Florida man sues son’s school for violating his “natural rights from God” by displaying Pride flags

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/10/florida-man-sues-sons-school-violating-natural-rights-god-displaying-pride-flags/

And it begins.   This is what the Republicans and what Gov. DeathSantis wanted.  How is just seeing a rainbow flag being educated “in the ways of homosexuality.”  I keep saying the goal is to erase gay people from society.   Sorry your religion doesn’t give you the right to kick the people you don’t out of the country, you don’t get to make the people you don’t like hide the fact they are real, you don’t get to use your church doctrine to force people to live straight lives because you don’t want gays to live their lives freely.   What other things will it be illegal for a kid to see, that will instruct them in the way of …, how about icons of other religions?   For that matter I an atheist, I don’t like all the religious symbols and pictures I see, can I sue people for displaying a cross like wearing one around their neck?  They already banned the books that offended them, what next?   

The US is built on diversity and different cultures.    There is a drive on the right to roll back all advances in society over the last 70 years.   To return women to traditional stereotypical roles, to drive minorities back to a subservient roles, To erase the LGBTQ+ and remove representation of them.  They want a white Christian ethnostate, and they are pushing hard to get their way.   They are a minority that is getting their way, claiming my very existence as an openly gay man in a same sex marriage is wrong and instructing their kid in homosexuality.     They want me gone, erased, hidden, it offends their Christianity.   Tough shit, their religion offends me.   What about that.    No one has the right to not be offended.  

If this man wants his child isolated from the other people then send his child to a Christian school that follows his religion.   Gay kids are real, they go to school, they have the right to live their lives openly as do straight kids.   They have as much right to date, to have clubs, to see their symbols as much as Christians have the right to wear their crosses.  LGBTQ+ have as much right to be and to live openly as straight kids, as Christian kids, as Muslim kids, as atheist kids and so on.   This is not the first time this father has tried to force his religion on others and seems to also be a racist who demands the right to discriminate against others.   

People we need everyone to stand up and say enough and fight back against the attempt to remove others from society and existence.   We must fight against the attempt to force one religion in the laws and lives of everyone else.  These people are the US version of the Taliban.   Help us stop them.   Vote them out of office.    Hugs

 
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A Florida father is suing his 12-year-old son’s school district over the fact that his son was exposed to Pride flags in his computer science classroom.

Dr. Francisco Catalin Deliu of Palm Beach County is arguing that Emerald Cove Middle School, principal Dr. Eugina Smith-Freeman, and his son’s teacher Rachel Raos have been “expressly and/or implicitly advocating for homosexuality as an alternative way of life,” reports CBS 12.

Deliu, a Romanian refugee who fled due to religious and political persecution, is an Orthodox Christian who believes being gay is a sin.

The lawsuit says that in early September, Deliu’s son informed him that Raos had hung two Pride flags in her classroom, searched online “about homosexual lifestyles,” and “proselytized to the students in the class.”

Deliu claims the principal dismissed him when he complained and said she’d have to speak to the Board to determine whether Raos was breaking the law. He also claims that after asking for his son to be removed from Raos’s class and placed in a different computer science class, the school instead moved his son to an art class without telling him.

The suit reportedly does not accuse the school of breaking Florida’s infamous Don’t Say Gay law. It argues that the school violated Deliu’s “substantive human rights” and “natural rights from God.” It accuses the state of “acting contrary to his religious beliefs” and says he has a right to prevent his child from being educated “in the ways of homosexuality.”

Deliu has also previously accused the school of spreading homosexuality through library books.

And these tussles are far from his first time getting involved with the law.

While living in New Zealand in 2017, Deliu’s law license was suspended for 15 months and he was ordered to pay over $250,000 due to “six charges of misconduct, one charge of unprofessional conduct, and one charge of conduct unbecoming a lawyer,” according to the New Zealand Law Society.

The charges were due to allegations of racism and discrimination he made against two judges, which the court reportedly said were “excessive, disgraceful, and baseless attacks on Judges made in provocative and intemperate language, and for the purposes of protecting the practitioner’s own interests.”

For the accusations against his son’s school, he reportedly is seeking a jury trial.

NOM: Our Fight Against Marriage Bill Is “On The Ropes”

Why has this man fought against rights for gay people all his adult life.   He has made it his quest to deny gay people the right to exist in society.   His crusade against same sex marriage is totally weird in that it is unreasonable the passion he has to destroy same sex marriage and gay rights.   He has traveled the world to try to stop this in other countries.   I don’t understand his hate for gay people, for the LGBTQ+.   But I do notice in each thing he says he begs for money.    Is it a scam, a grift, or a personal mission from his god.   He has 6 kids that I am aware of, statistically one or more of them are LGBTQ+.   How much he must be hurting them and how desperate they must be to hide it from him.    Hugs

Via email from hate group leader Brian Brown:

Right now, there are as many as half a dozen Republican Senators working on a potential backroom deal to impose gay ‘marriage’ on the entire country by codifying it in federal law. NOM is leading the opposition to this scheme, but we are on the ropes and need your help.

Among the Republican Senators scheming to pass the gay ‘marriage’ legislation are Mitt Romney, Susan Collins, Rob Portman and Thom Tillis. Their gambit is to include some fig leaf language “protecting” religious liberty in exchange for every state in the nation being forced to recognize homosexual ‘marriage.’

It is ironic that of these US Senate schemers, three come from states where voters enacted state constitutional amendments defining marriage solely as the union of one man and one woman – Utah, Ohio and North Carolina. So did voters in several dozen additional states.

Our only chance to prevent gay ‘marriage’ from being enshrined in federal law is to mobilize grassroots marriage supporters around the country. We have less than two weeks left before the midterm elections. After that, a lame duck Congress will return to Washington DC and the gay ‘marriage’ legislation will be taken up.

Please make an immediate donation to NOM to help us fight to stop the imposition of gay ‘marriage’ into federal statute. Your donation will be 100% matched thanks to a $100,000 matching fund that has been made available.

