ago

They freak out about trans women and drag queens but this person is neither. It’s all protection and deflection.

PlutoAnimus • 12 hours ago

Why do Republicans really believe that teachers are pedophile groomers?

Because their kids’ creepy teachers at their Christian schools give off that exact vibe.

Should Schools Digitally Track How Long Kids Are In the Bathroom?

Many schools in the U.S. have added a new digital tool to monitor students when they go on bathroom breaks. Jayar Jackson, Cenk Uygur, and Ben Gleib discuss on The Young Turks.

Read more HERE: https://www.vice.com/en/article/dy73n…

“e-HallPass, a digital system that students have to use to request to leave their classroom and which takes note of how long they’ve been away, including to visit the bathroom, has spread into at least a thousand schools around the United States.

The system has some resemblance to the sort of worker monitoring carried out by Amazon, which tracks how long its staff go to the toilet for, and is used to penalize workers for “time off task.” It also highlights how automated tools have led to increased surveillance of students in schools, and employees in places of work.”

Texas public schools required to display “In God We Trust” posters if they are donated

Note that because the Texas anti-abortion bounty laws were not struck by the SCOTUS even though they skirt the laws to let the public overturn private civil rights of people doing legal acts that a small minority doesn’t like, they are now doing the same thing to force more religious views on the public.    Several states that tried to implement these laws led to schools posting small or stylized posters / signs that explained when the motto was added as the national motto and added other religions.   This law will stop that.   The law is intended to make sure the donated posters / signs will be from highly religious organizations to push the Christian god.   That is the second point I want emphasize.   This is about pushing the Christian god on the public including those who have different religions or no religious faith at all.   The law doesn’t say in Allah we trust.   It doesn’t say in multiple gods we trust.  What about the atheist families, doesn’t this interfere with the parental rights pushed so hard by this same small minority to ban books and discussion of LGBTQ+ subjects in schools / libraries.    Parents rights seem only to apply to right wing maga Christians, not any other parents.   Hugs

The law passed last year says schools must display the national motto in a “conspicuous place” but only if the poster is “donated” or “purchased by private donations.”

Students work at their desks at Blanco Vista Elementary School in San Marcos on Monday August, 23, 2021.
 
 
 
 

“In God We Trust” origins

 

From motto to movement

The real meaning behind putting “In God We Trust” posters in public schools.

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Texas school BANS Anne Frank’s Diary as Right Wing Censorship reacts new heights

A Texas school district withdrew Anne Frank’s diary from classrooms after parental complaints forcing Administrators in Fort Worth to withdraw and review over 35 “contentious” books. Meidas Co-Founder Ben Meiselas reacts.

An (incomplete) list of gender pronouns

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/08/incomplete-list-gender-pronouns/

See this really is not that hard.   It is simple respect.   Hugs.

 
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In the English language, we have masculine and feminine pronouns, which can be difficult for people who don’t identify as male or female. In recent years, there has been a push to add more gender-neutral pronouns into the English language. If you’re not sure what these are, or you’re unclear about how to use them, read on.

Here, we explain everything you need to know about gender-neutral pronouns and gender pronouns as a whole, as well as provide a list of pronouns used today.

Related: The Crown’s Emma Corrin shares new pronouns & opens up about gender journey

What Are Gender Pronouns?

Pronouns are words that are used to substitute nouns in a sentence. We also use pronouns to refer to people other than their names.

In English, we have the pronouns he/him/his to refer to people who identify as men and the pronouns she/her/hers for people who identify as women.

Gender-neutral Pronouns

Gender-neutral pronouns are pronouns that are often used by a speaker when referring to someone whose gender is unknown. The most common example of gender-neutral pronouns is the singular they/them/theirs pronouns.

For example, you can say “Someone left a package outside your door. They didn’t leave a note though.” or “I called a plumber to check out the sink. I’m expecting them at 4 pm.”

Gender-neutral pronouns are also often used by non-binary and gender non-conforming people who don’t strictly identify as either male or female.

