Well after days of thinking about it we chose the new flooring

A week and more of days of going back and forth and going to store after store we decided on the flooring for the Florida Room / my new office.   I like the lightness of it and the fact it doesn’t have a real stand out pattern.  Plus it is sound dampening as the room is very echoing right now.  So I will put the link below.  But it is the Iced Oak.  We will get the upgraded underneath barrier even though we really don’t need it.  But we decided if we are going to do this we will do it correctly from the top down.  Then move on to the rest of the house.   Hugs

https://www.flooranddecor.com/duralux-performance-flooring/iced-oak-waterproof-rigid-core-luxury-vinyl-plank—foam-pad-101075257.html

Breakfast and supper on Wednesday. Started on Thursday and finished on Friday.

As some viewers know as my health has been failing over the last couple of years and Ron is starting to show his age also, so we have been spending a lot more time together doing things.  Also I have been not able to spend as much time on the blog as I used to and love doing.  So this morning as a treat to Ron I made a good sized breakfast for us.  Normally breakfast in our home is a catch as catch can.  I normally have leftovers from the supper meal as normally I am unable to eat at night, and Ron cooks grand supper.    Ron normally has a breakfast he cooks / makes for himself.  

I asked him if he would like an egg scramble with bacon and sausage, with a side of toast.  He said he would love it.  So I took a bunch of thick sliced bacon out of the meat drawer of the refrigerator and also some small link sausage from both that place and the freezer below.  Then I prepared two trays that have grill racks over them and on one I placed 8 or 9 long strips of bacon, and on the other I put 10 small sausage links.  I had preheated our very large Black and Decker counter oven.  It is similar to a toaster oven only much larger.  I put the bacon in first at 450.  

While the bacon cooked I got the eggs cracked and put into bowls.  3 eggs in each bowl.  I use a heavy knife on the sharp edge to crack the eggshell then they easily open the shell with no eggshells into the bowls.  I find it works best if the eggs and shells are very cold.  Into the bowls of eggs I add a heavy splash of water.  Enough to make the eggs cook up fluffy but not leave water in the cooked eggs.  Then I set them aside to put the sausage in the oven with the bacon.  The thing about cooking sausage in the oven instead of on the stove in a pan is the sausage come out fully cooked but still juicy and soft.  

Once the meat was cook Ron chopped what we both wanted in our scrambles, and I combined the meat and eggs in a small sauce pot.  Ron had me put chopped opinion and peppers in his.   I use a hard spatula like the kind you would frost a cake with not the kind that flip burgers, to stir the eggs and meats together and make scramble eggs.  I started the toast as the stuff on the stove cooked up.   Just before the eggs finished cooking the toast popped up so I buttered them and called Ron to come get his food.  Even though I was happy to make the food I again was unable to my egg scramble, I ate my one piece of toast with grape jam on it.  I put the scramble in the fridge for another time.  I ate it the next morning and it was great.  

During the afternoon I took another nap.  This is now being written on Friday.  So for supper that Wednesday I had the idea of taking the red sauce I had made the day before to make supper in a different way.  I told Ron my idea and he agreed it sounded great.  So we took an 8 X 11 baking pan and spread a layer of red sauce on the bottom of the pan.  The idea was to use the chicken patties we normally fry to make chicken Parmesan, just with a different cheese.  I took six patties and place them in the pan sort of pushing them a third of their height into the sauce.  Then set in the oven to bake.  When nearly done we took provolone and layered in on the chicken and put them back in the oven.  Serve with spaghetti and sauce.  Great.  

Thursday morning we got up to a rainy cold day … again.  But we needed groceries and I had decided it was better now to go with Ron to help him.  He is 70 and not walking well.  Plus while he is still smart, he does have periods of confusion and gets slow to think or respond.  He complains of becoming very forgetful.  To be honest I am the same way. I will 62 very soon.   But he likes me to drive when possible and he likes the comfort of me being there for him.  