Chris Baker • 14 hours ago

I can’t wait till gay marriage is forced on everyone in the US. I have a few people picked out, but it’s hard to narrow it down just just one of them. So can we start working on polygamy now? That would solve a lot of my problems.

Boreal Outlaw Woman • 14 hours ago

Also Jesus hates divorce so it must be a til death do them part marriage.

Nic Peterson Chris Baker • 14 hours ago

We were promised polygamy. I have been quite patient waiting for it. I am not getting any younger, though. Tick tock muthafuckas!

rednekokie Chris Baker • 13 hours ago

That’s the whole problem — no one is trying to force “gay” marriage, or any other kind of marriage down any one’s throat. However, those who do want to participate in it resent highly those who don’t like it and want to bother others with their bigotry and stupidity.

James L. Greenlee rednekokie • 2 hours ago

How exactly do you get someone else’s marriage “shoved down your throat?” It has nothing to do with you. And what “bigotry and stupidity?”

Gigi • 14 hours ago

Most of Brian Brown’s adult life has been spent fighting to deny rights and marriage equality to the LGBTQ community. What a horrible person he is.

Randy503 Gigi • 13 hours ago

I remember one of his staffer defected when she went around the in the bus and saw the lack of interest. She realized that same sex marriage hurts no one, and there simply isn’t any reason to deny it.

Boreal • 14 hours ago

Their gambit is to include some fig leaf language “protecting” religious
liberty in exchange for every state in the nation being forced to
recognize homosexual ‘marriage.’

If your religion needs protecting from my marriage, you should be out shopping for a more powerful god right now.

Diogenes Onionpants Boreal • 13 hours ago

He knows damn well that religion is already protected; religious discrimination claims are subject to strict scrutiny, unlike sexual orientation. And yet, show up at a Catholic church and demand a Jewish wedding, and you won’t get it: the institution can refuse to perform a service outside its tradition.

So why does this lying sack of before-the-water-runs-clean anal-douche-extrusion think gays could sue for being refused?

He doesn’t. He’s lying because he’s a liar whose fortune rests on a throne of lies. (Also see above re: his soul being composed of anal douche water.)

ErnestMc • 14 hours ago

His wallet is “on the ropes” since the only place he was making a dime was in Russia and, for some reason, Russia ain’t so lucrative right now.

It’s also hilarious that he’s talking about “gay marriage” being imposed on the country when marriage equality has been the law of the land for 7 years and it’s supported by a solid majority of Americans.

Ron DeSantis called “anti-business” in debate over his “Don’t Say Gay” war with Disney

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/10/ron-desantis-called-anti-business-debate-dont-say-gay-war-disney/

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On Monday night, Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis (R) and his Democratic opponent Charlie Crist went head to head in a debate, where Crist called DeSantis “the most anti-business governor I’ve ever seen” as a result of his battle to ban teachers from talking about LGBTQ issues.

“I’m pro-business I want to make sure we keep our businesses open. I’m not the governor who attacked Walt Disney World because they deigned to express their point of view.”

“I’m not the governor who attacked the cruise industry because they just wanted to make sure that their customers weren’t sick before they got on the boat. That’s you. You’re the most anti-business governor I’ve ever seen.”

 

After Crist’s dig about Disney, the audience laughed. He was referring to DeSantis’s war on the company after it spoke out against Florida’s Don’t Say Gay bill that prohibits K-3 teachers from talking about sexual orientation and gender identity in the classroom.

DeSantis not only continuously criticized the company in public, but he also oversaw the Florida legislature’s revocation of Disney’s decades-old special zoning agreement to punish them for speaking out for LGBTQ people by issuing a statement opposing the Don’t Say Gay law.

And last summer he battled with the cruise industry, banning them from requiring proof of vaccination from passengers. A federal court sided with a cruise line against DeSantis, saying that the state’s ban on vaccine passports violated the cruise line’s rights.

In July, he ordered his administration not to invest funds in “woke” corporations, prohibiting pension fund managers from using environmental, social, and governance (ESG) ratings when deciding which companies to invest government funds into.

Crist’s dig at DeSantis accuses him of doing the exact opposite of what the Republican party – the alleged pro-business party – claims to support.

During the debate, DeSantis also would not commit to serving another full four-year term as governor, presumably because he is planning a 2024 presidential run.

DeSantis avoided Crist’s questions about 2024 and declared, “I know that Charlie is interested in talking about 2024 and Joe Biden, but I just want to make things very, very clear: The only worn-out old donkey I’m looking to put out to pasture is Charlie Crist.”

Crist served one term as Florida’s Republican governor from 2007 to 2011. In 2010, he ran for Senate as an independent, and in 2012, he registered as a Democrat. In addition to being governor of Florida, he has been a state senator, attorney general, and the state’s education commissioner (all as a Republican). Until a few months ago, he was serving in Congress but resigned to focus on the gubernatorial race.

In the debate, he also took aim at DeSantis’s anti-trans and anti-abortion views.

DeSantis signed a 15-week abortion ban that has no exceptions for rape and incest, and he has repeatedly spoken out against trans youth. During the debate, he called gender-affirming care the practice of “mutilating” children.

“You think you know better than any physician or any doctor or any woman,” Crist said. “You need to lead by uniting people, not dividing them.”

School board proposes banning furries after rumors of litter boxes in schools spread

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/10/school-board-proposes-banning-furries-rumors-litter-boxes-schools-spread/

Lets be honest what the furries thing is about.  It is about attacking trans kids without using the word trans.  It is adults mocking the idea of identifying with a different gender than your born identified sex.  It is stupid and another example of the right making up something that is not happen and not real simply to create outrage to be offended over.    Hugs

 
April 14, 2018, European furry walk at Volkspark Friedrichshain in Berlin
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A school board in North Carolina considered a proposal to ban furry costumes in schools after they say they received numerous complaints about students dressing up as animals and using litter boxes in school restrooms.

