For those that don’t know the Kobayashi Maru is a no win situation in Star Trek to train cadets. It is how I see life right now. No way to win, I can only survive.

#Kobayashi Maru from What Are You Really Afraid Of?

The video is long and I lost interest. But I am trying to find my dance and the new day that Samwise speaks of. I hope you find your dance also. Hugs

New Findings From The Stone Age

I think Cosmos has found other evidence of burying tools with women, in the very early days. I remember posting something several months ago.

Tools buried with women challenge Stone Age stereotype

September 14, 2025 Velentina Boulter

Stone Age tools. Credit: University of York

Researchers have discovered that women and children were just as likely as men to be buried with stone tools at a Stone Age grave site, challenging the assumption that such tools were associated only with men.

Working with the Latvian National Museum of History, the team analysed artefacts and stone tools found in the Zvejnieki cemetery in Latvia – one of the largest Stone Age burial sites.

Zvejnieki cemetery was used for more than 5,000 years and contains over 330 graves.

The researchers focused their study on stone tools made from materials like flint and quartz, which date to between 7500 and 2500 BCE during the Neolithic period. These kinds of tools are often dismissed by researchers as utilitarian and uninteresting.

“The site in Latvia has seen numerous investigations of the skeletal remains and other types of grave goods, such as thousands of animal teeth pendants,” says Dr Aimée Little, from the University of York in the UK.

“A missing part of the story was understanding, with greater depth, why people gave seemingly utilitarian items to the dead.”

The researchers analysed the tools using a multiproxy approach which involved considering technological, spatial, depositional and geological information about the stone tools.

Despite the long-standing belief that women in the Stone Age played more of a domestic role, while men did the hunting, the analysis found that women were just as, if not more, likely to be buried with stone tools.

“Our findings overturn the old stereotype of “Man the Hunter” which has been a dominant theme in Stone Age studies, and has even influenced, on occasion, how some infants have even been sexed, on the basis that they were given lithic tools,” says Little.

The results also showed that children were the most likely age group to have been buried with these tools. The full analysis of the burial site has been published in PLOS One.

The researchers suggest that these stone tools must have played a more significant role in Stone Age society than previously assumed.

While some of the tools discovered were used to work animal hides, others seemed to have been specifically made and then broken – almost as though they were a part of a mourning ceremony or ritual.

“This research demonstrates that we cannot make these gendered assumptions and that lithic grave goods played an important role in the mourning rituals of children and women, as well as men,” says Dr Anđa Petrović from the University of Belgrade, Serbia.

Previous studies have uncovered similar traditions of deliberately breaking tools before burying them with the deceased across the eastern Baltic region, suggesting some sort of shared ritual tradition. Comparable funerary practices have also been observed in graves from a similar time period in Finland.

“The study highlights how much more there is to learn about the lives – and deaths – of Europe’s earliest communities, and why even the seemingly simplest objects can unlock insights about our shared human past and how people responded to death,” says Little.

Originally published by Cosmos as Tools buried with women challenge Stone Age stereotype

R.E.M. – Everybody Hurts (Official HD Music Video)

Sorry struggling to function.  Spent the entire morning barely watching news unable to deal with everything.  Decided to instead do what I enjoy.  I took one of my computers apart to check it, and did a clean on both.   I wish I could explain.   Hugs.

Separation of Church and Hate – Now On Sale

The Trump Slump Is Real

Both Ron and I worked ICUs and we have seen people who had strokes.  I had a small stroke in early 2023.  Ron and I agree that tRump has suffered a stroke and that was why he was out of sight for a week and why he has repeated bruising on his hand.  Hugs

And Now For Something Different-

” … to serve man …”

Josh Johnson’s Set This Week

I don’t know if the Crocs bit is in this; I’m listening now as I’m posting. Enjoy!

PS: The crocs bit is in!

Is It Me, Or Is This Creepy? I Don’t

get why this exists. If you don’t care to read the story, you can also listen, just click on through.

ON EDIT: As I read through, posted, then digested this, I still don’t like it, and am not sure how truly useful this could be. That said, someone somewhere may be able to help it learn to fulfill a need they have, and that would be a reason for this tech to exist, so my apologies for being that strident about it.

I Hate My Friend

The chatbot-enabled Friend necklace eavesdrops on your life and provides a running commentary that’s snarky and unhelpful. Worse, it can also make the people around you uneasy.

The AI-powered Friend pendant is now out in the world. If you live in the US or Canada, you can buy one for $129.

The smooth plastic disc is just under 2 inches in diameter; it looks and feels a little like a beefy Apple AirTag. Inside are some LEDs and a Bluetooth radio that connects you (through your iPhone) to a chatbot in the cloud that’s powered by Google’s Gemini 2.5 model. You can tap on the disc to ask your Friend questions as it dangles around your neck, and it responds to your voice prompts by sending you text messages through the companion app. You can reply to these messages with your voice or via text to keep the conversation going.

It also listens to whatever you’re doing as you move through the world, no tap required, and offers a running commentary on the interactions you have throughout your day. To perform that trick, the device has microphones that are always activated.

If the idea of a microphone-packed wearable that’s always listening to your conversations raises privacy concerns for you, just know that you’re not alone. If your experience is anything like ours, wearing the Friend will likely earn you the ire of everyone around you. Curiously, you might even end up being bullied by the chatbot itself. (snip-see the page for MORE, or to listen.)

Let’s talk about grocery loans for middle income Americans….