Some times we all need someone to understand

Dealing With Christians Using The Bible Against The LGTBQ+

At the end of the video the Reverend says our only job is to love god  by loving others.  The only question is … how much will you love.   Good thoughts in this video.  Had the church been like this when I was a teen, had the church been inclusive like this when I was a little boy being molested by the Pastor I would have stayed in the faith, in the church.  I might not have believed in the magic parts of the bible and I might have quibbled over the facts, but I would have stayed for the community. The environment of people who enjoyed each other’s company and loved the comradery of fellowship.  Sadly the churches I saw as a child, as a teen, and as an adult lost people because rather than love, they clung to hate.  The joy of feeling better than some other group, of being able to look down on them, to revel in negative emotions meant more to them than hugging those different that maybe they did not understand.  They set themselves up as god judging others.  Not as a loving flock, but as deciders over who was worthy to be in the flock.  They were not the sheep, they wanted to be the Sheppard.  Hugs

Comment… “Does it bother you devil worshippers want more christians like you?”

Neil deGrasse Tyson, The Trans Community, And “Rising To The Occasion”

Wow oh wow!  This is a great video and a must watch video if you support trans people.  I wouldn’t have expected a man of the Christian faith to come out for trans people but never would have expected them to do this that strongly and seriously.  I watched it twice to be sure I heard what I did.  After I post this I will watch it again.  I am not even sure how to post this in the labels.  Hugs and loves.  This is why I really like this Christian man.  Hugs

This is the comment I left on this post.  I wonder if he will reply.  Hugs

Hello Rev. I had only commented once before where I asked you if a caring loving atheist such as myself could find a place in your god’s paradise. You welcomed me and told me I did not have to believe in the supernatural but live a decent life helping others as I could, which I had said I did, you replied I was totally accepted by your god. I was honestly surprised by your answer. Since then I have followed your channel and often posted it to my blog. Most of my readers are not religious but all are caring wonderful people of different faiths, sexual orientations, and some are trans. But all have found wisdom in your videos. I thank you for this one. The trans community and trans kids are under heavy attack in the US. I suspect because it undermines the cis straight majority that has long ruled the US, but also driven by religious people who feel this allowing their children to be who they wee born to be, LGBTQ+ is an affront to their god they will be held to account for. Thank you, Hugs. Scottie

MAGA And The Danger Of Empathy

Migrants, Prisoners, The Poor; No Conditions On Our Love

For compassion and love for each other

This morning I woke at 3 and tossed / turned until nearly 4 am.  I got up, fed cats, cleaned cat litter boxes, made my coffee.  Then started my day online by first going to the Male Survivor site where I responded to those who had commented on my post.  Then I started reading the new posts from others.   This one I wanted to share with all of you.  When I was using the VA for my healthcare from the mid 1990s to the early 2000s, we had a saying.  “There but for grace go I”.  So many had it worse than I did I would think yet they were happy it seemed, not bitter, living the best life they could.  I met people who were WW2 POWs and who struggled with shrapnel still seeping from their skin who did not let that destroy life for them.   Then I was young and did not understand.  Now I am old … er and think I am beginning to.  Hugs.  

Plus in my morning video feed I found this waiting for me.   Hugs.

Episcopal Bishops Encouraging Flock To Stand Up For Migrants

I like this person and his teachings.  Clearly.  In truth had he been the one to save me as a 17 yr old beaten boy hiding in his barn I think he may have still sent me to a church school to protect me but he wouldn’t have then expected me to go on and become a priest in their religion.  I couldn’t tell my savior who wanted that from me why I rejected his strong demand / offer and instead went into the military was that I was gay.  I had accepted it to myself.  I was well versed enough in the acts of it due to my abuse to know that along with my internal emotions about guys vs women that the acts themselves did not repulse me.  Just the way they were forced on me. Remember I had been forced to please females as well as males since I was 3 years old and I understood my attractions were to males.  I was very gay.  Instead I think he would have asked me my goals and I would have had to tell him the mystical parts of the religion I had issues with … but the reason I need to withdraw was I was gay.  If he responded as he did in my comment to him, then I would have stayed in his congregation.  Not believing the magic parts of the religion but the community and acceptance that their god has for those different.   Rev. Ed Trevors admits he doesn’t preach facts, he preaches faith, and much of what he stresses is things as a humanest I can fully endorse. 

I do wonder with his … more violent past if he had found a badly beaten very thin small 17 year old boy who told him he was being abuse if he would have done more than force the parents … well in their mind’s owner of the boy to let him leave.  But again maybe that is my hopes / emotions talking over my understanding of reality.   Hugs