Jeff James, superintendent of Iredell-Statesville Schools, said that he’s spent hours responding to emails and messages on social media about the rumor. He said that the rumors are false and that there is no evidence that students are bringing litter boxes into school restrooms.

But that didn’t stop school board member Bryan Shomaker from supporting the proposal to ban ears, tails, gloves, collars, or full furry costumes from being worn in schools. The proposal has exceptions for school spirit days and theater.

“We’re trying to address it before it becomes a major problem,” he said at a school board meeting.

But some parents were angry that it was even being discussed.

“We have classrooms without teachers, and you’re wasting your time focusing on a kid at a Scotts Elementary Panthers basketball game who wants to wear a cat ear headband,” said parent Jean Foster.

“We’ve spent a lot of time on masks over the past few years,” a frustrated Foster told Queen City News after the meeting. “We’ve spent a lot of time talking about which books we are wanting to ban. All of that is a distraction from what’s important. This was just something else – something ludicrous.”

“You may not want it to be a distraction, but it was a distraction. A large distraction,” school board member Martin Page said.

Lincoln County Schools in North Carolina was also the subject of furry rumors.

“There is nobody identifying as a cat at North Lincoln High School and we have no litter boxes!!!” an employee wrote in a Facebook group. “Quit spreading this stupidity!”

A spokesperson for Lincoln County Schools told The Charlotte Observer that there have never been litter boxes in any of its schools.

An early example of the stories about students identifying as house pets and demanding litter boxes was Michigan activist Lisa Hansen. Because Hansen opposed federal regulations allowing trans students to use school restrooms matching their gender identities, she claimed that students who identify as cats were allowed to use litter boxes in one school’s unisex restroom.

A Michigan school superintendent was forced to write an email to parents debunking such a lie. An Oregon public school district superintendent was also forced to send a similar email after one social media user claimed that furries were wearing leashes and being petted by other students at local schools.

Nevertheless, the lie has been repeated by right-wingers, including by Nebraska Sen. Bruce Bostelman (R).

During a televised debate, Bostelman claimed that student “furries” were allowed to interact with teachers by meowing and barking. He also said that one student who was denied a litter box later defecated on a classroom floor. Bostelman later admitted that the story wasn’t true.

It has been spread online by anti-LGBTQ activists like Chaya Raichik of LibsofTikTok, when she pushed a lie that a second grade Texas schoolteacher encouraged students to become furries. The Austin school district disavowed the claim as misinformation.

Similarly, Christian hate pastor Aaron Thompson and anti-LGBTQ televangelist Andrew Wommack both said that schools allow students to identify as animals and demand litter boxes in classrooms. Michigan Republican Party Co-Chair Meshawn Maddock also repeated the lie, as did Heidi Ganahl, the Republican candidate for governor of Colorado. She claimed that student “furries” are identifying as cats in over 30 different schools in the state.

Rep. Lauren Boebert (R-CO) has claimed that a father in Michigan told her that his son got into trouble when he stepped on the tail of a student who identified as a furry.

Reuters published a fact check in July that said there is “no evidence of them disrupting classrooms or schools developing a policy of including them as a formal identity.”

Earlier this month, conservative radio host Joe Rogan told former Rep. Tulsi Gabbard (D-HI) that he knows someone who knows someone who said that “there’s a girl who’s a furry, who identifies as an animal and her mother badgered the school until they agreed to put a litter box in one of the stalls.”

“So this girl goes into the litter room or to the girl’s room and urinates or whatever — I don’t know if she poops in it, that’s pretty gross.”

 

County bans all volleyball games with school because a trans student is on their team

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2022/10/county-bans-volleyball-games-school-trans-student-team/

I want to point that the coaches said that the cis girls had hit the ball harder than the trans gender girl did.  The anti-trans hate came through loud and clear, with one guy says no one should play against the team “based on their morals, ethics, and Christian upbringing.”  These people were just waiting for an excuse to attack the trans girl.   Despite the other teams wanting to play against the team with the trans girl, the coaches wanted to play against the team, despite the fact that the trans girl has been on the team for four years without any issues, the bigots claim this must be done to protect the girls.   What a crock.   They did not listen to any thing they were told instead wanting to show how bad the trans people are.   They couldn’t stop the trans girl from playing so what they did was make sure her teammates couldn’t play, her entire team was not banned from anyone playing against them so that the team will turn on the trans girl and force her off the team.   That is their out.   Make the team do what they legally can not do.    Hugs

 
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Nearly two months after a North Carolina girls’ high school volleyball game resulted in a one team’s player being “forcefully struck” by a spiked ball, and later a ban on playing any more games with the opposing team, a school board’s meeting notes reveal the opposing team’s high school is being barred from competing against county schools for allowing a transgender girl to play on their team.

On September 2, the two girls’ volleyball teams, from Hiwassee Dam High School in Cherokee County and Highlands School in Macon County, faced off at Highlands in an early evening match. A recording posted to high school sports site Maxpreps, published on September 9, reveals during one game, a player from Highlands spikes the ball from the near side of the court to Hiwassee, striking a player, who drops to the floor.

The video shows coaching staff attending to the Hiwassee player, while the Highlands players huddle, waiting for the outcome. Moments later, the injured player rises to her feet with the help of staff and walks off the court, cheered on by players and fans from both sides.

Two weeks later, the Cherokee County Board of Education met in regular session, where concerns over the incident were aired by attendees and principals from the district’s three high schools, including Hiwassee.

A statement issued by the board summed up the result: “On Wednesday (September 21, 2022) the Cherokee County Board of Education determined the varsity and junior varsity volleyball teams within Cherokee County’s high schools will not play the Highlands School volleyball teams due to safety concerns for Cherokee County Schools’ athletes.”

Those “safety concerns” centered on the player who spiked the ball, who is transgender.