So we went and spent all morning filling a grocery cart at Walmart.   Some people say that you don’t save any money there and some say you do.  Ron has the patience to stand there and compare price and size, unit price, and get the best deal.  I can not do this.  But I walk with him, talk to him, keep him company, watch our cart when he needs to go get something or his back is too it.  I have seen people take stuff from other peoples carts or drop stuff in them.  Ron had one of my dragon canes stolen when he had his back to the cart comparing prices.  Turned back and the cane was gone. We have a game to guess the cost after it is wrung up on the register.  I guessed 260 but he felt it would be well over 325.  It came to 257 and change.   

We were to go to another store but by the time we got everything put away both of use were tired so decided to go this morning.  Temps are better so far than yesterday which had feel like temps in the 30s.  This morning we have feel like temps of 41 degrees.   The high is to be in the 50s.  We plan to hit three small stores and then going to the big flooring store in Fort Myers to pick out the new flooring for the Florida room that I will soon be moving into to.  I am leaning toward a light floor.  The walls are a soft cream, the molding / trim a light tan / brown.  Just enough of a difference to show up but not startling.  The north long wall of almost 30 feet is entirely windows except for three feet at the bottom of the windows, even the turn to the east facing wall which has another large window and French doors made of mostly insulated glass panes in a wooden heavy frame.  The room is very bright and cheery.  Because the door going outside is to the carport and on the same level we were thinking a brown.  But once I saw the shocking difference between the light and dark … I think I want a light floor.  I am thinking a white marble with gray whirls.  Ron thinks it will always look dirty even when not.  So maybe we will go with a tan or light gray?  That is why I have not done much on the blog or computer since Tuesday.  Hugs.  

How I post using the classic editor

Step 1.  Click the + symbol of the block editor

Step 2.  Type CL in the search box for widgets displaying the classic one.  

Step 3.  Click the classic.

Step 4.  Click the gray bar.  

Step 5.  Using some of the features.  If you want to change the color or font size or bold, italicize, and more, use the bar.  If you want to change the color or what you wrote just highlight the words and pick a new color.  The classic editor bar makes it so easy.   So as most know I like to write my own stuff in blue.  Just click the large A with the line under it and chose the color you want to write in.  Then type.  

Step 6.  To add pictures you can copy and paste or you can use the camera / music note symbol.  Notice the things you can do in the media library.  This is the place every picture, meme, cartoon is stored.  From every post.  You can click on one or more and insert them.  You can upload from your computer or a website. 

   

You can double click the picture if you want to adjust the size or if you want writing to one side or the other of the picture.  I find it so easy to add stuff like this. There is only one issue to remember.  If you want to post a link you must get out the classic editor first or it will wipe out everything you have done.  If that does happen just use the undo button to restore what you wrote in classic.  You might have to do it twice but it does work.  So if you are writing in classic and need to post a link like a YouTube video just click below the current box to get a new block, post the link, click below that and get a new block, do the steps above to go back to classic.  I wrote this entire thing in classic and it is so easy including adjusting the screen captures I did.  I hope this makes blogging easier for you.     If you have any questions please ask me.  Hugs.

My day. How I love life

I woke at midnight and got up at 2am after laying there hoping to go back to sleep.  Then I started doing Joe my God news stuff.  But at 5 am Julie Kamyk’s sister came on and started talking to me.  I listened to what was happening to her and she is suffering as I am from seasonal depression.  But we both are fierce fighters for her brother and she did not know the crap her father was doing over the laptop Kamyk paid half for but his dad refused to give him.  I offered to pay the half price the dad paid that he was holding over Kamyk refusing to release it, and I told her if that did not work I would buy a new $400 dollar one myself and send it to him.  She said that wouldn’t be needed, she would take the laptop from him and give it to Kamyk.  She and I discussed other needs of his and she made lists to get them done.

Then as I started to do posts and stuff … I got a Skype call from Kamyk.  Well that started a 6 hour call.  I asked him how I could help him and he said just stay on the line and talk to him.  So I did.  Because when one of my friends is in a care house with few of his own resources and they ask me to just keep talking with them … oh yes I got that covered.  

We got a lot covered, we talked and talked and talked.  In and out of bad things and into good things.  

