Sorry but if you are obcessing over the genitalia of children, you are the same as those that used my little boy body for their pleasure.  Let kids be themselves. Let them discover and explore who they are in their own time. Remember, they are constantly bombarded with cis straight inages, videos, and media. If that won’t turn them cis and straight, then trust that reading a book or watching a movie that had LGBTQ+ people in it did not turn the child either. They are born as they are feeling; accept it and cherish them. If you don’t, trust me abusers will. And the child won’t have a say in that at all.  I have been there and lived that.  Hugs

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our cat thinks my desk is his space also.    Hugs

I desperately hope the below is a fake.   But we have all seen the photos / pictures of her in his lap as a teen, and he himself has talked of wanting to … have sex with her.   As an abuse survivor I hope she was not abused, but the reasonable thinking person I am says she clearly was.   Hugs