It’s unclear from meeting notes how or when the player’s transgender status became known to the board.

“The competitive advantage issue certainly has to come up in any scenario with that type of transgender conversion, per se,” said school board vice-chair Jeff Martin, according to Christian Education First Alliance North Carolina. “I can tell you that the board wasn’t searching out this kind of thing. It was brought to our attention based on safety concerns.”

Board chair Arnold Mathews described the injured player as “forcefully struck” for Channel 9 News. Board member Jeff Tatham claimed the video of the injury was conclusive.

“The biggest thing for us, especially after seeing the video of the injury, we felt very strongly that it was a safety concern,” Tatham said. “I think most of the board members also felt like there’s a competitive advantage issue.”

Sentiment in the meeting was not universal. Joseph Watson, Athletic Director of Murphy High, advised the Board that feedback from his players and parents revealed the majority wanted to play Highlands and none of his parents expressed concerns. Jordan Lovingood, the school’s volleyball coach, said their school’s team had played against Highlands, including the player in question, for four years running, and that none of her players wanted to forfeit games against the school.

Another Murphy High volleyball coach, Amanda Johnson, said there was always risk of injury, no matter the player, and she’s seen other girls hit the ball harder than the one on the video. She added that a Murphy football player was recently injured playing on turf-field, and “because we aren’t used to playing on turf-fields, should we not play that game because it’s unsafe and our players aren’t used to that type field?” she asked, according to the board meeting notes.

Attendee Dean Shatley said that based on his conversation with the president of the North Carolina High School Athletic Association, the president of the group was unaware of any other injuries resulting from athletic play with a transgender athlete.

But sentiment against the trans player and Highlands School was high. Andrews High School principal Lance Bristol said he would decline to play Highlands based on feedback about safety and fairness, and said, “AHS is willing to take that on and they will embrace it.”

Jason Murphy, a Republican running for a seat on the board in November’s election, said the board should vote on forfeiting all games against Highlands “based on their morals, ethics, and Christian upbringing.”

After additional discussion and comment, according to meeting notes, the board considered the question of allowing continued competition with the Highlands volleyball team. Jeff Tatham made a motion that “we as a county not participate in any upcoming games with varsity and junior varsity against Highlands due to safety concerns.” The motion was carried, 5-1.

When reached for comment, Murphy High volleyball coach Amanda Johnson, also a counselor at the school, told LGBTQ Nation, “I’m sorry. I cannot comment about that.” Highlands School principal Brian Jetter also declined to speak about the issue: “I don’t have any comment on that, but thanks for calling.” A message to Keesha Curtis, the lone dissenting vote on the Cherokee School Board to forfeit all games with Highlands School, went unanswered.

 

Extremists Spark Violence At OR Drag Event [VIDEO]

What more to say.   US system at work, right wing domestic terrorist.   They did this same thing to shut down abortion centers and it worked for them, so they will try it again against legal events that the right has targeted.   Where is the police protection for citizens going to a legal event?   Dogs that love gravy, this is the 1960s race attacks, it is the 1970s / 1980s attacks on gay bars and night clubs.   This is Nazi thug enforcers for the hateful right wing party, supported by red state governors.   Where is the outrage from the left?  Why are the rights of normal people being trampled on with impunity?   Notice that some of the ones trying to force their regressive views on everyone else were members of a church.    I am so tired of the right / republicans / fundies churches targeting the LGBTQ+ because of their book written 2,500 years ago.  This is 2022 so get over it, live the way you want but let others do the same.   Again notice that the protestors equated drag which is simply dressing up in costume with trans people.    The performers normally are cis.     Hugs I agree with this comment I posted below.

The next moral panic will be all drag shows.

Then all public LGBTQ events, especially Pride.

Then LGBTQ content in libraries (already happening), online, and on TV.

Then pro-LGBTQ policies in the private and public sectors.

Then LGBTQ health care.

The fascists want us invisible, broke, and sick.

We’re about to find out just how deep our allies’ support is.

 

The Daily Beast reports:

A drag-queen story hour starring an 11-year-old performer at an Oregon pub was targeted by Proud Boys and neo-Nazis, some of whom hurled heavy rocks and smoke bombs during fiery clashes outside the event.

Police in riot gear ultimately had to intervene to stop the mayhem at Old Nick’s Pub Drag Queen Story Time Brunch on Sunday.

The Eugene Police Department said in a statement that it was well aware ahead of time that the event had “drawn polarized attention” across the state.

The Torch reports:

Witnesses stated that at one point the detractors had attempted to enter the pub through a side door but were pushed back by supporters. These anti drag queen detractors were made aware of this event by Andy Ngo, a right wing journalist who considers himself an expert on Antifa and the “militant left”.

Ngo tweeted about the event on Oct. 17, calling attention to Vanellope personally by posting pictures of her. The supporters of Old Nick’s were local community members who brought snacks and water for the allies and protected families as they entered the pub.

Some of the protestors were identified as Proud Boys and members of Rose City Nationalists were present. David Loveall, Springfield’s new county commissioner was there protesting the drag show along with members of the Crossfire Christian Church.

 

Sam_Handwich • 16 hours ago

I’m so sick of this horseshit, as if drag is some exotic new phenomenon. Fuckin idiots.

Bruno Sam_Handwich • 16 hours ago

Drag hasn’t changed. These people are just emboldened by Dump and MAGAts.

David Brian Holt Sam_Handwich • 15 hours ago

All of these “Drag Queen Story Hours” were started very innocently by public librarians as a way to encourage children to read more. At its heart, it is a very wholesome endeavor.

JCF David Brian Holt • 15 hours ago

And drag queens, who wanted to give back, as a public service. To inspire closeted children among them? Yeah, sure. But that was never the PRIMARY point.

clay JCF • 5 hours ago

It was about the importance of imagining, particularly about one’s self.

JCF Lestat • 16 hours ago

Drag is just pantomime and has been around, WITH children, FOREVER.