After all that expenditure of energy and spirit to support my friend, I find I am drained and hard to move forward to dealing with blog things.  I gave him my all.  Hugs

The 10 Weirdest Ways Animals Have Sex

Before I post the video, let me tell you all what is going on.  My health first.  I am very tired only wanting to lay in bed, sleeping or just laying there.  At first I thought it was a depression thing, but when my blood work showed I was again anemic that may explain some.  All I want to do when up is watch videos and I struggle to read news or do other tasks, feeling like every movement is too much and just wanting to sit here un moving.  The second issue I have is I recently expanded the memory of my oldest computer, a built I like better because it is expandable.  Pride go before the fall.   I felt I understood the motherboard well enough and the system architecture to simple look for and buy the cheapest priced ram the system could handle.   

I am humbled to admit I got my butt handed to me as after installing the cheapest four sticks equaling 64 GB of ram which is the max the system can handle I dumped and started the computer.  Yes it seems all four sticks and ran at the higher speed.  Grand.  But then as I loaded Windows and other programs … problems happened.  I got almost everything done and then had sudden BOD … the blue screen of death that I have not seen in my own systems ever.  I diligently tracked every error, researched every error code and security event.  What I got made me realize I had not done enough work understanding my system and the unbuffered ram.  

I could make this a post on the system and what I learned.  Going cheapest for me is going to cost me.  I need to go back to a two stick mode with buffered memory.  The reason is that the CPU can see the dual channel two stick configuration as one big stick.  With four it has to run through the memory controller system to read each stick as a separate entity and compare try to manage the flow and errors of each.  When the errors become too great or do an act that the system deems threatening, it shuts everything down.  So I am going to spend more money on a new set of buffered 2 stick memory which should solve this issue and I can get back to being online with everyone and not spending weeks of every online time searching for and reading tech pages and specs reports.   Now to the video.   Love and hugs to all.  Hugs

Some pictures of our Christmas 2024 day.

Ron and I had a wonderful Christmas day.  We had good food, we had good times.  Here is a couple pictures of me sharping our knives, including serrated ones you can do if you are careful.  

Then there was the jolly elf in the kitchen working to prepare enough food for 10 people.  How he misses the days we held being holiday gatherings.  I helped on and off like doing the cooking and peeling of the eggs for the deviled eggs.  Here is the elf at work.  

And then there is the result of all the work.  The food.  

I am worn out and going to bed.

First I want to acknowledge that I still 11 tabs of comments I did not get to yet today.  They are saved for tomorrow.  I know Ali and Randy understand my situation so I want to clue the rest in before I go to bed, and yes I am very tired.  

I went to bed about 5 PM last night after eating some beef stroganoff that Ron insisted I eat before going to bed.  But I couldn’t sleep.  So I tossed and turned until Ron came to bed hours later. 

Then because we are a couple that love each other and like sleeping together we snuggled, me spooning him first and while he slept I did not.  Then he woke and he wanted us to roll over so we did, now he was pressed tight to me … and again he fell asleep.  Then about 11:45 he woke up and wanted to stop cuddling which I agreed with.  He fell asleep.  

Well I fretted but did manage to fall asleep about 11:45 pm or later … only to be woken by our rescue inside outside old cat that need lots of feedings started yellowing at the top of his small lungs.  At 12:50 am.  I got up.  Ron who wakes up if I snort or cry out or hell even turn over wrong, sleeps through his cat’s cries.  I feed him, the cat, not Ron.  Then I returned to bed.  I watched the clock.  I was not going to get up, I was not going to get up, I was not going to get up … fuck it I got up.   At 1:30 am.  No sleep, grumpy.  

About 5 am  had some sloppy Joe mix Ron made the night before.  It is not setting well with me.    We have been having trouble finding one that tastes good but doesn’t make me thorw up.  

Well I am online answering comments and doing my blogging stuff until Ron gets up at 6:30 am.  I ask him if he wants to walk, he says no he wants me to go lay down, I am now two days without sleep.  I go lay down at 7 am.  I stay there until 7″30 am and can’t sleep, so get up and go to talk to Ron.  He says I need to try longer.  I do, At 9 am I get up and am determined to start my blogging day.