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Neopronouns

Although the singular “they” is the most popular gender-neutral pronoun, there are several other options out there. The term “neopronouns” describes a new category of gender-neutral pronouns that are used as an alternative to they/them/theirs pronouns.

Some examples of neopronouns include ey/em/eirs and ze/zir/zirs.

Rolling Pronouns

Some gender non-conforming and transmasculine/transfeminine people prefer using more than one set of pronouns. These are called rolling pronouns and can be used alternately in a sentence or across separate sentences.

Some people prefer using different sets of pronouns on different days depending on how they identify. This is particularly true for people who identify as genderfluid or whose gender is in a constant state of flux.

Examples of people who use rolling pronouns include actor Elliot Page (he/they), singer Halsey (she/they), and Queer Eye’s grooming expert Jonathan Van Ness (she/they/he).

List Of Gender Pronouns

Unfortunately, we can’t provide an exhaustive list of all pronouns, as people come up with new pronouns all the time. Here is an incomplete list of some of the most commonly used gender pronouns today:

Subject Object Possessive Determiner Possessive Pronoun Reflexive
ce cir cir cirs cirself
co co cos cos coself
cy cyr cyr cyrs cyrself
ey em eir eirs emself
he him his his himself
hey hem heir heirs hemself
ne nem nir nirs nemself
qui quem quis quis quemself
she her her hers herself
sie hir hir hirs hirself
tey tem teir teirs temself
they them their theirs themself
xe xem xyr xyrs xemself
xie hir hir hirs hirself
yo yo yos yos yoself
ze zir zir zirs zirself
ve vis ver ver verself

Why Do Pronouns Matter?

Pronouns are personal identifiers, just like people’s names. By respecting someone’s pronouns, you show the person that you respect who they are and how they identify.

This is particularly important for transgender and non-binary people who may wrestle with gender dysphoria – a feeling of discomfort or distress associated with the mismatch between their sex assigned at birth and gender identity. For these people, being referred to with the correct pronouns can help alleviate that dysphoria, increase their self-esteem, and improve their overall sense of self.

Using people’s correct pronouns – and talking about the importance of doing so – also encourages others to follow suit. This paves the way for more inclusive attitudes towards gender-expansive people.

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How To Be Respectful Of Other People’s Pronouns

It goes without saying that you should never purposefully misgender someone if you already know their personal pronouns. But how else can you be inclusive and respectful of other people’s pronouns?

Never Assume A Person’s Pronouns Based On How They Look

In the same way that we shouldn’t assume people’s genders based on how they look, we also shouldn’t assume what other people’s pronouns are. Doing so can reinforce harmful gender stereotypes.

Offer Your Pronouns When Meeting Someone New

Most people assume that only LGBTQ people share their gender pronouns. But having a list of pronouns isn’t just an LGBTQ thing.

Again, by being open about our own gender pronouns, we can normalize the idea of sharing pronouns. This makes it easier for transgender and gender non-conforming people to share their pronouns with others and helps them feel safe to share their pronouns with you.

Apologize When You Get Someone’s Pronouns Wrong

It may be challenging to get the hang of using someone’s personal pronouns, especially if you’re used to referring to someone in a certain way. As such, try not to panic if you accidentally address someone with the wrong pronouns.

But you also have to assure the other person that you are not purposefully misgendering them. When doing so, it is best to apologize quickly and avoid making a fuss over the blunder. You don’t want to call attention to the situation or put the other person in an awkward or uncomfortable spot.

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Add Your Gender Pronouns To Your Social Media Bios, Email Signatures, Etc.

One easy way to encourage the use of personal pronouns is by adding them to your social media bio, email signature, business card, etc. This can encourage others to follow suit and signals to transgender and non-binary friends and colleagues that you are an ally they can trust.

Avoid Phrases Like ‘Preferred Pronouns’

You may have heard the term “preferred pronouns” in reference to gender pronouns. While this is fairly common, many in the trans and non-binary community try to avoid this language, as it suggests that their correct pronouns are merely a preference or a suggestion. Instead, try using words like “personal pronouns” or, simply, “pronouns”.