CarterDK JCF • 15 hours ago

Well, female drag at least. You know what we call male drag? It’s women at the grocery store in a t-shirt and jeans. Because no one bats an eye today if a woman wears mens clothing.

Serene Pumpkin • 16 hours ago

The next moral panic will be all drag shows.

Then all public LGBTQ events, especially Pride.

Then LGBTQ content in libraries (already happening), online, and on TV.

Then pro-LGBTQ policies in the private and public sectors.

Then LGBTQ health care.

The fascists want us invisible, broke, and sick.

We’re about to find out just how deep our allies’ support is.

Ethan Crumbley admits guilt to murder in Oxford High School shooting

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/oakland/2022/10/24/ethan-crumbley-guilty-plea-live-updates-trial-oxford-school-shooting/69584505007/?utm_campaign=snd-autopilot

I read this quote in the story.

“It was cold-blooded what he did,” Mueller said.  “While he may have been dealt a bad set of cards with the parents, it’s still a choice that he made to do the harm and bring the tragedy to Oxford.”

I have mentioned on my other blog about after having been raped violently with no chance to get lube because my sibling from hell of my adoptive parents wanted me to feel as much pain as possible because I was not a real member of his family.   He then did something that to this day hurts more than the rape, after he was done and got what he wanted he rolled over in my tiny bed and fell asleep.  He slept in my own bed! (Later he claimed the excuse he had been drinking and I should just forget it) Something broke in me.  I did something I never did before.  Looking back, I am not sure what I felt, but I got up out of the bed and went through the mobile home to the adoptive parent’s room and took the 30 30 gun off the rack and opened the drawer in the bedroom I knew the bullets were in and left.  Unlike the other hell spawn, I never had gotten to use or learn the guns, but I understood enough from watching the others.   I never woke anyone.   I loaded the gun on the way back to my room.   I went back to my room and put that gun to that male sibling’s head and went to pull the trigger, his goading words ringing in my head as the pain from what he did rang though my body making every step a fresh prodding of the wound.      To this day even as an atheist / nonbeliever in the supernatural I will swear under oath what happened next is true.   I am not saying it is supernatural, but I am saying this is my memory of the event.

As I put the gun barrel to his head and prepared to take my revenge on that drunken asshole who had just gloated as he hurt raped me, I heard a voice.  I think all the things the voice said I don’t remember clearly these days.   But the voice started with a strong “No, Don’t! Stop”! Then continued with “This is not who you are, not what you will be”!   “Don’t let them make you what they are, be the person you can be”!  There were more words in my head and to tell the truth at my age they are tending to blur out.   But the voice was pleading with me to not pull the trigger and to not be what these hateful bastards wanted to make me. 

 I made a decision that night that I have never regretted.  I put the gun back after emptying the bullets, put everything back and vowed I would never be like the vindictive hurtful people who adopted me.   I would take everything they forced on me and I would still become the kind of person I wanted to be, the kind of person I respected.    I tell this story because we really don’t know what the full story is of Ethan Crumbley and why he felt such a need to take others’ lives.   Was he also being hurt raped?  Was he being kept hungry while others ate?  Looking at my own life I could have been him, as if I had pulled that trigger that night why would I have stopped at just the one in my bed, why wouldn’t I have gone after all of them.   Do you see why I have sympathy for this kid?  We don’t know what was going on in his life.   We do know what his parents did, they lied, ran and tried to escape justice by hiding.   

OK I have to get away from this and from these thoughts.   I have decided to make a red sauce for spaghetti tonight.   Ron has tried to help direct me toward that and I will do so as it is a good Idea.   The combination of my old memories (for those that think the pain or humiliation fades, for me it doesn’t.  In my nightmares that Ron tries to wake me from they are as fresh as the times it happened) and the loops in my head are threatening to bring the vortex in, something I really cannot afford.   So Ron will make a pork loin to go with the stuff I make.    Hugs, loves, and so many thanks to everyone.   

 

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/oakland/2022/10/24/ethan-crumbley-guilty-plea-live-updates-trial-oxford-school-shooting/69584505007/?utm_campaign=snd-autopilot

In my last post I wrote about watching this video, yet I was so upset I forgot to include the link.   Here is the link and story.   Damn he looks so young to me, how can he understand what life in prison means?  His world view and education seem so limited, and his answers while looking down seem to me he is drugged.   Well in his position I would need to be highly drugged to even stand there.    

 

https://www.freep.com/story/news/local/michigan/oakland/2022/10/24/ethan-crumbley-guilty-plea-live-updates-trial-oxford-school-shooting/69584505007/?utm_campaign=snd-autopilot

My heart is breaking.   My thoughts on his future, the pain in his life now.   I am not talking just emotional pain because I know the families that lost their children are going through that also.   I am talking the physical / emotional pain of being raped and being scared every day of your life of being attacked.    The parents of the murdered kids won’t face that and damn it that is not what a justice system in an advanced first world country should be about.  There is a reason the US has a large recidivism rate and countries like Norway don’t.   They treat their criminals like people, they treat their prisoners with respect as they do the entire population of their country.    They make sure to understand the reason why the prisoner did what they did and tailor the sentence to fix that.   The US has become a very vengeful sadistic place.   Even our congressional republican office holders want to hurt the others, they brag about humiliating and harming them.   My Dogs That Love Gravy, how does that make us a better country?   It drives us to the level of Afghanistan and Iran with the Taliban / moral police.   I stopped throwing up and Ron went to take a nap.   But I am still so upset and my mind won’t stop or settle, I keep reliving the abuse I took for 17 years on a loop, while thinking I got paroled / released after 17 years but Ethan has his entire life to suffer it, no matter how long he lives.   I cannot deal with that; I cannot imagine my life if my abuse and fears had continued until today or I died.   I would beg for death.   Death would be a mercy.   Go to go my stomach starting to roil writing this and if I start throwing up again Ron will unplug the computers.    Hugs

