Marlon Wayans Says He Went From βDenial to Complete Acceptanceβ of His Trans Son Kai
In a revealing podcast interview, the comedian said the process βtook me a week.β
By Abby Monteil
Marlon Wayans is opening up about his 24-year-old trans son Kai, and the importance of parenting with βcomplete acceptance.β
The comedian appeared alongside his brother Damon Wayans on the April 30 episode of the IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson podcast. While discussing parenting advice, Marlon said that Kaiβs transition βtaught me what real, unconditional love was.β
βWhen they went through the transition, I actually went through the transition,β he said. βI went from denial to complete acceptance, and it took me a week to get there.β
Wayans joked that although he believes βonly God can judgeβ¦ If thatβs a mistake and we get to heaven and God donβt let my child in, Iβm going to shave a beard and sneak them in through the back.β
βIβm going to love my babyβ¦ Iβm a father, and Iβm always going to defend them,β he continued. βIβm always going to protect them. Iβm always going to respect them. And thereβs nothing anybody could ever tell me.β
The White Chicks star added that when it comes to the publicβs reaction to him supporting Kai, he could care less about losing fans in the process.
βI lost people that are small-minded, small-hearted, and self-loathing,β he said. βSo, goodbyeβ¦ For every one I lose, I gain 150 more.β
This isnβt the first time that Wayans has used his platform to support Kai and other trans youth. Back in February, the actor defended his son after Soulja Boy called him a transphobic slur while publicly feuding with Wayans.
βYou know you can get cancelled for transphobic slander like this,β he tweeted at the time. βFortunately for you that you donβt have a career. Apparently, You BEEN cancelled for the last 17 years. Crank that was 2007. We waiting.β
Wayans previously opened up about supporting Kai during a September 2024 appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show, explaining that after his son came out, βI went through the five stages of grief to get to the beautiful, magical place called acceptance.β
βI learned that my family, my brothers, my sisters, have prepared me to be a rock in our family,β he said. β[Kai is] the same child they was before, theyβve just got a beard now. Okay. Same baby.β