Did You Enjoy Our List Of Pronouns?

Words matter. Language helps us understand parts of ourselves and allows us to communicate who we are to other people. As such, everyone needs to recognize that other people’s pronouns, much like their name and gender identity, should be acknowledged and respected.

If you enjoyed this article, check out the related articles to learn more about how to be more inclusive toward trans and non-binary people.

Related: How to know if you are non-binary

Parents of second & third place girls file complaint against winner claiming she’s transgender

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/08/parents-second-third-place-girls-file-complaint-winner-claiming-shes-transgender/

All these anti-trans bills that allowed the inspection of kid’s genitals if they are suspected of being trans.   What is the justification for mislabeling them?   They are better than their peers, they have natural gifts that make them better.    This is why the trans women in women sports are stealing the right wins from women is so stupid.   What now separating out the ones taller as unfair, separating out the stronger ones as unfair.   See how idiotic this has become.   All because of bigotry and hate.    Hugs

 
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Parents of the girls who got second and third place in a sporting event filed complaints to have the first-place winner investigated for her gender. The first-place girl is cis.

David Spatafore of the Utah High School Activities Association (UHSAA) is in charge of enforcing the state’s new ban on transgender girls participating in school sports as their gender. While he wouldn’t reveal the sport she played or the school she attended in order to protect her privacy, he said that he was forced to investigate her gender after the parents of two losing student-athletes complained.

He said that he also received some other complaints about her, including one that said, “That female athlete doesn’t look feminine enough.”

“The school went back to kindergarten and she’d always been a female,” Spatafore said.

LGBTQ advocates have been warning for years that transgender sports bans could be used by the families of losing student-athletes to attack winners. Some states, like Idaho, require genital examinations in their sports bans. Such requirements would have subjected the student under investigation to an unnecessary and invasive examination.

Utah passed its transgender sports ban earlier this year and this case is one of the first to test the law. Spatafore said that school records are enough to satisfy the law’s requirements “because if all of the questions about eligibility were answered by the school or the feeder system schools, there was no reason to make it a personal situation with a family or that athlete.”

Spatafore said that UHSAA is trying to follow the new ban.

“Quite frankly, this is new ground for us,” he told the Deseret News. “I’m not going to say that we have it down pat, because I have no clue. I don’t think any of us in the office have a clue if we have it down pat. What we want to do is we just want to try to do our job.”

The state legislature passed H.B. 11, the transgender sports ban, earlier this year. In March, Gov. Spencer Cox (R) vetoed the bill, saying that it “will likely bankrupt the Utah High School Athletic Association and result in millions of dollars in legal fees for local school districts.” The legislature overrode his veto.

In June, the families of two transgender girls in the state filed a lawsuit challenging the sports ban, arguing that the bill was “based on unfounded stereotypes, fears, and misconceptions about girls who are transgender. It is not supported by medical or scientific evidence.”

 

Republican Party official posts image of KKK hoods on social media

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/08/republican-party-official-posts-image-kkk-hoods-social-media/

 

 
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The Republican Party of Lawrence County, Alabama recently posted an image on its Facebook account containing white hoods associated with the Ku Klux Klan (KKK), a white supremacist terrorism organization.

The image — which showed the silhouette of a roaring elephant, the Republican Party mascot — was posted alongside a message thanking the former county party chairman for his “countless hours leading the local GOP to represent your conservative values.”

However, the white triangles between the elephant’s legs had eye holes added to them, giving them the image of the white hoods that KKK members wear during their rallies to stay anonymous while striking fear in the hearts of non-white people.

The image was an original piece of art created in 2020 by the left-leaning political publication Mother Jones for an article discussing racism in the Republican Party. The article’s headline was “The Republican Party Is Racist and Soulless. Just Ask This Veteran GOP Strategist.” Its tagline read, “Stuart Stevens says he now realizes the hatred and bigotry of Trumpism were always at the heart of the GOP.”