‘Trans kids are not new’: a historian on the long record of youth transitioning in America

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/apr/01/trans-children-history-jules-gill-peterson-interview

Many people have bought into the right wing talking point that trans people are a new fad.   But the truth is just like sexual orientation people have been born with a different gender than their birth identified sex for as long as there have been people.   Another right wing talking point shown to be incorrect and wrong.     Hugs

Republicans seeking to restrict children’s lives claim trans youth are a ‘new phenomenon’. Jules Gill-Peterson explains how medical archives prove them wrong

Jules Gill-Peterson portrait
Jules Gill-Peterson: ‘Children and youth have been finding access to trans medicine and transition as long as there has been medical transition.’ Photograph: Courtesy Jules Gill-Peterson
 

Republican lawmakers pushing to restrict transgender children’s lives have repeatedly argued that trans kids are a “new phenomenon” and that gender-affirming treatments and policies are “experimental”.

But Jules Gill-Peterson, a professor of gender, sexuality and women’s studies at the University of Pittsburgh, has found extensive evidence of trans youth in the US living as themselves and fighting to transition in decades-old archival documents. The records from American hospitals and clinics date back to the early 20th century, with examples across the US well before the existence of contemporary language on trans identity.

 

The Guardian recently spoke to the Histories of the Transgender Child author about her research and its implications as Republicans push legislation to restrict trans youths’ access to sports teams and outlaw gender-affirming healthcare. This conversation has been edited and condensed for clarity.

 
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Why was it important to you to research the history of trans kids?

In the past 10 years, we’ve seen this sudden visibility of trans kids. There’s a lot more representation. But the common refrain is, “Trans people are so new” and “Trans kids, my gosh! They didn’t even exist until recently.” And I started to think about what happens when you’re part of a group that gets framed as brand new. There’s this cloak of caution and fear around trans kids, this idea that “We don’t know what it means for a child to transition”. That “this is all an experiment”. I had a sense as a historian that these ideas were probably not true and wanted to do historical research that would challenge this, by showing that trans kids have been around for a long time.

How far back were you able to find documentation?

What I uncovered in the research is that children and youth have been finding access to trans medicine and transition as long as there has been medical transition – as far back as the 1930s and 40s. But even prior to that, children certainly lived trans lives where they would socially transition in childhood. I found evidence in the US that families and communities would accept children as a different gender than the one they were assigned at birth, let them go to school, use the correct bathroom, all of the things that are being fought over now. We can see that 70 or 80 years ago, we were actually in a more progressive place in some areas.

What pieces of evidence were particularly telling?

I found handwritten letters from trans kids to a famous endocrinologist, Harry Benjamin, who was known for providing trans healthcare. In the 60s and 70s, they would say, “I’m X years old. I’m a transsexual. I read about that in the news” or “I looked up your work at a library, and it describes who I am”. They were from all over the country and they would ask if Dr Benjamin could see them, send them hormones, give them a permit to wear the clothes they wanted, talk to their family or teacher. It was young kids knowing really clearly that they were trans and going toe-to-toe with medical professionals. Suddenly, I had not only proof that kids were trans, but that they contacted doctors and tried to transition the best they could. It speaks to the remarkable ingenuity and resilience that trans young people have had for a really long time. And it’s pretty unimpeachable evidence that this is not a new social phenomenon. It’s not some trendy thing that kids are picking up now.

Are there specific stories that stuck with you?

One of the other incredible archival finds was this woman Val, a trans woman who in the 1950s was trying to get surgery in Wisconsin. In the hospital, she did an interview with a psychologist and talked about her childhood, growing up in the early 1930s in a small town in rural Wisconsin. She says from as far back as she could remember, she knew she was a girl. There was no trans language in that household, but her parents accepted her. There was an understanding of what that meant, socially, without any need for a medical diagnosis. So her family raised her as a girl and arranged for her to go to school as a girl. Now, there are dozens of bills that claim we have to restrict trans kids because “we’ve never seen kids like this before”, but in reality we can look almost 90 years ago and see a trans kid who was accepted by her family.

What did you learn about who has actually had access to care throughout the history of trans medicine?

One of the biggest lines of difference was racial. White trans people were seen as having a problem in their gender development that could be corrected, and in fact must be corrected because of this inherently racist idea that white civilization must have its gender norms. So right from the start, we see that white trans kids get way more access to medical care.

 
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Black trans children in particular are almost completely shut out. Instead of receiving medical care, they are much more likely to be arrested or institutionalized, put in the foster care system or juvenile detention. And they are much more likely to be diagnosed as delusional, schizophrenic or something else that blatantly ignores what they know about themselves.

How does that legacy of exclusion tie into the current efforts to outlaw gender-affirming treatments?

Most trans people do not have access to gender-affirming care. They never have, it’s never been the reality. We’re not even close. It’s primarily upper-middle-class and white well-educated families that actually have the time and the money to access care. So we’re now facing the proposition of banning forms of healthcare that almost no trans kids even have access to. The possibility of making things better and righting historical wrongs will stop with these bills.

And it’s a direct continuation of this history that is also a racial history. There is a lot of disposable income and time required to get care. If you have a trans kid, you need to advocate constantly and show up and testify against the bills. So working-class families, families of color, people with less resources are way less able to do what it takes right now to access pediatric gender-affirming care.

Why do you think trans kids in particular have become such a culture war target?

Mainstream LGBT organizations for a long time weren’t trans-inclusive, and trans activists long warned that focusing on gay marriage would leave behind other LGBT people who are vulnerable and wouldn’t be protected by marriage – like trans people and youth. And that seems to really have come true. Trans rights have been turned into a wedge issue. And children are really easy targets, because we don’t grant them the privilege to speak for themselves and defend their own interests. So they are used as pawns.

