I would like everyone to see the above cartoon and understand it.  As a teen and young adult I got asked about my sexual orientation constantly.  “Are you gay?” “Are you a faggot?” “Do you suck dick”, “Do you take it up the ass”. Those questions did not stop being asked when I became an adult.  They just became more invasive as people felt more emboldened to ask how this or feels? Or how do you do this or that?  As an adult when those questions came from people who were people I knew or were friends, I answered them as honestly as possible because I felt they were honest but sometimes they were not.  But as a teen those questions tore everything inside me apart and due to the times and hate against gay people I felt compelled to lie, which made me hate my self / situation even more. I understand straight people are curious, and in truth there is a lot of misinformation out there being preached by church leaders and others about LGBTQ+ people. However, some of the questions I got were so personal and about stuff that was so personal I often wondered what the reactions would be if I asked those questions of straight friends / people.  How do you do it, what possitions do you use? Do you do special preparations? Does it hurt a lot, and the one that drives me crazy, “have you tried it with a woman or females as you know you might like it”.  OK so have you tried it with a same sex partner?  That drives me crazy because when I ask for the reverse back they look stunned and ask why they should answer such personal questions. Sadly, I have so many females tell me if I would only have sex with them I would not be gay anymore.  Hugs

I am a bit fragile so when I looked up the Spanish meaning of the above word and read it meant bunny I started to cry and it went into sobs.  How I wished I had some warm safe place and someone who loved me at his age to welcome me home.  That poor child will have PTSD all his life.  Sorry it has been a long day for me.   Hugs