I am blogging and helping Ron.  I do the dishes as Ron has been clearing the Florida Room junked up with stuff after Hurricane Ian we had nowhere else to put.  An argument I made for a new shed that no one would listen to me on.  We had a huge dresser packed with dishware, and we brought it in to be cleaned.  We had a large stand up cabinet we emptied or more dishware and stuff we need so also brought that into the main house to clean.  

So all day while I did laundry and helped Ron wash and dry dishes I did some blogging.  It was all going great … Until this evening when Ron asked me several uncomfortable questions … Damn it!

Did you eat today he asked?  Yes I joyfully told him I had the sloppy Joe mix you made last night, ate two buns so 4 sides.   … he looked at me.  Did it stay down.   Well I stuttered … so far but it is trying hard to come back up.  That was when he declared such mix off the menu until I can stomach better despite my counterarguments.  

The rest of the afternoon went well, we worked on laundry and even the Florida room and moved / washed the stuff together for their new place in the house. 

Then things took an ugly turn.  At around 4:45 pm Ron decided I need to eat.  I informed him (sounds better than saying I told him) I was not hungry.  He got angry.  Scottie he tried to sound authoritarian … you have to eat, you are losing too much weight and this is not good for you.   I countered with I am not hungry and if I force my self I will be sick … But I relented and said OK how about a small salad.  I love salads and in a small bowl even when I am really nauseated I can eat them.   

But he had a better idea I liked right away.  On the advice of our wonderful brother Randy Ron bought some yogurts for this situation.  He gave me one and I did not complain … I knew better.  I ate it.  Not a flavor I like.  I struggled it down anyway or else he was going to make something and watch me while I ate it. 

Now it is nearly 6 pm here.  I have not gotten to all the comments and pages I have opened … but I keep falling asleep at my desk.  Not something I want to have Ron discover me doing.  If he finds me asleep he will throw a huge fit that will take a lot more to solve than just going to bed.  Plus my eyes keep blurring out and I clear them to realize I typed nonsense or worse.   Night all.  Hugs and loves.  Scottie

Computer was a brick at midnight

Hi Everyone. I woke up at midnight and my blogging computer wouldn’t start. Totally dead. So I went back to bed. Got up at four and took it apart. Couldn’t find a problem, so I figure it is a power supply problem, as to get it started I had to hold the power reset button and the start button at the same time. Now the trick will be to watch it and not let it shut down. The good news is I did not lose anything. I have the Vivaldi set to remember the open windows and tabs for the last three days and they can be switched between computers through sync mode.   I can replace the power supply if I have to, the only problem is the case is tight for the wiring, far too many wires in a small space crossing everywhere and each other.  But I have replaced them before.  Hugs

Kamyk

I am talking to his sister right now.  Kamyk was sent to the ER as I told everyone and then admitted.   Here is the rest of the story.   Hugs

He has a perforated stomach and a huge abcess in his abdomen

He is severely malnutrition from not eating

He was in septic shock from the abcess Wednesday when he went to ER

With a GI BLEED

I asked her some questions on his care and the cards and stuff everyone sent him.  

He went to a different hospital this time and they are much more attending I called there today and left a message for the social worker. In my message i asked her not to return to sender and I would

Pick any mail her got up

Well his wbc is going down and his rbc is going up… that’s progress

Kamyk’s sister Julie has the entire family depending on her right now.  Kamyk, their other sister who is also in a care facility with a leg broken in two places due to a hospital error, her very elderly parents in their mid 80s with issues, plus she has her own family with a young son to think of.   Well I am off to bed, Ron has already headed down to the bedroom and I wish to join him.   Hugs

An update on my friend Kamyk

Hi everyone.  I am grateful to everyone that sent cards to my friend and also to the support people gave to me.  He had ups and downs.  This was what I got from his sister on Thursday morning.   Hugs

 

Hi Scottie he is not good

He hasn’t been able to track anyone because his phone is out of time and data.

He was admitted to ICU after 2 ct scans and the placement of 2 drain tubes. I’m scared