 
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Rightwing conservatives have been recycling the same language that we saw 15 to 20 years ago around gays and lesbians – the language of “child endangerment”, “grooming”, “pedophilia”, the need to “protect children” and “protect schools” through really restrictive laws. The focus on children is part of a coordinated effort and it’s not just in the US. We see it in the UK where there is no real access to gender-affirming treatments if you’re under 18. There’s a media campaign to shift the discourse to focusing on children’s transitions with all sorts of moral panics. It’s a really disturbing coalition, because you’ve got rightwing white supremacist evangelicals, but you also have politicians in the mainstream and people on the left who are trans-exclusionary and claim to be feminists. It’s a perfect storm.

How do you think people should be responding to Arkansas passing the first trans healthcare ban in the US this week?

This should be a wake-up call for a lot of folks. It’s no longer hypothetical. This is the time for people to reach out to the governor of Arkansas, but also to get involved in their own states and ask what they can do now before we see another passage of one of these bills. We should also be thinking more broadly, so we’re not just reacting over and over again to these bills. In some ways trans healthcare is analogous to reproductive rights and abortion. If you make it illegal, the need for care doesn’t go away. So we should be thinking about how we make this kind of care available to young people and how to show up for these children and their families, and not just make these laws the be-all-end-all.

Florida Puts Raging MAGA Moms on Book-Banning Council

https://www.thedailybeast.com/florida-puts-raging-maga-moms-on-book-banning-council?ref=scroll

This is far more invasive and serious than the way it started, which was an attack on trans kids.  Now the drive is to only allow materials, books, and teaching a hard right ideology from the 1950s.   What next for parents’ rights in school, the right of racist white parents to have their white children not be in classrooms with black students?   Is that also going to be the next step in regressing the country?  The right of Christian kids to not be in classrooms with kids who are not Christian?   Where does a single bigoted parents demands stop?   Notice one of the proud book ban women brags about taking away other parents rights to let their kids read the books with the forbidden knowledge in them, it is not about controlling their children it is all about controlling yours.    They already teach their child racist bigoted regressive stuff, they feel they must prevent other parents from teach their children tolerance, acceptance of LGBTQ+, and diversity as a good thing.   These people cannot have any kids getting that message.  It has long passed the time this is scary; this is US Taliban and moral police territory.    The article is a bit long but not bad, and it is a highly informative important read.    The last paragraph sums it up nicely.    Hugs

“The goal is to have the most conservative counties determine what the rest of the state has access to. It’s to allow a conservative ideology to hold rank over the rest of us,” said the project’s co-founder, Stephana Ferrell. “That’s what all of this is about. The attack on teachers, the banning of books—they need parents to not trust public education, so that they’re fed up and take taxpayer dollars into the for-profit education sector.”


‘A PLEASURE TO BURN’
 

Florida’s Education Department has quietly selected right-wingers for a book-banning council that’ll re-train public school librarians.

EXCLUSIVE

Photo Illustration by Thomas Levinson/The Daily Beast/Getty

 
 

In the name of “curriculum transparency,” Florida’s Republican-controlled state government has appointed several anti-gay and anti-mask conspiracy theorists to take charge of a new effort at public schools: banning books.

This hastily assembled censorship council—tasked with retraining public school librarians to abide by new restrictions—is the latest ploy in Gov. Ron DeSantis’ crusade to upend the state’s education system.

But the council was also staffed under suspicious circumstances, with the state Education Department ignoring its own call for official candidates from local school districts and instead filling most of the slots with right-wing activists who have a history of proposing book bans. One was even nominated by a religious activist with close ties to the DeSantis administration a week before the department publicly called for candidates, according to government emails, hinting at secret coordination between them.

“It calls into question the process that the Florida State Board of Education is trying to implement. It raises significant transparency questions,” said Megan Uzzell at Democracy Forward, which obtained those government emails.

 

While the “parent workgroup” is only getting started, the Education Department’s recent meeting in Orlando last week revealed how the state is positioning itself to spread those controls from school libraries to teachers’ classrooms.

As the meeting ended, Clinton McCkracken, the head of the Orange County teachers union, made a comment to another parent: “I don’t know what to tell my teachers.”

The recent episode began with an Aug. 12 memo from Education Department senior chancellor Jacob Oliva. The memo called for local school districts to nominate “parents of students in K-12 schools for representation on a workgroup”—one charged with creating mandatory “training” that would guide librarians statewide on how to follow new library censorship rules signed into law by Gov. DeSantis earlier this year. School districts had a week to submit the names of qualified nominees.

The Education Department passed on nearly 100 potentially qualified applicants with relevant experience, records show. In Brevard County alone, it ignored the five submissions made by the bipartisan local school board, including the nomination of a former elementary school assistant principal, the director of Eastern Florida State College’s tutoring centers, and the administrator of a local scholarship fund.

Instead, the department went with a woman who nominated herself: Michelle Beavers.

While other candidates have teaching experience, Beavers’ bona fides consist of right-wing activism. She leads the local chapter of Moms for Liberty, a MAGA contingent that has antagonized her school board for years over mask mandates—and allied with DeSantis for his recent attempt to outlaw critical race theory in schools.

Since then, Beavers has been actively seeking to ban books. In March, she emailed a Brevard County assistant superintendent about what was then the 19th title on her growing list of targets: the coming-of-age comic book This One Summer, which mentions lesbians and shows teenagers engaging in typical crude humor.

Beavers thanked the assistant superintendent for her “efforts to get this material vetted and hopefully out of our minors hands.” In other emails, Beavers identifies herself as the “head of the Library Book Committee,” explaining that she built a “comprehensive report” that reviews all of the “offensive items” in certain books. She warned about “books that are porn” and opposed a parent opt-out program in a specious and sweeping statement full of grammatical errors.

“These books violate the law, it’s a felony. So why would you try and still defend there [sic] existence by letting parents opt out?” she wrote.

Beavers and the other three appointed parents are now in a working group that is finalizing the presentation that will be used to train school librarians statewide.