The Lawrence County Republican Party removed the image from its Facebook page and its chairwoman Shanon Terry said that the image was found during a Google search and was “immediately replaced” once the party realized that it contained KKK imagery.

“I would like to offer a deep and sincere apology for a picture that temporarily appeared on this page last night,” Terry wrote in a public apology. “A google search picture of a GOP elephant was used and later found to have hidden images that do not represent the views or beliefs of the Lawrence County Republican Party. As chairman, I take full responsibility for the error.”

In response to the party’s use of the image, Black Alabama state Rep. Anthony Daniels (D) published a tweet showing the party’s use of the image. Daniels wrote, “Shame on the Lawrence County Republican Party for this disgusting image.”

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However, Terry said she would not be resigning as the county party’s chairperson over the incident.

“I regret the mistake that was made, and it was just that – an unintended mistake,” Terry wrote in a statement to WHNT. “The image posted by me on a political Facebook page was not done with any malicious or harmful intent…. My error was rushing to post a thank you note to the outgoing chairperson, in doing so I did not properly review a cut and paste image…. I do not support or agree with any hate group agenda and certainly would not try to further their cause.”

The Republican Party has long used racist anger against non-white people excite its mostly white voting base. This has included using language against “inner city crime,” “welfare cheats,” and “immigrants” as dog whistles against poorer and non-white people. The former President Donald Trump also encouraged such racist views by praising white supremacist organizations and associated groups who supported him.

The Lawrence County NAACP has announced that it will hold a press conference about the image on Friday.

 
 
 

Fox host outraged that school district pulled the Bible from shelves in book challenge

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/08/fox-host-outraged-school-district-pulled-bible-shelves-book-challenge/

Please note she was offended that a few people could get a book she liked removed but feels it is fine if one person’s complaints get LGBTQ+ books removed.   Please take note of the last paragraph, they now want to push their ideology of white supremacy and other hatreds in libraries and schools.   Hugs
 
 
 
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Fox News hosts have expressed outrage over the Bible being removed from school library shelves in a Texas school district, claiming that the book should be allowed, even though it contains stories of incest and violence and promotes slavery, the subjugation of women, and the murder of LGBTQ people.

The Fox News panel also said that banning the Bible from schools furthers a Democratic plot, even though the school district’s home county traditionally votes Republican.

The Christian religious text was removed by the Keller Independent School District’s Book Challenge Committee this week because it was challenged for having “sexual content and violence” along with 40 other books, most of which featured Black and LGBTQ characters. The district’s school principals were told to keep the books off of library shelves until the district has completed its review of each book’s appropriateness for student readers.

Moms for Liberty activist wants LGBTQ students separated into special classes

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/08/moms-liberty-activist-wants-lgbtq-students-separated-special-classes/

Told you this was coming.    It is all about driving public opinion that there is something wrong and bad about LGBTQ+ people / kids.   They should be around normal good kids.   Drive them back into hiding.   Regress the country to the 1950s.  This was not about teacher talking students into be gay or trans.    It was about demonizing and attacking the gay and trans kids.     Hugs

 
Crystal Alonso of Moms for Liberty
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An anti-LGBTQ Moms for Liberty activist told MSNBC that she believes LGBTQ students should have separate classes from straight and cisgender students in schools.

Field Report with Paola Ramos aired last week and discussed the rightward movement among Latino voters, especially in Florida. Ramos met with a group of Moms for Liberty activists.

Moms for Liberty gained notoriety during the pandemic as they attended and protested school board meetings to oppose mask mandates and LGBTQ inclusivity in schools. The group’s past exploits include offering bounties for people who turn in teachers who discuss “divisive topics,” attacking the Trevor Project for trying to prevent LGBTQ teen suicide, trying to get a book about seahorses banned for being too sexy, and saying that two girls briefly kissing at a school function is “lewd” and “traumatic.” The group lobbied in Florida for the Don’t Say Gay bill.

Liberal Redneck – Liz Cheney and the New GOP

Liz Cheney got absolutely whooped in her primary, as many expected. Doesn’t make the implications any less terrifying though.