 
The Sanctity of DeSantis

The marching orders come from the top. In March, Gov. DeSantis said parental rights should be at the helm of a child’s education.

“We are not going to let politicians deny parents the right to know what is being taught in our schools. I’m proud to sign this legislation that ensures curriculum transparency,” the governor said in a statement at the time.

“While teachers, school administrators, and school board members have a tremendous amount of authority over what and how our kids are taught in school, at the end of the day, parents—not schools—are responsible for raising children,” added Florida state Republican Senate Leader Wilton Simpson.

 
“The state has created a situation that is harming students.”
— Clinton McCkracken, head of the Orange County teachers union

Last week’s Education Department meeting was the latest example of the encroaching restrictions, when it unanimously voted to implement rules guaranteeing so-called “parental rights.” The department determined that parents must be notified if their child uses a school restroom or locker room that does not correlate with the child’s sex assigned at birth.

Meanwhile, censorship measures that initially targeted school libraries were extended to individual teachers’ classroom collections, which must now “be reviewed by a district employee holding a valid educational media specialist certificate,” according to Florida’s state website. The board also decided that educators could lose their teaching certifications if they do not comply with the state’s Parental Rights in Education law.

 
Bad Apples

At Wednesday’s meeting, state education board member Grazie Pozo Christie, a senior fellow for The Catholic Association, cited the need “to hold teachers accountable” for those she called “some bad apples.”

Teachers already suffer through poor working conditions, low pay, and staff shortages—being subject to state review of classroom books adds even more to their plates, McCracken, the Orange County teachers union head, said in an interview with The Daily Beast.

“The board voted… to require that all of those books have to be cataloged now. Which, of course, is an arduous task for teachers who may have hundreds of those books. So, in effect, for a lot of those teachers, that means that those classroom libraries won’t be available to students any longer until we can figure out how to manage that,” he said. “Laws like this are created to demonize public education.”

McCracken criticized how the meeting was scheduled in a way that would conflict with teachers’ work schedules and low salaries: 9 a.m. on a school day at a hotel with a hefty price tag for paid parking.

Despite emotional testimonies from concerned teachers, the board didn’t budge.

Teachers who have taken years to build their classroom book collections—available to students who can’t always take solo trips to the library—will now be burdened with the task of indexing their own shelves for so-called content restrictions, McCracken said.

“The classroom library has been an amazing tool for teachers to be able to inspire kids to read,” McCkracken said.

“So what are those kids going to do if the libraries aren’t there?” he asked. “They’ll have less access to important material that would inspire them to read and to learn. The state has created a situation that is harming students.”

 
Book Burning Training

The little-known and quickly assembled “work group” developing this book ban training is a pivotal part of this effort—which makes it all the stranger that the Education Department engaged in what critics are calling a bad faith effort to staff it.

Two parents who applied for Florida’s Department of Education media workgroup told The Daily Beast they raised their hands because they were interested in the books being challenged in schools.

“I’m very familiar with the research of psychological research for children, where it can be disruptive to introduce some of the pornographic material early or over-sexualized material early,” said Hillary Earle, who applied for the media group after seeing an announcement on the neighborhood app NextDoor.

Despite her years of academic and mediation accolades, as well as an endorsement from a school board member, Earle didn’t know she wasn’t selected for the media workgroup until her interview with The Daily Beast.

“This is the first I’m hearing of it,” she said. “I haven’t received anything: a phone call, an interview, anything.”

By contrast, Scott Rooke received a Brevard County school board member endorsement after expressing previous interest in children’s reading material. But he only discovered he wasn’t selected by way of a blog, Account Baloney. He immediately recognized the names of two Moms for Liberty members who did make it: Michelle Beavers and Jennifer Pippin.

The parent-membership seems slanted from the start when I just saw those two names,” he said.

The woman that took his place, Pippin, was not officially recommended by a school district. Instead, emails show, her name was submitted by Keith Flaugh, a childless conservative activist whose “Florida Citizens Alliance” has closely advised DeSantis for years on reforming public schools to combat “cultural Marxism” and “LGBTQ values” in favor of “Judeo-Christian family values.”

When discussing proposed training for librarians and media center employees at a recent working group meeting, Pippin, who drove and sat in her car for the duration of the meeting, chimed in to remind everyone, “I’m not a media center specialist,” noting she didn’t even understand some of the abbreviations being used in the mandated materials she intends to craft.

A third MAGA mom now on the book banning work group is Jamie Merchant, a member of “Mamas for DeSantis” whose summer reading included the book Crimes of the Educators, a call to demolish American public schools written by two known conspiracy theorists—one of whom runs a website that warns about “cancer deaths from the COVID jabs.”

Contentious Consensus

By all accounts, the panel tasked with developing the oncoming mandatory librarian training for the Education Board is a slow-moving train wreck. When the group reviewed the PowerPoint slides at their recent meeting last week, the department’s director of instructional materials, Amber Baumbach, punted on presenting what would obviously be the most controversial and contentious material.

Faced with questions about disagreements, the group director revealed that the Education Department might soon get two versions of the presentation—in what critics like Stephana Ferrell with Florida Freedom to Read Project expect to be a sane version and one that caters to the crazies. The DeSantis administration—which has already spent considerable energy attacking “woke” culture—would decide which option to take.

“If we can’t reach a consensus…it is possible for us to route two different versions of the training,” one of the options that we have is to provide two different points of view,” Baumbach said.

The working group is scheduled to meet again publicly this coming Tuesday, when it will present the slides that address what these conservatives deem offensive material—and is expected to spark more protests from worried parent groups already battling these book bans, like Florida Freedom to Read Project.

“The goal is to have the most conservative counties determine what the rest of the state has access to. It’s to allow a conservative ideology to hold rank over the rest of us,” said the project’s co-founder, Stephana Ferrell. “That’s what all of this is about. The attack on teachers, the banning of books—they need parents to not trust public education, so that they’re fed up and take taxpayer dollars into the for-profit education sector.”